Yan Ni became an instant hit by playing "Tong Xiangyu".

Later, she participated in such wonderful works as "School of Youth", "The North Wind Blows" and "One Servant and Two Masters", and won the Flying Award for outstanding actress and the best actress of Magnolia.

However, before becoming famous, Yan Ni experienced a failed marriage and remained single.

She and her ex-husband Zou Wei are not only friends, but also relatives.

I was stopped by my in-laws during the divorce. However, sad Yan Ni comforted her in-laws and was praised for not being a daughter-in-law.

Yan Ni, 197 1, was born in a worker's family in Xi, Shaanxi.

There are no artists at home, only actors.

Yan Ni, 15 years old, followed her parents, moved from the west to the south, lived near Xi 'an Film Studio, and entered No.45 Middle School.

At school, Yan Ni's classmates are mostly children of Xi 'an Film Studio, with clear goals, and become actors after graduating from high school.

Yan Ni has no goal in life. Her classmates told her: You are fit to be an actor! She can't act.

"I'm from Xiying, and I can help you get into the art school." This classmate said.

The classmates gave her a teacher's guidance and took her to Beijing Film Academy.

Yan Ni went in for the exam, and the students waited anxiously outside the door for fear that something would go wrong with her. She had a feeling of self-cultivation.

The first, second and third attempts of Nortel were very smooth, and Yan Ni confidently waited for the notice of the cultural examination.

However, Yan Ni didn't receive the notice, so she went to Xi 'an to find a classmate. As a result, when the students received it, they knew that they had not been selected.

That year, in the second year of high school, Yan Ni wanted to make a determined effort to study hard and try to get into a good school through the culture class.

From 65438 to 0988, Yan Ni entered Shaanxi University of Finance and Economics, majoring in business management.

She doesn't like this major at all and is obsessed with acting.

Two years later, Lanzhou Military Region Drama Troupe went to Xi 'an to recruit students. Yan Ni has a chance to pass the exam and become a literary fighter.

A few months later, Yan Ni was sent to the People's Liberation Army Art College to study acting and began to take the stage of drama.

1996, 25-year-old Yan Ni still didn't play an important role, and his parents began to worry about marriage.

Yan Ni was introduced to Zou Wei.

Zou Wei used to be a soldier and shared a common topic with Yan Ni.

One is in Beijing and the other is in Lanzhou. They often meet.

The family thinks that since they live together, they should get married. In those days, living together without getting married was not a good thing.

In the same year, they got married in Beijing.

After marriage, Yan Ni still travels between Beijing and Lanzhou.

1998, the daughter of Yan Ni and Zou Wei was born. Because she was born on New Year's Day, she was named Zou Yuanqing.

When her daughter was one year old, Yan Ni returned to the film industry and officially entered the entertainment circle.

It falls to Zou Wei to take care of his daughter. He also has his own job.

Zou Wei's parents came forward to tell Yan Ni and Zou Wei that our daughter is in our care. You can rest assured that you will work hard outside.

Zou Yuanqing, who was educated by her in-laws, was very sensible and didn't give her parents any trouble since she was a child.

After the filming, Yan Ni returned home. Although Zou Yuanqing misses her mother, she won't disturb her rest.

In-laws take care of her daughter, but she has been filming in other places all the year round, and her relationship with her husband Zou Weiju has also faded.

In 2004, Yan Ni just received The Legend of Wulin, immersed in joy, but the smile on her face disappeared in an instant the next second.

When Zou Wei came home from work, he saw Yan Ni cooking in the kitchen and said, "Yan Ni, let's get a divorce!" !

It was too noisy in the kitchen, so Yan Ni didn't hear clearly: The meal will be ready soon, please wait a moment.

Zou Wei couldn't wait for a moment, and raised his voice and said, "Let's get a divorce.".

Yan Ni stopped what she was doing and stood there, wondering why her husband wanted a divorce.

She walked out of the kitchen and looked at Zou Wei. He said that the house, the car and the children are all yours. I left home clean, turned around and opened the door.

Yan Ni collapsed and cried in the room. See Zou Wei determined to divorce, she also don't save.

When the parents-in-law heard that their son divorced Yan Ni, they were very angry.

Zou Wei's father beat and scolded his son: I don't know good or bad, and I treat marriage as a joke. Such a good daughter-in-law is equivalent to losing a treasure.

The mother asked her son with tears: Is there no room for redemption? Zou Wei whispered: The two sides decided to divorce together!

When Yan Ni left, her in-laws reluctantly sent her away with tears in their eyes. Yan Ni also said goodbye to her in-laws with tears in her eyes.

