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Fatherly love and maternal love need physical support, and even have a time limit. Poverty inherits the wind! (repost: family stories during the epidemic)

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Just yesterday, my son received the news that the unit had postponed the start of work.

He put his arm around my shoulder and said, "Mom, I can stay at home for a few more days. Are you happy? "

To tell the truth, unhappy.

I looked at my wife out of the corner of my eye, and he gave me a wry smile.

My heart was crossed and I said, "Go tomorrow. You can drive yourself anyway. It will take two weeks to go back, and Longlong (grandson) will also accept it. "

The son froze.

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Last Spring Festival, the three of them came and went in a hurry.

My wife and I are in high spirits every time we come back.

Every time I leave, I send tears into my eyes. After a long time, I can't stop.

But this year, they came back on the 26th of the twelfth lunar month and stayed for half a month, but I got along with them enough.

Even the marching orders were issued.

Are my wife and I heartless?

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Son Liu Lei and daughter-in-law Xiaoli are both only children.

Xiaoli is from Qingdao, and our family lives in Linyi. After graduating from Liu Lei University, we stayed in Qingdao to get married.

Their husband and wife discussed with Xiaoli's parents that they would go back to their hometown every Spring Festival.

After all, 365 days a year, our time together is really limited.

In this limited time, of course, my wife and I are delicious and delicious.

Children are usually so busy at work that they have to reach out for dinner when they go home.

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But this Spring Festival, I feel a little overwhelmed.

In order to welcome their family of three, they began to prepare new year's goods and clean up as soon as they entered the twelfth lunar month.

But I have to accept that I am old. I used to clean the house, and I could clean it inside and out in a day or two without any dead ends.

But this year, I just cleaned the glass and had a rest. After two days, I was too tired to sleep at night.

My wife said, "Time and tide wait for no man. After all, we are all in our seventies. "

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When my son's family came back, the house was not clean and tidy.

Xiaoli has a good eye. Seeing that my wife and I were very busy, she immediately changed clothes to help.

And Liu Lei, after entering the room, went to lie on the sofa.

Xiaoli asked him to help wash the dishcloth. He said he was exhausted from driving, and later asked him to pour a glass of water. He pretended not to hear.

Forget it if you don't help. He will ask me what to eat tonight. Later, I asked his father if he made pork jelly.

My wife and I are used to being uncles when we go home-even if he is 38, he is still a child in front of us.

It's hard to work hard outside. Going home is just a wayward coquetry in front of parents for a few days.

Until he shouted, "Xiaoli, help me charge my mobile phone."

Xiaoli is angry.

Putting down the rag, she picked Liu Lei up from the sofa: "Everyone is working. Are you embarrassed to shout this and that? "

If it is in his own home, Liu Lei may also pay a smile, and it's over.

However, his father and I are around, and he can't face it.

"You don't do some work, see me idle uncomfortable? Do I usually do less at home? "

Seeing Xiaoli's face changing again and again, I quickly grabbed the rag in her hand, let her sit down and rest, and gave Liu a few words of reply.

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The next cleaning, my wife and I are just like thieves, doing it at random.

Otherwise, Xiaoli will definitely participate, and Liu Lei will definitely stand by and do nothing. I'm tired of listening to their quarrel.

My wife and I were exhausted in the evening.

But I have to play checkers with my grandson.

Seeing my wife asleep, I said to Longlong:

"Grandpa is sleepy, let's watch TV."

As a result, Longlong just turned on the TV. Within two minutes, Xiaoli came out of the room and shouted at:

"Who let you watch TV, don't know how to read after playing checkers?

Go back to grandma's house and you can do whatever you want? Grandparents spoil you, but I don't spoil you. "

My wife and I looked at each other in the room, which was very unpleasant.

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These days, there are still many such unpleasant smells.

The epidemic situation caused by the virus is getting more and more serious, and it has been lengthened this year.

Liu Lei, who went home, couldn't come back for five days as usual, and went out to meet his classmates and friends for three days.

This is really a kind of torture for him who likes to be lively and drink.

My wife is diabetic and can't drink. It is boring for him to drink alone.

So, from the beginning of New Year's Day, every night, he and several boys played boxing and drank in the video.

Besides, you can drink from six in the afternoon until ten in the evening.

Mom, you give me a cucumber. Mom, you fry me a peanut. ...

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For two days in a row, Xiaoli was anxious.

In the video, when Liu Lei and several friends were pushing cups for a change, she took his cup and took the food away.

Turn off the phone, and the two quarreled again, which became more and more fierce.

"I was beaten back to my original shape as soon as I got home. You don't wash your face or brush your teeth. You drink and drink all day, like a waste. "

"It's different to go back to your mother's house."

