I. Persistent indifference or cold violence
I used to talk and laugh with you when we were together, but now you say a word to ta or ask ta to do something, and ta simply ignores you and doesn't even give you a look. If you are angry, you still think you are unreasonable. No matter how your mood changes, the other party doesn't care at all, and ta still goes its own way.
This kind of behavior is really disappointing, but some of us will still think about whether this is our own problem and what we have not done well. I don't know if people have planned it long ago, but they are wasting you. When you break up, they will brainwash you and say that it's not ta's fault, it's your own problem.
The second is perfunctory attitude.
In the past, you didn't have to look for ta to do anything. Ta always does this. Now I don't respond when I call ta, and I even have to urge ta several times to reply lazily. You may not wait long for a reply. Is the other party really busy? Maybe he is busy chatting with other little brothers and sisters. ...
Even chatting with a dispensable net friend is more interesting than chatting with you. Please don't think that ta is busy with work. No matter how busy you are, you can't reply to a message, taking up a day's time!
Third, there is no patience to create contradictions.
Maybe if you say more than two sentences, you will be scolded by the other party and say that you are bored. Even if I have done nothing wrong in my daily life, I will deliberately find something to scold you. Obviously, you are finding fault. Don't reflect on whether you have done something wrong. Don't wait on such uncles. Because whatever you do is wrong and the other person doesn't like you.
Speaking of which, I think of my ex-boyfriend, who is really the boss. At that time, when he chased me, all kinds of sweet words left PUA with me (in retrospect, I realized that I had been a PUA for so long! I really didn't notice when he changed his mind, but it was earlier than I expected.
Somehow, he ignored me. Even if I try to please him, it's no use improving this relationship with him (I feel like a clown now). He also deliberately attacked me personally, saying that I was not good here, so only he wanted me. If I break up in the future, who will value me ... (I really want to export the quintessence of Chinese culture).
Later, I happened to see what he wrote in a book: xxx, I miss you so much. That man is Bai Yueguang in his heart. Two whole pages. I can't see that he is still infatuated. I asked him angrily with a notebook. He also blames me for hindering his happiness. Such a man meets once in his life and is unlucky from head to toe.
I only regret that I didn't find out earlier, and I was stupid enough to think about changing my temper. Stop joking! If you notice that the other party is going to break up with you, it is better to find an opportunity to talk with the other party directly, so as not to delay the other party's time and make yourself feel bad all the time. What a painful understanding.