This is an advertising company. Zhang Fengbi will come to the company for half a year tomorrow night. He and Zhou Ming belong to the same department, but he belongs to different groups. Zhang Feng always smirked and occasionally joked with his colleagues. He is the oldest in the department-35 years old.
Nowadays, the staff of advertising companies tend to be younger, and the company has been reorganized, so several "old people" in their thirties have been removed. Unexpectedly, Zhang Feng, who is usually invisible, has now become the leader of Zhou Ming.
Zhou Ming has some affection for Zhang Feng and thinks he is very simple. Besides, he is from the countryside, and he must have rich experience in this powerful company if he can go to Beijing for development. Besides being stupid, his frugality also left a deep impression on his colleagues. ...
Many times, Zhou Ming feels that he must follow the right people in his work. This time, he was reorganized as Zhang Feng's subordinate. Zhou Ming is very satisfied: Zhang Feng's concern won't hurt him.
Then there was a big project in the company, and everyone put a lot of thought into it, adding overtime to more than ten o'clock every day. Zhou Ming's department is responsible for publicity and planning.
In the past, every time I received a big project, team members would come up with their own plans and finally choose the best one. It happened that Zhang Feng, the new official, was slow to hold a meeting to discuss. What's going on here? The impatient Zhou Ming found Zhang Feng. His answer is: "The company has just been reorganized, and it will not be easy at first. This time, Zhou Ming will be responsible for planning. "
Zhou Ming has nothing to say. According to company regulations, only those who participate in planning can earn money, and good ideas will get extra bonuses. Successful planning can gain fame and fortune, and Zhang Feng obviously has his intention.
After several incidents, Zhou Ming found that Zhang Feng was actually very calculating and cunning. Many of his plans were carefully selected from others and transformed. He will also incorporate everyone's good ideas into himself.
Soon, unexpected things happened, and Zhou really knew each other.
When Zhou Ming came back from a three-day business trip, he found that several plans that should be made by Zhou Ming were taken over by Zhang Feng. Zhou Ming's creativity, Zhang Feng's signature and a plan were praised by customers, and the boss gave Zhang Feng a lot of bonuses.
Zhou Ming was very angry and found Zhang Feng. Before Zhou Ming spoke, Zhang Feng apologetically explained to Zhou Ming that the customer wanted too much and there was no way out. Originally, he just wanted to take Zhou Ming's planning book to deal with it. I didn't expect the customer to be very satisfied and had to do it. He also said that he had told his boss that the bonus was free.
Having said that, it is not good to say anything more. Friction at work is inevitable. Besides, he is Zhou Ming's direct boss, as long as the customers are satisfied. ...
Unexpectedly, Zhang Feng left in two days! It was because of that award-winning planning book that it was poached by another company.
He took away Zhou Ming's customers and many customers of the company. ...
He left so suddenly that the company suddenly fell into a trough.
Later, Zhou Ming understood that because he suffered from poverty and hardship, he longed for success and must do whatever it takes. People in a small place can take root in a big city, which shows that he is not simple. But for more than a year, everyone thinks he is honest.
The lesson of this incident for Zhou Ming is that some people are terrible. The terrible thing is that others don't know his (her) potential heart. He or she may stab you in the back while smiling at you. Therefore, for those who look honest, we should guard against him without knowing his true face. After all, it is inevitable to meet such people, or to get along with such people. It's wrong to be cold to him. Be polite on the surface. The man who is unmoved is the master of life.
During the Tang Dynasty, at a lecture held in Huo Zhuoji, Guangzhou, two monks were arguing about the reason why flags were flying in the wind. One said, if there is no wind, how can the banner move? So the wind is moving. Another retort: How do you know the wind is moving unless it beats? So it's moving. The two held their own words. Huineng, the sixth ancestor, said to them: It is neither wind nor movement, but your hearts are moving!
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Han, the son of Song State, was in power, and someone offered him jade, but he refused. Jade man said: this is a rare treasure. Zi Han replied: You value jade, but I value not greed. If I accept your jade, won't you and I both lose our treasure? Another story is that Cao Nai, an official of the Ming Dynasty, once caught a female thief and they were alone in one room. The female thief seduced many times, but Cao was unmoved. A banner "Cao Nai can't" was posted on the wall. Here, both Zi Han and Cao Nai value honor more than anything else.
"Don't be snobbish, don't be moved by the situation, there is a Great Wall in your heart that can stop the trend." In the face of all kinds of temptations such as power, money and beauty in today's society, as long as we establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values, keep a clear head, consciously build a dam against corrosion, and keep our hearts still, our eyes open, our mouths shut and our hands outstretched, any temptation will be defeated by us.
I know a person who works in other places. I can't stand loneliness alone. There was once a confidante who followed him, but later he was found to be a liar. But this man can beat the hordes in the mall, but he can't beat the lonely pillow at night. He sighs every time he chats. He was afraid, so he couldn't move, but he still wanted to move.
Psychological numbness can't make physiology equally numb. He said that it is difficult to have initial passion for wives who take care of each other. His situation is more common now. Some people are successful in their careers and emotionally colorful. The difference is that some people can beat themselves, and some people gamble everything on themselves and don't cherish their feelings with their loved ones.
Actually, the heartbeat is very simple. Everyone, every day and every second will be heartbroken, and it will be over if the heart does not move. Of course, the heartbeat in a deeper sense is a touch of emotional nerve endings. Emotional people tend to fluctuate greatly and have a greater chance of being injured. It is basically difficult to recover after an injury, just like a person with a dead heart will die. There is no medicine to treat this symptom. Why can some people tolerate loneliness, while others can't? Actually, it's all related to self-control.
There is also a good friend who is "successful". A friend has found him a girlfriend from time to time, and he has never been tempted. It's not that those people are bad, but that he thinks that sex hunting and money will have a price, or even not worth the candle. Some people fell under ill-gotten gains and pomegranate skirts and never got up again.
Reality doesn't allow us to get too excited. Grasp yourself, don't let yourself be moved, because the moment can't represent forever after all. Calculate your feelings like the price of a commodity, so live and sell yourself.