"Don't think I don't know about your little affair with your colleagues."

"If you have the ability, take out the evidence."

"People like you don't deserve to be fathers."

"Leave, civil affairs bureau to go to work. I don't want to be with you for a minute. "

Two people, you come and I go, and every sentence is over.

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My wife and I went out to persuade them, and they all said:

"It's none of your business. If you are busy at work, you will ignore it. "

How can we not hear it?

That night, the two had enough quarrels and were tired, so they went back to their rooms to sleep.

We all swore that we had to leave.

My wife and I were lying in bed, thinking about everything they said in the quarrel over and over again.

Endless worries made the night particularly long.

The next morning, my eyes were swollen, my wife, and the high pressure rose directly to 160, and nifedipine was quickly contained.

He sighed and said, "What shall we do? Do you need to call Xiaoli's parents to help persuade them? "

I thought about it, but I will forget it.

Don't let them worry about the new year.

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Although locked up at home, you can't play around for three meals a day. I can only get up and cook.

Longlong wants to eat sandwiches, and Xiaoli likes to drink soy milk. Liu Lei drank too much wine last night and had to cook him some mung bean porridge.

Breakfast is ready, and my head hurts a little. I ate a brain-clearing tablet and sat on the sofa with my wife waiting for them to get up.

But at half past eight, no one got up.

My wife has diabetes, so she must take insulin regularly and eat regularly and quantitatively.

I forced him to eat his meal, and then forced him to go back to his room to rest.

I'm worried. In case he is ill, even the hospital is afraid to go at this time.

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At half past nine, Longlong got up.

I treated him to dinner and said:

"You heard mom and dad quarreling last night. Be sensible and go to study after dinner."

Although the child is reluctant, he still sits in the living room and does his homework after dinner.

Liu Lei and Xiaoli didn't get up until half past ten.

Seeing that I didn't eat, Xiaoli said, "Mom, don't wait for us in the future. In this way, we will not be punctual when we rest. "

/kloc-I didn't eat until 0: 30, and I did have a little hypoglycemia.

However, I have something on my mind and can't eat.

When Liu Lei and Xiaoli sat down to eat, I just wanted to persuade them.

As a result, you gave me roast chicken eggs and I served you porridge. It seems that there is no hysterical divorce at all.

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Tears fell when my heart was sour.

When they saw me crying, they were all very surprised and asked:

"Mom, what's the matter with you?" "Mom, what's the matter with you?"

"Your father and I didn't sleep last night. Don't be so noisy in the future. As elderly people, we can't stand it! "

I felt relieved and wronged when I saw that they were reconciled, and tears fell down my suggestion.

"Mom, we quarrel when chatting, why do you still take it seriously? You won't quarrel with my dad! "

"Mom, we are really good. Marriage without quarreling is terrible. "

The two tacitly advised me to eat well, drink well and talk and laugh casually.

I went back to my room silently and looked at my wife who had just fallen asleep, and tears came down again.

As long as they can think more about the elderly, they won't be so noisy at night.

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When my mother-in-law is around, I feel that it is really an old lady's birthday every year, and it is getting worse every year.

At that time, I thought my mother-in-law was afraid of old age.

Now I finally understand that being old is a real and helpless feeling.

A family of five has three meals a day.

Before, I never bothered to cook, but these days, after breakfast, I started planning lunch and dinner again.

Most of the day is either cooking or thinking about doing something.

As for Liu Lei, besides eating, he either watches TV, plays with his mobile phone or sleeps.

Xiaoli is also singing with her husband.

How dare you ask your daughter-in-law to help you if your own son doesn't work?

In the past, they were only responsible for going home for the Spring Festival, and my wife and I were responsible for managing the food.

But this year, I worked hard.

Sometimes after a busy day in the kitchen, I have to break my leg to carry it at night, and my back hurts like a broken one.

I told my wife with emotion, and he said, "You think you are still young, and you are 68."

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That night, after washing the dishes, I had a bad back pain and lay in bed to rest.

After a while, Liu Lei came to me and said, "Mom, can you use some toothpaste when you brush cups in the future?" I just wanted to drink water and found oil on the side of the cup. "

I haven't come to explain it yet, and I haven't been able to brush the cup.

Liu Lei added, "You know how tired Xiaoli was when she helped you clean the kitchen that day. Only a few days later, the kitchen was full of oil. Every time I finish cooking, I can't clean it. "

"Also, look at you, just eat and lie down, is not good for your health. Although not allowed to go out, but to walk around at home ... "

"Look at the dress you are wearing. You've been wearing it since I got home. Those cashmere sweaters I bought for you are expensive and beautiful. You never wear it. You have to look like a vegetable lady. "

"Also, you must learn to pay by WeChat, so you don't have to bring cash. On the one hand, it is safety and hygiene. The older you get, the more you have to learn these advanced things, do you hear? "

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Once upon a time, when my son taught his parents a lesson, he looked like an old man.

