Zhu Yuanzhang was very sorry that he didn't have the opportunity to go to school when he was a child, so he found the best teacher and received the best education for his children in Zheng Zheng for twenty-four years. At that time, Zhu Yuanzhang was still a prince. When the situation was a little more stable, he found a teacher for his children. This teacher is Song Lian, a contemporary scholar. Zhu Yuanzhang chose this teacher very well and spent a lot of time, because Song Lian was the most important teacher in Zhu Yuanzhang's mind.
What does Zhu Yuanzhang want his children to be like? He once said:
I, a philosopher, will be the responsibility of the country, the son of a hero, and will be entrusted with my post. The way of teaching should be based on the right heart, the heart is regular and everything makes sense. If you guide it, you will be attacked by many desires, and its harm is beyond words.
It can be seen that Zhu Yuanzhang hopes that his children have the ability to bear the responsibility of the world, but it is more important to be honest. Liu Bowen is also very learned, but he is not suitable for teaching the prince, because Liu Ji is a landlord and hermit, who often drinks and has fun and is in harmony with his friends' poems. If the Pope is a son, he will be "overbearing".
Although success is every father's wish, Zhu Yuanzhang believes that if you don't have this ability, you must be a man. The so-called teaching and educating people is based on educating people and looking at the truth. To learn the real truth from books, don't just let the scribes recite words and chapters.
Song Lian was born in poverty, extremely learned and noble in character, as he said in the preface to seeing Ma Sheng off to Yang: "He who enjoys it doesn't know that his mouth and body are not like people." This kind of person is Zhu Yuanzhang's favorite teacher. What he taught was "king", and he taught the prince to know more about the sufferings of the people, it was not easy to start a business, and he knew the meaning of respecting the humble and filial piety. Therefore, "I have been a teacher for more than ten years, and everything I say and do is ironically persuaded by etiquette, which makes me return to the Tao."
In the TV series Zhu Yuanzhang, Zhu Yuanzhang and Song Lian discuss the education of the prince.
Find a good teacher and create a good learning atmosphere for children. It is easy for children to be distracted when reading at home alone. If you see others studying at school, you will follow suit.
Zhu Yuanzhang also understood the importance of learning atmosphere. "If you choose a virtuous person to fill the class, you must always give a banquet to make poems and discuss the past and the present." . This kind of learning atmosphere is there.
Similarly, children's growing environment is also very important, which can be seen from the three tricks of ancient Meng Mu. Zhu Yuanzhang believed that harmony between people is precious and habits are easy to change. When they are with just people, they are accustomed to justice, and when they are with evil people, they are accustomed to evil. So he doesn't allow his children to be in front of people, and guests and scholars have to go through strict examination to avoid bringing bad influence to children.
In family, parents are the best teachers for children. Zhu Yuanzhang set an example and taught the princes. Zhu Yuanzhang said: I have been afraid for a long time, and I am afraid that my heart is slack. If you relax all your life, everything will be in vain, and it will matter if you live and work together. So, be careful every day before it is too late.
Zhu Yuanzhang was most afraid of being lazy, so he disliked lazy children the most. So how can we be diligent? You must have awe, be prepared for danger in times of peace to be diligent, and a sense of crisis will push you forward and become better.
Zhu Yuanzhang said, "The four seas are getting flat. Don't you want to rest and entertain yourself?" However, those who fear heaven and those who fear people ",as an emperor, I am still cautious, working hard every day, fearing God's will and people's hearts. What can I be proud of as a prince? Therefore, we should not act rashly, oppress the people or rely solely on our own interests.
The poor experience in his early years made Zhu Yuanzhang understand that life is not easy and the people are not easy. Even if he is the emperor, he must not be extravagant and wasteful. Thrift is also his request to the prince. But if Zhu Yuanzhang is a luxury man, how can he teach the prince to be frugal? As the Analects of Confucius said: its body is right; Do it without orders; His body is not straight; Although the order was not obeyed. Therefore, Zhu Yuanzhang should set an example in everything he does. If he can use copper, he doesn't need gold. His clothes minister can see obvious cleaning marks.
He once said to the prince: wealth and wealth are the axes of virtue. If you indulge in what you like, you will be trapped by it. You should be careful.
