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You will leave here this afternoon with something that no one else has. There will be hundreds of people with the same degree as you; There will be thousands of people doing what you want to do to make a living. But you will be the only one alive and have the sole custody of your life [1].
Your special life. Your whole life. It's not just your life at your desk, or your life on the bus, or your life in the car, or your life in front of the computer. Not just the life of your mind, but the life of your heart. Not only your bank account, but also your soul.
Don't people? I don't talk too much about the soul anymore. It? It is much easier to write a resume than to shape a spirit. But a resume is a cold comfort on a winter night, or when you. When you are sad, bankrupt, lonely or desperate. I got the test results. They? You're not well.
The following is my resume:
I am a good mother of three children. I try not to let my career get in the way of being a good parent. I no longer think of myself as the center of the universe. I showed up. I'm listening. I tried to laugh. I am a good friend of my husband. I tried to keep my marriage vows. I am a good friend of my friends, and they are also my good friends. Without them, I would have nothing to say today, because I would be a cardboard silhouette. But I called them and had lunch with them.
If none of this is true, my work will be terrible, or at best mediocre. If your work is all you have, then you can't really be first-class in your work.
So here? That's what I want to tell you today: enjoy life, live a real life, instead of frantically pursuing the next promotion, higher salary and bigger house.
You think you're. If you suddenly have an aneurysm or find a lump in your breast one afternoon, will you care about these things very much?
In this kind of life, you will notice the smell of sea water blowing across the highland by the sea with the breeze. In this kind of life, you will stop to observe how a red-tailed eagle hovers over the water, or a baby will frown intently when trying to pick up a toy with his thumb and forefinger.
Get a life that is not lonely. Find the person you love and the person who loves you. Remember that love is not leisure, but work. Every time you look at your diploma, remember that you are still a student, still learning how to best cherish your connection with others. Pick up the phone. Send e-mail. Write a letter.
Live a generous life. Look at the azaleas near the suburb where you grew up; On a cold night, watch a silver full moon hanging in the black sky. Realize that life is the best thing ever, and you have no reason to take it for granted.
So concerned about its goodness that you want to spread it. Donate the money you should have spent on beer to charity. Working in a soup kitchen. Be a big brother or sister.
It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours and our minutes. It is easy for people to take it for granted that the color of azaleas is the color of our children? Eyes, the way in which the melody rises and falls, disappears and rises again in a symphony. It's easy to live, but difficult to live.
I learned to live many years ago. I learned to look at all the good things in the world and try to give something back, because I totally believe in it. I tried to do this, in part by telling others what I had learned. Tell them: think of the lilies in the field. Look at the fluff on the baby [10]? Ears. Learn to be happy.
Look at the scenery. What about you? I will never be disappointed.
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