Let me share with you what I want, what I can't give up, and what I have to do:
First, I can't get what I want.
I am a girl. When I was young, I really wished I could have a piano. But because the family is poor, this wish can be said to be extravagant. The financial ability of my family can only make me own a small piano toy. I said to my mother: when can I buy the real one? Mom replied: Wait until our family has money. In this way, the piano became something I couldn't get.
From this incident, I understand that everything we want in life needs us to face the reality, then accept it and finally let it go.
Second, I can't give up
I always liked a boy in my class from high school until I came out to work. In fact, this male student knows that I like him, but he really only regards me as a good friend. Even so, I didn't give up waiting for him. I always hoped that he would change his mind and find my goodness.
Until one day, I met a male classmate in the street and went shopping hand in hand with his girlfriend. I'm really sorry. My best friend also advised me to let go. Maybe loving someone will make people irrational. At that moment, I still thought I could wait for him. My best friend said to me: the person I love, he already has a lover, and their eyes show that I can't. Finally, I finally got over it and stopped wasting time on fruitless feelings. I should give up. I should give up.
From this incident, we can learn a truth: sometimes the person you love already has a lover, and he makes the choice that he feels right. Then we should bless him and respect his choice at this time. After all, love can't be forced, just like a twisted melon is not sweet.
Third, I will pay for it.
I was lucky to meet my husband. His love for me is really unparalleled, even more than my parents. Sometimes the loved one has nothing to hide, but I didn't understand it at that time, thinking that he took all my goodness for granted. For example, no matter how much I hurt him, he is not angry with me for being unreasonable. After coming home from work, he also does all the housework.
It was not until a quarrel that he told the truth. He wants me to stop being unreasonable sometimes. He feels that this way of getting along makes him feel very tired. Only then did I know how long my husband put up with me silently and how much disappointment he accumulated.
From this incident, I understand: cherish the people in front of me, carefully grasp the boundaries and boundaries of love, and don't let the original mistakes reappear.
Finally, I hope everyone can learn to "give up". If you give up, you will get it. Wish you a happy life!