A few days later, Yan Ni went to her parents-in-law's house to take her daughter home, and was warmly received by her parents-in-law.

Zou Wei's mother said to Yan Ni, Connie, is it impossible for you and Xiao Wei? At this point, neither my child nor her grandfather expected that there was normal friction between husband and wife.

Yan Ni was afraid that her in-laws would be sad, so she didn't give a clear answer directly. She said, mom and dad, thank you for your concern. Look at fate.

My former parents-in-law said with tears: I can't bear to leave our home.

Just when her daughter offered to live with her grandparents, Yan Ni continued to let her daughter Zou Yuanqing be taken care of by them, and she was relieved.

The former parents-in-law were ecstatic and said to Yan Ni, "Don't worry, Yuanyuan will definitely be fat with us." .

Just at that time, Yan Ni was filming "Legend of Wulin", and she was in a bad mood and wanted a divorce, so she didn't have the energy to take care of her daughter.

As long as Yan Ni is not busy filming, she will go to her in-laws' house to see her daughter.

Sometimes, Yan Ni will take her daughter to her side, send her back to her parents-in-law's house, and then join the group.

Although Yan Ni spent little time with her daughter, the daughter cared for by her former in-laws was excellent, not only sensible, but also learned a skill.

On the granddaughter, the former in-laws did their best and contributed money.

The old couple are retired and have retirement wages. Yan Ni will still give money to her in-laws, saying that it is her daughter's living expenses, but it is actually for them.

The former in-laws said nothing: we have money, and Yuanyuan is our granddaughter. What's wrong with giving her some money?

Yan Ni can't compete with them, so it can only subsidize more in normal times.

She often buys fruits and cakes for the old couple and her favorite scarf for her mother-in-law. Sometimes she will take the initiative to pay the living expenses and treat her former in-laws like her own parents.

Former in-laws regard Yan Ni as their own daughter. Although I divorced my son, my love for my son has not changed.

Every time I go to my parents-in-law's house, Yan Ni just needs to sit and rest. The old couple are always busy. She offered to help, but her ex-in-laws would stop her.

Once before leaving home, my ex-in-laws made salted duck eggs for Yan Ni, and she went to the crew to share them with her colleagues. They all said it was delicious. Ask her where she bought it.

She said her granddaughter and grandmother did it. Colleagues were surprised to ask, divorced, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still so good.

Yan Ni said that the old couple are very kind and respect me, and I respect them.

In 2008, Zou Wei met his sweetheart again, breaking the idea that his parents wanted him to get back together with Yan Ni.

When Yan Ni went to see her daughter, her former in-laws had an in-depth exchange with her.

The former mother-in-law told Yan Ni: Zou Wei has a new partner, and you are no longer our daughter-in-law, so we will treat you as our own daughter.

Hearing this, Yan Ni said with great excitement: I am your daughter, and I will always be.

Zou Yuanqing continues to be taken care of by his grandparents, and their affection for Yan Ni will only increase, as if Zou Wei were an outsider in this family.

After Zou Wei and Yan Ni divorced, their feelings rose from friends to relatives.

Outside, if anything happens to Yan Ni, she will take the initiative to call her ex-husband, and if she needs his help, she will arrive as soon as possible.

On one occasion, Yan Ni encountered a fraudulent phone call.

The other end of the phone said that you were suspected of breaking the law and needed to go to the public security bureau and the bank, otherwise you would be restricted from leaving the country. ......

Yan Ni a listen to frightened, he didn't do anything, how illegal.

Besides, she was caught up in something, so Yan Ni thought of her ex-husband Zou Wei, who worked in the public security bureau, just to show him what was going on.

Yan Ni called Zou Wei and briefly described what he had just experienced.

Zou Wei told her directly: This is a fraudulent phone call. Leave it to me. Hearing this sentence, Yan Ni was relieved.

Zou Wei usually takes her daughter to various places to play, accompanies her to interest classes, and is keen to do anything for her.

Regarding the daughter, Zou Wei and Yan Ni will discuss it together before making a decision.

20 1 1 year, 13-year-old Zou Yuanqing was in adolescence and began to rebel. If you don't listen carefully in class, your academic performance plummets, and you have the idea of not going to school.

Zou Yuanqing told her parents that she was rejected. She told Yan Ni: I want to study abroad. Yan Ni refused directly.

She told her grandparents and dad that they had heard the same answer.

Zou Yuanqing and her mother, Yan Ni, were soft and hard, and she finally let go. Seeing that the mother of the child has promised, grandparents can only compromise.

Granddaughter grew up beside her and hasn't left her for such a long time.

