Let me tell you first, social phobia is not innate.
Because you are timid and have no confidence.
Besides, you have a bad habit, that is, you pass the buck, feel miserable and hope others will sympathize with you.
So this is what it is now.
First of all, who is worse than you? hahaha. . . . Don't you know this problem?
How many children's parents in this world rummage through trash cans every day hungry, their hands and feet are broken and forced to beg?
Which is worse than you? What are you sad about? Eat and drink enough every day, and you can complain to your friends online.
Your family will forgive you for being afraid of going out to find a job and encountering setbacks. Do you still feel unlucky?
There is a saying that contentment is always happy. You may not know what contentment means.
Your problem is that you are spoiled. You never feel the problem is yourself.
"Since the childhood can't take the initiative to contact people, are others take the initiative to ask me out or talk to me. I have never been a class cadre in my life, I have never been to the podium in college for three years, and I have never stood up and made a speech. The school sports meeting has never been played once on behalf of the class; Didn't learn to swim; I'm afraid of heights ... I'm always afraid. I don't know what torments me so much. "
If you don't take the initiative to talk to people, it is good that others are willing to take the initiative to talk to you. There are many timid people.
Bad motor nerve is not a big problem. It's good that a bunch of people who are afraid of heights don't go to heights.
In fact, you also know the root of your problem. Your lack of confidence is due to your inferiority complex.
Because of your inferiority to your family, because of poor conditions, because your father is old.
These problems all come from what you think of others and what others care about what you think.
You can't live for yourself at all, so all the problems that were not problems have become the reasons for your inferiority.
If your friends dislike you and alienate you because of poor family conditions, such people are not worth making friends.
What does it matter that my father is very old? Who stipulates that all fathers should be the same age? Older people know more. What do you care about parents' social relations? Do they affect you because of their poor social skills? Interestingly, you have to introduce yourself to your friends.
If you have no one to talk to, you can come to me, but be prepared to be lectured by me.
And your expressive ability is actually very good. You have written in enough detail.
China is so big and the market is so big, how dare you say that the talent market is closed to you?
And then those who can't even go to high school will commit suicide.
In fact, you are only afraid of one thing, which is what others think of you.
You know the saying, "Go your own way and let others talk." Han Han told you.