? First, lack of independence, like to rely on their parents to do things. Among these people, the proportion of only children is relatively large. Because he stretched out his hand from a small coat, made a living from his mouth, and depended on his parents all his life, it is natural that when he went to the society, his first thought was his parents in need. They will not have more independent habits to deal with people, so they will feel accustomed to relying on their parents as they did when they were children.

Second, I can't find the goal of life and lose my yearning and direction for life. Because I have parents' care and companionship since I was a child, I don't worry about life and don't think too much. Therefore, when they enter the society as adults and encounter some minor setbacks and difficulties, they will feel great punishment. Therefore, there is also a lack of motivation for life, and it is precisely because of this motivation for struggle. It is precisely because of this lack of motivation and patience that they are increasingly afraid to meet the challenges in society, not to mention the challenges in study and work.

Third, relying on parents is a common source and way of life, which has long been a deep-rooted habit. We can always see many mamao men in our lives. It is not that they are not good enough, but that they rely more on their parents in marriage and love work. So that in the end, my own development entered a bottleneck and even reached an irreparable tragedy. These fundamental reasons are that their lives cannot be separated from the assistance of their parents. It's not that this kind of parents' companionship and help is not good, but that we should let parents let their children go properly. Especially after he has a certain ability to work and work, parents should release water instead of continuing to indulge their children. In our life, we have seen too many tragedies caused by eating old people. Many people even leave their mortgages to their parents after divorce, but they live a happy life. At this time, you have to think about it. Is it the fault of parents or children? In fact, it is wrong to chew on the old, because "the tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop, and the child wants to raise it instead of staying." Being able to accompany our parents gives us the meaning of life. We should not be old-fashioned, but try our best to take care of our parents.