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Share together, a paragraph, a feeling.
1, the biggest weakness of human nature is that you can't see your own weakness.
It is selfish to deprive the other person of the right to share joys and sorrows with you.
3. When kindness is in danger, who will get hurt? It is kindness. So are we going to be good people or bad people? We should neither be kind nor evil. We should be evil good people.
4. What you like is not necessarily what you are good at, and what you are good at is not necessarily what you like. When you find that you are not good at it, you should try to think clearly: what should I do? what can I do? what can I do?
If you manage this thing well, your investment will be rewarded. But if it's just an adventure, it's not an investment, it's stealing chickens and stealing dogs, and the consequence is stealing chickens and not eating rice.
6. Why does domestic violence go round and round? That's because domestic violence worked. Men think that hands-on can solve the problem, because women shrink under their fists and think that violence is effective in some cases.
7. Age is not a problem, height is not a distance, but distance is really a problem. Moreover, in the process of keeping their distance, it is mostly boys who often can't stand loneliness. That's because too many girls indulge them. The basis of human existence in this society is tolerance. But only love must be selfish in loyalty. If there is no selfishness, any true feelings will become insincere.
8. As an artist, you should not expose your ugly side while conveying beauty.
9. There is no shortage of loveless fathers in this world, only loving husbands.
10, life changes, like water passing by, totem of love, spread of love. Love is gradually infiltrated, not instilled.
1 1. At some point in life, a person has to make three choices: one is what you can do; One is what you can do; The other is what you should do. People who choose what they can do should obey the rules. People who choose what they can do are self-aware. People who choose what they should do are rational choices. In the top ten of Forbes list, there are many rich people who didn't want to be rich. Some people want to be poets, others want to be musicians. But in the end, they found a truth: what they are good at is often what they don't like, and what they don't like is often what they are good at. Therefore, many people silently keep their dreams in their hearts after creating their own careers.
12, gentle rejection is far better than severe criticism.
13, we have been longing for love, but never pay attention to the way of love. In fact, man is a multivariate complex function. Although a woman is a good wife, she is not necessarily a good wife. But there are many unchangeable things in human nature. For example, if you can't be a filial son, you can't be a husband with true love. This is a ... Parents' cultivation of their children is enough for us to repay them with a lifetime. If there are no parents, please keep this mark as a small cell, which is impossible to survive. Although it is our partner who will accompany us through life in the future. But none of this would have happened if our parents hadn't given us life. For a man, there are three most important women in this life. They are mother, wife and daughter. Mothers give their lives, wives accompany them all their lives, and daughters are the continuation of life. It is incomplete to remove any paragraph from it.
14, in fact, women rely on intuition and sense of smell, and men always think they are unconscious. Now that women are so determined, men will always regret why they found out later.
15, don't deprive men of the right to be human, and don't do their duty to be human. On the contrary, it will only make the other person feel ashamed and escape, and will not feel self. Only encouragement and guidance can make each other feel happy in the process of growing up.
16, I am emotionally color blind. In my emotional world, there is only white, not black and gray. Marriage needs 100% loyalty. If marriage is the Olympic Games, I must win the centennial harmonious champion.
17, sometimes, people are just too happy, so something happens. It is those who help each other to move forward, and those who stumble can go further.
18 What do you think is the responsibility? You think the responsibility is to be together all your life and throw some money at home. The real responsibility is to care about the feelings of the people you love every minute.
19, a relationship that has long been doomed to failure, whoever says love first dies first.
20. In fact, life is to pursue the greatest happiness in constant compromise, weighing and giving up.
2 1. In fact, there are many turning points in life. Every time you choose a turning point, the scenery will be completely different.
22. No choice is the best choice. The art of life lies in giving up, and giving up is for better possession.
What a brother really helps is that when a brother is lovelorn and painful, the door of brotherly friendship will always be open to him, paying for his pain, rather than helping him make a decision.
24. In the process of marriage, men can show their feelings for this woman through their three different understandings of mistakes. First, the idea of cheating came to an abrupt end, indicating that this man loves this woman. Second, when this man has cheated, the fact is confirmed, and he wants to come back, it is called nostalgia for this woman. Third, I ran into a wall outside, and the fact happened. I was dumped by the other side, so I thought of you at this time. This is not love, nor nostalgia, but going home.
25. Many times we envy each other.
However. . . .
If you really open the title page in everyone's heart.
You will find that, in fact, we are all helpless.
When you don't understand love, love passes you by.
When I got married, I suddenly found someone really waving to you.
Many times we go the wrong way but can't turn back.
Choose a career only to find that it is not what you love.
Born in wealth, I want to experience the satisfaction of the poor.
Born in poverty but not aware of the troubles of the rich.
