A good wife and mother is a good wife and mother. The wife is a good and helpful wife. On the surface, they are all good wives and mothers, but there will be differences according to the pursuit of their husbands. For example, boys only pursue family happiness, so these two kinds of wives are similar. If boys pursue careers, hobbies and the like, then there will be great differences between these two wives. A good wife and mother may not be able to stand her husband not coming home. A good wife is a wife who helps her husband achieve his career and takes care of everything inside and outside the family. I think "my wife" refers to the woman behind the man, who can take care of his wife's role properly in both career and life. And "a good wife and mother" is more inclined to refer to the care in life.

As the post-80s generation, it is not easy for us to be a "good wife and mother", let alone a "good wife and mother". But women naturally like to fight for men, willing to be the woman behind men, and willing to give up their careers and ideals for men. If you are worth it. Otherwise, nothing is possible.