2. Don't be too harsh on your lifelong partner, just like everything in life. There are always pros and cons: you are too eager to chase you, you feel burdened, chasing you is not tight, and you feel not enthusiastic enough. Gentle people sometimes appear weak, strong and close to tyranny. Too many fantasies are unrealistic, and capable butlers feel tacky. Where are the people who have only advantages and no disadvantages? Is there a perfect person or thing in the world? Ask yourself, how perfect are you? You must have thought about this question more than once. I think the most important thing is kindness in nature, gentleness in nature and an open mind. With these three things, everything else can be cultivated slowly. With these three things, even if you encounter big and small storms in the future, it will not become a tragedy.

3. Don't contact again after breaking up, which will increase your sadness; But don't actively delete the contact information, which seems to have no pattern.

4. A good girl, who is lovelorn or has a bad job, will need more care than usual, so she will communicate with others more, but after the state is adjusted, she will return to her own circle, ignore you no longer, and even remember your kindness. What doesn't belong to you will leave eventually. Don't lie to yourself. Did this sentence hit the hearts of many spare tires?

5. Regret after parting, care after not loving, high self-esteem and aimless kindness are the most useless things in the world, and so are they in emotional life.

6. After breaking up, if you can still be friends with ex, or the relationship between them is not deep; Or one party still doesn't want to.

7. In a love relationship, there is a "key law": if a key can open many locks, it is a master key; If a lock can be opened by many keys, it is a bad lock. Specifically, if you can touch many people's hearts, then you are very attractive; If you can be moved by many people, it doesn't mean that you are easily satisfied, happy and optimistic. You are a person without principles and bottom lines, and you will degrade yourself eventually.

8. To know whether a girl is suitable for being together depends on her family education. Nine times out of ten, girls taught by democratic families can't be wrong. Authoritarian parents have to take care of everything and spoil girls. If you marry someone else, the hard times are yet to come. And you can't rely on a boy, just look at what kind of people his friends are. If nine times out of ten friends around him eat, drink and gamble, he is very sad to live a clean and honest life.

9. If you are infatuated with someone, you are definitely not worthy of him/her. So try to be a person who has a crush on each other and leave yourself a little choice.