What you should say is a eulogy. Generally speaking, there is no fixed format for eulogy, but the form of eulogy is relatively stable. This paper mainly introduces the format and writing of reading eulogy. The eulogy mainly consists of three parts. (1) Titles can be formed in two ways. One is to bear the title directly with the name of the language. Such as "eulogy". The other is composed of the name and language name of the deceased. Such as "Eulogy at Comrade Soong Ching Ling's Memorial Service". (2) The body of a eulogy usually consists of three parts: the beginning, the middle and the end. 1. At the beginning, explain the purpose of convening or attending this memorial service with sadness, and explain the position, title and address of the deceased as comprehensively and accurately as possible to show respect, and pay attention to the order of these addresses. Then it briefly summarizes the year, month, day, time, reason and age enjoyed by the deceased. 2. The middle part begins with the memory of the deceased. This is the main part of the eulogy. This part mainly includes two aspects. The first is to introduce the life story of the deceased, that is, to focus on the birthplace, education and life achievements of the deceased, and to highlight the contribution of the deceased to the people and society. The second is to comprehensively evaluate the thought, spirit, style, quality and accomplishment of the deceased, and introduce its positive influence on others and society. Such as inspiring and inspiring young people and setting an example for future generations. This part of the introduction can be summarized first and then introduced in detail; You can also introduce it in detail first and then summarize it. 3. The conclusion mainly states the mourning of the living for the dead and how to learn from the dead, inherit their unfinished business, turn grief into strength and make greater contributions to the country and society. Finally, write something like "immortality", "immortal spirit" or "rest in peace". The end of the eulogy should be positive, not negative. So try not to use the word "rest in peace" at the end. Because "rest in peace" is a phrase used by western Catholics in holding ceremonies for the dead, which contains the negative thought that life is painful in this world and happiness can only be obtained after death. (3) Inscriptions and eulogies generally introduce the people attending the memorial service at the beginning, so the inscription at the end of the eulogy generally only indicates the date. Matters needing attention: (1) The purpose of writing a eulogy is mainly to introduce the life story of the deceased, praise the achievements of the deceased in the revolution or construction before his death, and let people learn from the good ideological style of the deceased and inherit the legacy of the deceased. However, this kind of praise is serious, not exaggerated or whitewashed, and a reasonable evaluation should be made according to the facts.

(2) Turn grief into strength. Some of the deceased did many good things for the party and the people before their death, and their virtues will always touch people's hearts. Eulogy should encourage the living to grieve and forge ahead.

(3) The language should be concise, serious and general, which is also a problem that should be paid attention to when writing eulogy. Eulogy is often the "final judgment" on the life of the deceased, so it is necessary to comprehensively and truly evaluate the life of the deceased, not to exaggerate, shrink, whitewash or distort it, but to objectively summarize and comprehensively evaluate it. This is also the greatest comfort to the families of the deceased.

The main characteristics of eulogy are memory and encouragement, so we should grasp the emotional tone of eulogy, not be too sad and negative, but be simple in language and sincere in feelings, which not only remembers the dead, but also inspires the living, inherits the wishes of the dead and continues to struggle.