In the past, the palace was magnificent and the walls were covered with paintings, but Zhu Yuanzhang was ingenious. The example of "the ancients taught by example" is similar to all kinds of famous sayings hanging in schools now, always alerting themselves and teaching the prince.
Confucius taught students in accordance with their aptitude, and Zhu Yuanzhang also understood this truth, while Zhu Yuanzhang taught students in accordance with their aptitude. Zhu Biao is a prince, so Zhu Yuanzhang taught them how to be a monarch. Other princes were prisoners, and Zhu Yuanzhang taught them how to be ministers.
When the prince lives in the country, he should keep the courtesy of the princes, and the son of heaven must not lose his relatives. A prince can't disrespect the son of heaven because he is a brother, and he doesn't understand the ceremony of the monarch and the minister. The son of heaven cannot forget that the prince is his brother just because he is the emperor.
Zhu Yuanzhang attached great importance to family ties and would never allow the Emperor Taizong brothers to swim over the wall or anything like that. Therefore, Zhu Yuanzhang attached great importance to etiquette and cultivated the concept of status in the family. For example, the crown prince and the prince should call themselves the eldest son, the son of heaven, the father of the son of heaven and the queen of heaven in front of the son of heaven.
Most of the others are in the disciple's rules, such as "Don't be slow when parents call", "Save it in the morning and decide when you faint" and so on. These are the rules set by Zhu Yuanzhang in the family, that is, family rules. I think family rules are a very important part of family education, and it is difficult to change good habits formed since childhood.
Zhu Biao played a key role in Zhu Yuanzhang's family education. In order to make the prince form the habit of obeying and respecting his eldest brother, Zhu Yuanzhang often let Zhu Biao play the bad COP himself, which can be seen from some small things.
King Gong Jin is illegal in this country. Or charge him with conspiracy. The emperor was furious and wanted to atone, but the prince wanted to save him. In twenty-four years, the prince returned from a tour of Shaanxi, and the child followed him to the DPRK and returned to San Francisco.
There are more only children now. Maybe many people don't feel this way. I have a brother. When I was a child, my brother was always responsible for himself and always protected me. So I respect my brother very much. His stare is more terrible than my father's. In fact, Zhu Biao is the role of brother, a brother like a father. Any contradiction between brothers and sisters will make Zhu Biao seek justice. When Zhu Yuanzhang reprimanded him, Zhu Biao accompanied them to be punished and defended them, so that Zhu Biao's image in his brother's mind was established.
Don't think this is a dark means. After all, my brother's love for my brother is true, my brother's respect is true, and my father's love is true.
It's better to take Wan Li Road to read thousands of books. No matter how you listen, you must experience the education received by the prince. It must be the top level in the country, but you only know a lot, far less than your own experience. Just like the children of some rich families now, I can't understand why many people have never been abroad or flown. Zhu Yuanzhang thought that his son lived a peaceful life all day and could not understand the hardships of ordinary people.
In those years when Zhu Yuanzhang had been begging, he had been to many places, and it was that experience that laid his imperial foundation. So Zhu Yuanzhang is not a parent who keeps his children in a cage.
Zhu Yuanzhang said to the prince: If people are arrogant, idle and forget their work. You will be wise in everything, and you will be the best way to be a man. At the beginning of the country, the people supported their shoulders. Do you know how hard it is?
Besides, staying at home all the time is actually quite boring. I feel a little dizzy after staying at home for so long. It's good to go out for a walk.
So Taizu sent his second son, the son of the world, to visit Lin Hao's mausoleum, travel mountains and rivers, experience the fields and traverse the farmhouses. In order to let the prince better observe the people's feelings, Zhu Yuanzhang did not allow them to sit in a sedan chair. They rode horses for seven-tenths of the journey and walked the rest.
The ancients/kloc-came of age at the age of 0/6. When the prince came of age, he had to be prepared to become a vassal. Zhu Yuanzhang will let them experience the sufferings of the people before the prince comes of age. For example, Judy spent three or four years in Fengyang, Zhongdu with her brothers before arriving in San Francisco.
As can be seen from the above, Zhu Yuanzhang is an excellent father in educating children. Although he has many children and grandchildren, he is busy with state affairs, but he has never let the prince let himself go. Whether it is to find a teacher for children, to set an example, or to let children experience the world and establish their own values, he has done a good job and is very original, and even many places are worth learning from our current parents.