Someone once asked me, "What are your strengths?" I think my strength should be kindness.
I remember when I was in Shenzhen last year, on a hot evening, my mother and I passed by Luohu Square and saw several beggars there with unkempt hair and dirty clothes. A beggar woman is holding a child in her hand, miserable. I couldn't help but stop and put my hand into my pocket to give the child a few dollars. Seeing that I care about beggars, my mother quickly warned me: "Now many beggars are liars, so be careful!" " I think what my mother said is also true. They are neither too old nor too young, and some are still in their prime. Why don't they find jobs to earn money to support themselves? Thinking of this, I ignored them and was about to leave when suddenly a girl whispered from behind, "Mom, I'm hungry! ..... "I turned to look inside and saw the little girl hugging her mother tightly just now, crying and saying that she was hungry. I can't help but find reasons to think that they are not liars. Maybe they came out begging because of unexpected troubles at home. Maybe ... thinking of this, I gave all my pocket money to the girl's mother. My mother didn't blame me, but said, "You child, you are soft-hearted!" "
The day before yesterday afternoon after school, I went back to my hometown and saw the old lady next door wobbling and standing unsteadily. I went over to give her a hand and asked with concern, "Grandma, where are you going?" Do you want me to help you? " The old lady smiled and said, "No, I'll find my grandson." I couldn't bear to watch the old lady go and helped her to her destination. It was almost time for the old lady's grandson's house, so I let go, said goodbye and walked away.
After reading these two short stories, I believe you will think that I am a kind person. In my mother's words, I am soft-hearted. Kindness is my strength, and I will keep it forever.
(Article 2)
No one is perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, so do I, and my personality is changeable, which is everyone's character. And I, a little unique, my advantage is-good temper.
My good temper is excellent. I won't get angry until my patience is broken to the limit. However, because my patience is like a bottomless pit, so far, I haven't really lost my temper. I'm just pretending to be angry and hit people. So there will always be a large group of friends around me!
I have a good temper and smile almost every day. Look, my eyebrows are bent, my mouth is big, and laughter jumps out of my mouth. "Ha ha ha, ha ha ha." "Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha" bursts of laughter are swinging in my ear.
But sometimes my good temper will have a little trouble. Classroom:-Xiaoyan, take a look at this for me. I'll be back soon! Wait for me! Before I came to my senses, one said that it was not heavy, that it was light, and that something of the same size was in my hand. Well, I haven't promised yet! Helpless, I looked at this thing and shook my head. Restaurant-"Huang Xiaoyan, you help me buy some food. Well, XXX and XXX! " "Well, I have to ..." Before I finished, the man ran away and left me alone. "I have to buy it for others." For a long time, the words hidden in my mouth finally came out. "Well, three dishes. It seems that I am going to be a "Thousand Hands Guanyin" again. "
In this way, I have a foothold in this class. Because I am a life committee member, I receive love donations every Sunday. Whenever I face people who can't get the gold, I will apologetically whisper, "Well, can you take it out after dinner?" I am always careful, for fear of provoking each other. Sometimes, I will always be proud of myself. Great!
I may still have many advantages, but I don't have such eyes to find my own advantages. It seems that I have to improve my "vision".
(Article 3)
Everyone has advantages, but we know the geometry of our own advantages? If you ask me this question, I may be like most people, unable to say a word for a long time. Is it so difficult to tell your strengths? Then what caused this? What should we do?
For me, I have no advantage. I can't talk about my shortcomings for three days and nights. I can't explain why I became like this. I wondered if I really didn't have any advantages, and then I had an epiphany.
This is because when we interact with people, we only see the advantages of others, especially those who are better than ourselves, and often only see the advantages of others and our own shortcomings, but not our own advantages. This is the case between people, always seeing the advantages of others, always thinking about the gap between themselves and others, and learning from others. It is often the case that our advantages are erased from our memory bit by bit, and eventually we will forget our own advantages. Therefore, a person who can find his own advantages must be an excellent person or a confident person.
Sometimes you will encounter similar problems in your life. For example, the teacher asked us to introduce ourselves in class. When we applied for a job, our resumes were all about our own advantages. If we are the same as before, we will lose the opportunity to prove ourselves to others, but we will lose our future, so we should bravely tell others our advantages loudly, but we should make more efforts to do these things than before. First of all, we must find our own advantages, so we must be good at finding our own advantages, so that we will become better than before.
However, it is not easy to find your own advantages. A person may not know much about his own advantages, but he knows all about his own shortcomings. This is ourselves. Therefore, we should be confident. Only confident people will clearly realize their own advantages, but they should not be too confident, otherwise they will become conceited.
It's not easy to tell your strengths, and it's even harder to change yourself.