Parents' clothing, food, shelter, transportation and behavior are all wrong or outdated in their eyes.

Most mothers in the world, as long as they have a little strength, can't run to the room to lie down after dinner when their children are at home. If she lies down, it means that she is really tired.

He may not know until he is 70 years old that even a simple bending motion is difficult and risky for a patient with lumbar spondylolisthesis.

We don't want to wear expensive clothes bought by our children, but we are reluctant to wear them.

When relatives and friends get together, we don't dress up, so we say, intentionally or unintentionally:

"This is my son's daughter-in-law bought. Death costs a lot. Young people just love to spend money. There is no way. "

What kind of scanning code payment is there? Presbyopia is difficult to see the mobile phone, and if you are not careful, you will press the wrong number. Why should I use it?

Even if I'm a little behind the times, I haven't caused any trouble to others. What's there to be angry about?

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However, as usual, listening to Liu Lei's endless criticism, I am powerless to refute and have no intention of defending.

All the year round, just for a few days, no parent wants to be kind and seek common ground while reserving differences.

It is not easy for children to work hard outside. When they get home, they eat whatever they want, sleep as long as they want, and get angry when they have a temper.

In the final analysis, people can only be completely willful in front of their parents.

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However, they are really too headstrong.

It was only two days after the last quarrel, and the two quarreled again because of Longlong's study.

It's still the kind of rummaging through everything.

At the height of the quarrel, Liu Lei dropped the glass and told Xiaoli to get out.

Xiaoli is also a strong person, so she has to put on her clothes and leave.

Who can let her go at this time?

I tried to stall Xiaoli, and my wife grabbed the mop at home and pretended to hit Liu Lei.

Longlong hid in the house and dared not come out, crying all the time.

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That night, my wife's blood pressure rose to 160 again.

When I gave him the medicine and finally returned to normal, my migraine came again.

At this point, it is already twelve o'clock at night.

I went to the living room to find the medicine cabinet, passed by Mr. and Mrs. Liu Lei's room, and heard them talking and laughing.

My tears fell off guard again.

It's a good thing that the couple didn't have a one-night feud, but do they know that nowadays, even passers-by quarrel, we are all uneasy.

We are old, and our cardiovascular and cerebrovascular systems can no longer bear such intense scenes.

The privacy of the other party revealed during the quarrel may not be taken seriously, but we cannot forget it.

Every day after they left, when we think of those things and words, we will guess in our hearts and feel sad for a long time.

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That night, my wife and I lost sleep again and talked a lot.

Fatherly love and maternal love need physical support, and even have a time limit.

"If we are too old to cook, are they still willing to go back to this home?"

Such a question is cruel, but it is the most real situation faced by people of our age.

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That day, I chatted with an elder sister on the phone. She just sent her daughter home and was seriously ill.

She said, "My health is not up to expectations. I just cook a meal every day. As a result, I was tired. I should have wrapped them in jiaozi this morning, but I didn't. "

I said with emotion, "Yes, my children think we will never get old, and I think so myself, but the body can't fool people."

Put the phone down, I was in tears.

Going home is a holiday for children, but for parents in their seventies and eighties, it is Du Jie.

How many children take it for granted that their parents will not be tired if they are happy.

Not naive, but selfish.

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Grit your teeth and finally get to the day before your son goes to work.

As a result, the unit notified the delay in starting work.

He told us the good news at the first time, thinking that we would be ecstatic.

But this time, instead of keeping them, I ordered them to leave on the grounds that they would go back to quarantine for half a month.

The fact is that we are exhausted and can't bear such company.

Originally, his wife wanted to have a good talk with Liu Lei before they left.

On second thought, I stopped him.

This will not be a pleasant conversation.

It's the first day of the lunar new year, and the epidemic is already annoying enough, so don't add to it.

Let them start the new year with attachment to their families.

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On the day my son returned home, my wife and I ate very simply, cleaned up the leftovers and changed three meals into two.

I have no appetite.

My wife suggested that I go to a nursing home when the epidemic passed.

He said: "It's all empty talk to raise children to prevent old age, let alone whether children have this filial piety. Two generations of people with different concepts live together, young people feel uncomfortable, and we old people feel uncomfortable. "

I agreed.

But I still have to ask my wife to accompany my son for the New Year, so that we can take care of ourselves.

After all, as elderly parents, there are not many opportunities to cook for their children. ...

I know this idea is wrong, but who makes me a mother?

Who is a mother in the world, not a bitch! Poverty inherits the wind!