In other words, Gong He didn't know each other when he was in the national youth team, and there was no contact for a long time after he joined the national team from 65438 to 0989 in February. At that time, although the national men's and women's basketball teams were training together, they bowed their heads and looked up, but the training and competition arrangements were tense, and there were few opportunities for mutual contact, let alone talk about it. But it is in this greeting and passing eyes that two people look at each other pleasing to the eye and gradually develop into a sentence and an action, which makes them feel speculative. There are more and more topics. When they meet again outside the museum, they deliberately slow down, take a look and talk more. Recalling this past, Gong He almost said in unison that no one thought so much at that time, but after a stressful and boring training life, they were very happy to have a friendly friend of the opposite sex. From acquaintance to love, it can be said that it is love at first sight, and it can also be said that it is natural. However, almost all sports teams in China have a hard and fast rule that "active athletes are not allowed to fall in love". The national men's and women's basketball teams are no exception. This kind of "team discipline" played a role when Gong and his relationship became closer and closer. The relationship between them was not clear, but it was clear in the eyes of others. Gong of the men's basketball team and Gong of the women's basketball team were both advised and instructed to stop this relationship. Without refuting or even explaining, Gong and Li did notice the frequency and heat of communication, but neither of them intended to give up this kind of communication. After several years, speaking of the original idea, Gong He is still as honest as ever: not letting love affect training and competition, and the leaders are all thinking about the future of the players and the development of the team. We understand this, but if the power of love promotes the improvement of training, competition and love, shouldn't they be lenient? Gong and Li's best performance and impressive record in the national team came after their love, which seems to be an intriguing footnote for their stubbornness. Gong Xiaobin explained: If Li Xin stands on the sidelines during training and competition, I will feel particularly in a state and play very well; I didn't notice the improvement until she raised the problem that my center of gravity was too high and my attack speed was slow from defense to attack.
Gong recalled: "The national team asked not to go by themselves. I didn't agree at the time, but she insisted that I couldn't say anything more. But then the national men's team announced the list, and I was quite surprised without me. Because I was at my peak, I couldn't explain it without entering the national team. " Later, the relevant departments of the Shandong Provincial Sports Commission asked the Basketball Department why Gong, who was firmly in the main position of the national team, lost the election, and they knew the whole story. It turned out that after receiving Li Yaguang's report, the basketball department consulted Jiang Xingquan, head coach of the national men's basketball team. Jiang Xingquan had a deep prejudice against Gong, and immediately stated that "Gong can't adjust". Seeing that the head coaches of the national men's and women's basketball teams had a high degree of agreement, the Basketball Department could not say much, so it was decided to exclude Gong from the national men's basketball team preparing for the World Universiade. "I dragged him into the water together." Li Xin said with a wry smile. However, in the end, Gong could not be "dragged" to where she wanted him to go.