We often dream, but it is always difficult to wake up.
Often fantasy is always difficult to realize.
Always complaining, but never trying.
Conventional plans always have no courage to practice.
I don't like reading, but I have to travel for my diploma.
I don't like sports, but I can't stand the fat body.
I don't like talking, but I have to sell myself.
Life is actually like this.
Unfortunately, we can't afford to die, but we must be strong and live.
Since everyone is helpless
Then we can't help each other.
See who can live better in helplessness.
People come into this world.
Isn't it just a competition to see who can stand it more?
1: Marriage and comparison are actually risky. The risk of marriage lies in whether you are willing or not. The risk of climbing is whether you are sincere or not.
2. Hug, cajole and cheat. Now some people fall in love with these eight words. After less than a day or two, the husband and wife are noisy and self-respecting. I never thought that love is very cautious, and what love returns to you is the remaining four words, which makes you laugh and cry.
Some young people are naive in love. You can meet every day when you are good, and you can never tire of carving! Bad time, strange strange bedfellows, speechless. Love is talking nonsense, doing useless things, worrying and speculating for no reason because you think about childish questions every day. But this is love. If you don't care about these boring things and feel bored, then I also think you must not love them.
It feels good for a man to watch his daughter-in-law count money, and her husband makes money again! It feels good to buy a new toy for my daughter. My father bought me another present. It feels good to change electrical appliances for parents and be filial to their families. Parents say their son is great. It is much better for a man to support his family than to spend money. A man supporting his family is not only giving, but also glory! Family members are willing to accept it, which is a blessing!
5: I admire a man who can protect his woman in front of his family, although it is wrong to hurt his loved ones if both sides weigh it. But a man should have the ability to defend his marriage, instead of letting his woman get hurt in the eyes of some traditions under the guise of listening to his parents, as some men do.
6. It is not accurate enough for a man to earn money to support his family. It should be said that making money to support a family is the most basic thing for a man, and there is nothing to be complacent about. It's not a responsibility to throw a few dollars at home casually.
7. Life is breathing, calling for a breath and inhaling a breath. If you just breathe and don't breathe, your breath is stuck there. In marriage, people should understand that home is their own home, children are their own children, husbands are their husbands, and days are their own days. You can't get along with yourself, isn't it just uncomfortable? Your purpose is to solve problems and pursue happiness. It's no use getting angry.
8: I hate anyone saying that everything I do is for you in the name of love. Whether you are for each other or not is judged by each other, not you. If the other person finds it hard to accept, it means that you have touched yourself.
9. Extremely selfish people have always looked at love and marriage with a selfish and utilitarian idea, hoping that their other half would rather not love themselves and help themselves shoulder the heavy responsibility of life! They are not qualified to talk about love!
10: Say thank you to parents and dearest people. Maybe it will be awkward at that moment, but you may have unexpected gains.
1 1, the long shoulders of turtles are used to shrink their heads, and the long shoulders of people are used to carry things!
12, a person's life, love a person (marriage), do a good job (career), sing a song (life)! Enough!
13, men fool women to flirt, women fool men to seduce, and men and women fool each other to be called love!
14, I am erotic, and there is only white in my emotional world! Love and marriage need 100% loyalty. If marriage is an Olympic marathon, I want to be a champion for a hundred years!
15, rather than being a hypocrite, be a real villain, natural selection, the law of the jungle, and most importantly, survival of the fittest! Before consolidating and strengthening yourself, there is no capital to talk about so-called loyalty, and the result can only be a fall together! Don't be satisfied with being a playmate, be a rulemaker!
16, the freedom of life lies in: doing what you want! And the greater freedom in life lies in: don't do anything if you don't want to do it! Carefree and open-minded!
17, habit is a poison. Car-free day makes us feel that city life can be like this, but there is no law that we can't drive a standard vehicle on the road, so we should guide it rather than force it! Otherwise, it would have been a good thing but it caused resistance!
18, women are extreme and contradictory individuals, and women's benevolence and the most poisonous woman's heart are the best portrayal! I am tolerant and forbearing to the person I love, but I feel like a snake and scorpion to the person I hate!
There are always some capable people in life who can do anything except themselves! Think of everything, but forget yourself!
It's delicious, but it's a home-cooked meal. Hold your hand, grow old with your son, gentle and romantic!
19. Suffering is a fortune. You can't see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. Facts have proved that loving mothers have lost more children. The more you give materially when you are young, the more you lose spiritually when you are old!
The road of life is full of compromise, weighing and giving up, all for the greatest happiness!
20. Looking for a lifetime, I found an old friend, loved for a lifetime, but fell in love with an enemy! It's not so much nature that tricks people, but rather self-inflicted. Today's fruit is the cause of yesterday. If we know today, why should we do this?