There is good news for those who are tirelessly seeking success. A book entitled "My Success Can Be Replicated", written by Tang Jun, a "working emperor", became a hit among the major books. If nothing else: the name is enough to impress those who are not so successful-everyone envies Tang Jun's title and his salary.
However, Fang quickly exposed Tang Jun's resume fraud on his blog. In his view, the so-called "pacific western university" is just a diploma workshop selling diplomas. His bachelor's degree, master's degree and doctor's degree used to be clearly marked at about $2,500 each. Moreover, due to the unscrupulous sales of diplomas, this diploma workshop has long been ordered to close by the US government. Tang Jun did not respond to Fang's accusation, but said: He reserves the right to resort to law.
Let's not talk about anything else, let's not talk about whether Tang Jun's education is as full of water as Fang Hung-chien's Clayton University. In fact, we might as well think about it: can a person's success really be replicated?
From the perspective of the whole society, success refers to a state of surpassing others. If you confuse others, even lower than others, it is undoubtedly unsuccessful. Therefore, replicable "success" is not success.
There is a simple reason. When everyone earns 1000 a month, people who earn 1500 are successful. And if this success can be replicated, it will become a common phenomenon. And if everyone's salary is 1500 yuan, where does success come from?
At the social level, success cannot be copied, but at the personal level, success can be copied because it has a completely different meaning: one's success should be regarded as the realization of one's self-goal. The most important connotation of self-realization is "self-goal". Whether you are expecting a monthly income of 1 10,000, or looking forward to finding a beautiful girl, as long as you can achieve this preset goal, you will succeed.
Those who expect to copy Tang Jun will be disappointed. After the "fake door" incident, Tang Jun always showed weakness in the face of Fang's step by step, which made people have to doubt his integrity. As an ordinary person, you can put down your integrity as a fart, but for a professional manager, a person known as the "working emperor" and a person who is willing to share successful experiences with others, the lack of integrity means that the cornerstone of his success has gone wrong.
For those who want to succeed, what kind of success can be replicated? This success must conform to several basic laws:
1, this success must have a clear goal. Even if it seems absurd, it is possible to try, but it is impossible to refuse to try. Don't talk about the results that need to be compared, such as "I want to get ahead", just give yourself a goal.
2, in the process of achieving the goal, as little as possible against their own hearts. I have to admit that in today's society, if you want to do something, you often need to do something against your will. It may be a treat, a gift, or packaging yourself with an illusion, and so on. But these things can be done less or less. Doing too much is a kind of pressure on yourself, and it also makes you farther and farther away from the goal mentioned in the first point.
3. After setting the goal, work towards it, that is, don't be influenced by the people around you. On the issue of "success", the people around them will always be their own biggest enemies, and they will tempt others with all kinds of words such as "sizing up the situation" or "seeing Si Qi". Remember, no one knows yourself better than you. Only you know best what you want and how to achieve it.
Whose success can be replicated? Maybe your parents and friends have someone you can imitate. However, forget "pacific western university" and forget the modern Fang Hung-chien. Their success is not worth replicating.