Marriage means different things to different people. In the eyes of most people, marriage is the crystallization of love and the witness of a good relationship. Therefore, the beginning of all love should aim at entering the marriage hall.

This view conforms to the traditional concept and is the recognition of morality and ethics. But in fact marriage is not that simple.

China has had the traditional marriage custom of parents' orders and matchmakers' words since ancient times, and the inheritance of marriage culture for thousands of years naturally has its unique significance. Today, we emphasize the freedom of love, which does not mean that we are irresponsible for our actions in the emotional world.

Some people say that marriage is an absurd farce. Two unrelated people will be together for life because of a temporary emotional impulse and a social contract. It is so boring and ridiculous. The essence of marriage is responsibility and loyalty, and the value of life lies in achievement and affection.

Rules are for those who don't follow them, not for those who don't.

We all loved each other, and we may all have been hurt by feelings. We may not be able to accept someone who has been in love with us for a long time, but we can spend our lives with someone who has just met and feels just right.

What is the reason? It is our selfishness. In feelings, we often can't let go of ourselves, don't think from each other's point of view, but kidnap each other morally in the name of love, so the longer we get the certificate, the greater the contradiction, so that we can forgive everyone, but we can't forgive the person we know best.

Therefore, love has a cost. Without gratitude, tolerance and understanding, the longer you love, the greater the risk.