Yan Ni told the old couple: Don't worry, I'm sure I can put Yuanyuan back in place, and it will be fine.

Yuanyuan also told her grandparents that she would often talk to them on the phone.

Yan Ni and Zou Wei both have their own careers at home, and there is no way to accompany their daughters to study in the United States.

/kloc-when he was 0/3 years old, Zou Yuanqing left his hometown alone, so how could his parents rest assured?

Yan Ni asked a friend for help, personally sent her daughter to that place, settled down and went home.

Because Yan Ni often filmed and didn't have much time to fly to the United States to see her daughter, she told her ex-husband to fly to the United States to spend more time with her daughter.

Zou Wei basically goes to see her daughter whenever she has time.

20 14 years, Zou Wei's parents are over 70 years old, and their health is getting worse every day. If the old man is all right, Yan Ni will visit him.

This time, it was not her former in-laws, but she cooked for her former in-laws.

Unexpectedly, the old couple didn't have their granddaughter around, and Yan Ni didn't change. Yan Ni said: I am your daughter. How does the relationship change? The former in-laws are warm in heart.

My daughter in America heard that her grandparents were in poor health and told her mother that she would return to China. Yan Ni agreed without saying anything.

After returning home, Yan Ni first took her daughter to visit her grandparents. They are as happy as children.

When grandparents are old, Yan Ni lets her daughter live with her, and whenever she has time, she takes her daughter home to visit them.

During my years in the United States, Zou Yuanqing missed many courses. In order to successfully take the college entrance examination, Yan Ni found a closed school for her daughter.

Grandparents are worried that their granddaughter will not eat well and wear warm clothes at school, and often cook for her.

Sometimes, Zou Yuanqing wants to rest at home during holidays. Grandparents will call Yan Ni, cook your favorite dishes, and then hurry to have dinner with Yuanyuan.

Yan Ni hurriedly took her daughter to her parents-in-law's house for dinner. After playing for a while, her granddaughter went back to school.

Yan Ni would say, Grandpa and Grandma don't give up, we will meet again soon.

In 20 16, Zou Yuanqing listened to his mother Yan Ni and entered the double-degree class of film and television performance of the Central Academy of Drama.

She successfully got the admission notice with excellent results and quickly told her grandparents at the first time.

Grandma cried when she heard the excitement. Grandpa's blood pressure soared because of fluctuations. His family was scared when they saw it, but it was okay.

The following year, Yan Ni's former mother-in-law was ill and hospitalized. When she heard the news, she left work and rushed to the hospital.

Basically, whenever she is free, Yan Ni will go to the hospital to take care of her ex-mother-in-law.

My ex-mother-in-law was moved to tears and told Yan Ni: My son is unlucky. I hope we can be our own daughters in the next life.

Yan Ni said: You have always been my mother.

Since then, Yan Ni has always visited her former in-laws.

Zou Yuanqing's mother is an actress. In her freshman year, she went out to film, and collaborated with Chen Feiyu and others to film The Secret Fruit.

As long as there is a suitable opportunity, Yan Ni will take her daughter and even make a film about mother and daughter, I am your mother.

With the support of Yan Ni, her daughter Zou Yuanqing developed smoothly in the entertainment circle.

Once, Yan Ni visited her former in-laws and talked with her about marriage.

The former mother-in-law said: You are not young, and your daughters have grown up and have their own lives. You should also consider your own affairs.

Before, my mother-in-law had talked to Yan Ni about this topic many times, but she always said: There is no fate, and there is no suitable person.

In her mother-in-law's heart, Yan Ni is her own daughter.

My mother-in-law's wish is to see Yan Ni remarry with her own eyes and pay attention to it before marrying her. Hearing this, Yan Ni's eyes moistened.

Zou Yuanqing often urges mothers to find their own happiness and not to compromise for their daughters.

In the face of marriage, Yan Ni also considered that he had entered the entertainment circle for so many years and had never met a suitable person.

She has loved her daughter and her parents-in-law, and she is very satisfied and happy.

It is said that "the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" is an eternal problem, which does not exist in Yan Ni and her in-laws.

They are not their own daughters, they are better than their own daughters.

Especially after divorce, you don't have to get along with your ex-in-laws. But Yan Ni couldn't bear to feel sorry for the old couple and continued to treat them sincerely.

Former parents-in-law treat their former daughter-in-law just like their own daughters, and even have deeper feelings.

This is Yan Ni's love for her in-laws, as well as her in-laws' love for Yan Ni, which is the result of joint operation.

Yan Ni is broad-minded and broad-minded, so she can get a harmonious and good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Give your heart and soul, and you will be sincerely rewarded.