When men and women fall in love, there are also emotional differences. Women are affectionate. The longer they live together, the heavier their feelings will be, and they will pursue a perfect sense of belonging and affordable housing. Men are different. The longer we spend together, the more we want to keep a reasonable distance and pursue perfect three-dimensional sense and openness. Sometimes, the tighter a woman holds, the less she can bind a man's heart, which will continue to make him want to escape. It is a clever woman who can recognize things as they really are. Better understand what can't be managed, it is better to leave it alone.
First: between lovers, don't interfere with men's money! When lovers live together, the taboo is to ask about men's business situation and trading trends casually. After all, not married, the door handle is too long, which will make men wary. If you think you are in charge of money, men will think you are thinking about his money. Once the relationship between two people is insecure, they will be unhappy and stumble together, which is easy to produce contradictions.
Smart women will not actively manage men's money, let alone interfere with men's open attitude towards the use of money. Everyone has rebellious mentality, and men are no exception. Sometimes the more women ignore it, the more men feel emotionally neglected and lacking. On the contrary, he will take the initiative to share with you his financial disclosure and his manipulation of funds, and even give it to you for safekeeping. Therefore, it is never a wise choice for lovers to coexist and indulge in lust.
Understand the relationship between "active and passive" interests, and you won't care about men's money. Learning to let go is better to get, no matter what is better to have. In solving the relationship between men and women, women should not pay too much attention to money, let alone ignore the long-term development trend of feelings because of temporary concern. Once a man's heart is gone, everything is in vain.
Second: between lovers, don't interfere with men's friendship. Loving someone is not restraint, not interference, but being casual with him. Can fall, can not succeed, can fall black and blue, as long as he can develop and progress, everything is worth it. Being with a man, even if you don't like some good friends around him, as long as it doesn't matter, it's best not to interfere. After all, a man should have his own identification and understanding of good friends. Every man has a steelyard in his heart for those who are worth getting along with and those who are not.
Smart women don't care too much about what kind of good friends men make, and they don't slander his good friends in front of him. Even if you think men are worse friends than pigs and dogs, you need to learn proper patience. Many times, Xuan Jing with white head is more worth choosing than interference. Women should not be afraid of men's carelessness when making friends, let alone being cheated by men. Men will not develop without ups and downs.
Criticism imposed on persuasion and reasoning in language will not only hurt the emotional relationship between two people, but will continue to outweigh the gains and make men full of resistance. Pot calling the kettle black, who loves this man most of the time, needs to keep friendly relations with his good friends. Even if one day, men do something wrong and overlap people, don't complain. Being around him, inspiring him and cheering him up again is the smartest choice for smart women.
Third: between lovers, don't interfere with men's love for their families. All feelings are mutual, and so are lovers. Men can spoil you, love you and pay for you. But the only situation is that you have to reply. Otherwise, everything you have will be quietly taken back. This is not harm, but a surreal emotional existence. Even if a person wants to invest foolishly, this kind of investment has a time limit, and it will be invalid when it expires.
For example, women buy things for their families, and men are generous. Even if they don't have much money, they are never stingy, and even persuade women to buy more for their parents. Once a man wants to buy something for his family, a woman looks unhappy and thinks she has bought too much. Obviously, such emotional ups and downs are so fatal to men.
Smart women will not only interfere with men's kindness to their families, but will continue to actively express them. Showing love to each other is the safest and most reliable guarantee for a long-term relationship. A woman can get along well with people around men, not only can she get men's love, but also can make men emotionally dependent and inseparable.