1, a series of problems of the Cheng family
In the play, Cheng's father and brother did not regard Song Yunhui as a family, but made various calculations. First, Cheng Fu made a fuss about retirement, saying that he was dragged down by Song Yunhui and asked Song Yunhui to transfer his work to his son. But Cheng's brother is ambitious and grumpy, so he can't do well in his new post.
Cheng had another pillow talk with Song Yunhui. Song Yunhui tried to find a suitable job for his eldest brother, but Cheng Fu and Cheng Xiong didn't like the job and didn't want to transfer. Finally, Cheng Fu tried his best to live in the hospital and asked Song Yunhui to transfer his son to the purchasing department. Song Yunhui refused to violate the principle and resolutely disagreed. The two sides broke up in discord.
Through a series of operations, it can be seen that they don't regard Song Yunhui as their family, but Song Yunhui is just a tool for them to achieve their goals. However, Cheng believes that Song Yunhui's help is out of love for his performance; You don't love yourself enough if you don't help. She doesn't have the slightest vision. She doesn't understand the importance of principle. She doesn't understand Song Yunhui's work. If she walks on the tip of a knife, she can't take a wrong step.
2. Song's cognition of marriage determines the future of marriage.
Song Yunhui's growth path is full of hardships. In the process of personal struggle, he honed his psychological quality and will quality and set up lofty ideals. Cheng grew up smoothly, and her parents protected her too well, leaving her ignorant of human suffering and the way of the world. Compared with Song Yunhui, her mind is not at the same level.
Cheng's background and growing environment determine her rich and secure thoughts. She only wants the men around her to love her and provide her with a superior life. As for Song Yunhui's personal pursuit and ideal, she can't understand and has no interest in understanding.
Her paranoia about Song Yunhui is essentially a manifestation of lack of self-confidence and security. She thinks that as long as Song Yunhui's whereabouts are controlled and her husband's potential rival is removed, everything will be fine. But she never understood that the sense of security was not given by others, but by herself.
A happy marriage is mutually beneficial.
The marriage between Song Yunhui and Cheng was happy at first, because they both benefited from it.
When Song Yunhui was in Jinzhou, more or less because of the Cheng family, he got help at work and his troubles were reduced. Cheng appreciates Song Yunhui's handsomeness. Cheng Fu saw that Song Yunhui had a bright future. In marriage, both sides have their own needs and gains. At this time, the balance of marriage will be balanced.
With the development of Song Yunhui's career, the world he contacted is getting bigger and bigger, and the stage of his career is getting wider and wider. Cheng, on the other hand, is stagnant, not enterprising about his work and not pursuing the future. In addition, Cheng Jia always makes trouble for Song Yunhui, and Cheng is actually holding Song Yunhui back.
Extended data:
Cheng Fu didn't treat Song Yunhui as a relative, but Cheng Xiong took Song Yunhui's help for granted. He thought that Song Yunhui's success was supported by his family, and he could not see Song Yunhui's personal struggle at all. Such a selfish family, who abused power for personal gain, instilled petty and calculating skills in Cheng, but Cheng was not influenced by many good family styles.
Song Yankai's cognition and pattern determine that she can't enter Song Yunhui's spiritual world, she won't have greater progress and pursuit, and she and Song Yunhui can't go to the end. Song Yunhui needs two kinds of partners, either to keep pace with him in his career; Either be a good wife at home and let him have no worries. Cheng obviously can't do this.