However, the reason why it becomes a buzzword depends on its extended meaning. It often refers to a person's behavior that is disrespectful, unruly, even rude and inappropriate, especially for his own interests, and is dubbed by many netizens as "ugly eating".
Many readers told me that the whole person became very grumpy when encountering this ugly food, but they were helpless, because such people often had no bottom line and no mood at all. If you fight them, to be honest, you will be defeated in less than five rounds, but it will make you more depressed. So many people will wonder, what should I do if I meet such an ugly person?
Cheng Yue: When you meet such an ugly foodie, I suggest you stay away from it. Some people eat badly. The more you avoid them, the closer they get to you. We can't quit for such people. Since I can't stand it, I don't have to bear it anymore. Go home. People like them are simply "bitches". The more you give in and endure, the more presumptuous they are. When you are really cruel, they will listen.
Reader Zhang Lin is a maverick girl, which benefits from her parents' profound influence on western culture. Zhang Lin, under the influence of his parents, has developed a character of hating evil and not sticking to one pattern, which is quite chivalrous. Because of her careless personality, Zhang Lin gained many friends of the opposite sex during her school days. It is precisely because of this that Zhang Lin is also very big, because others only regard her as a "brother", so she stayed until she graduated from college, Zhang Lin.
After graduating from college, Zhang Lin found a very good job by her own ability. Although Zhang Lin is always cheerful on the surface, Zhang Lin is very lonely when he returns to his residence at night, especially when he receives the invitation to get married. Although her parents often comfort her not to worry, she can also feel the urgency of her parents.
Later, Zhang Lin met Chen Bin at a party. Unlike Zhang Lin, Chen Bin has a gentle personality and decent words and deeds. Their personalities are just complementary. After the party, Chen Bin took the initiative to call Zhang Lin, and their feelings gradually expanded.
On Valentine's Day, Chen Bin held more than 99 roses and knelt down to confess to Zhang Lin in front of everyone in the square. Looking into Chen Bin's sincere eyes, Zhang Lin took the rose with tears in her eyes.
After more than a year of love, two people began to talk about marriage, because Zhang Lin's parents were more open-minded and didn't care about the traditional marriage customs. As long as they feel happy, that's enough. As for Chen Bin's hometown, Zhang Lin's parents don't care. After all, the old couple had already planned to buy a suite for their daughter in the city. And Chen Bin also promised Zhang Lin to live in the city after marriage.
The house was bought in full. Although the housing prices in third-tier cities are not too high, they cost nearly one million. Chen Bin's parents said, "Although our family's economy is not good, marriage is a matter for two families after all. We can't let the in-laws pay, and we will decorate the house. "
Seeing that Chen Bin's parents were so persistent, Zhang Lin's parents agreed to come down and spent less than 200,000 yuan on renovation. When handing over the house, Zhang Lin's mother-in-law said earnestly, "son, I know that this request I made is too much." After all, your parents spent so much money, and it's right to write your name on the property certificate, but I know Chen Bin's children, and he will have some contradictions in his heart. After all, he is a man and lives in your house.
Zhang Lin's mother-in-law's remarks completely touched her heart. She urged her parents for three days and finally decided to add Chen Bin's name to the property certificate. The wedding came as scheduled, and Zhang Lin married this loving husband in a gorgeous wedding dress.
After they had just been married for half a year, Chen Bin said to Zhang Lin, "Honey, my parents called and said they wanted to live in town." At first, Zhang Lin thought that her in-laws would only stay for a few days, but when she knew that her in-laws were going to settle here, Zhang Lin refused without hesitation at the thought of getting along with her in-laws.
At this time, Zhang Lin's in-laws began to show their greedy and unreasonable nature. On the phone, my mother-in-law threatened: "This is my son's room. I can live as long as I want, and nobody can control it. " .
Seeing her in-laws' cheating behavior, Zhang Lin was very chilling and regretted listening to her mother-in-law's sweet words. If she hadn't added her husband's name to the room book, maybe they wouldn't be so crazy. Faced with the aggressiveness of her parents-in-law and her husband's hard persuasion, Zhang Linsheng was forced to stay up all night. Later, she learned from a friend who is a lawyer that although her husband's name is on the real estate license, it does not mean that the house is her husband's.
Knowing this, Zhang Lin immediately found a few friends to scrape together more than 100,000 yuan, and then dumped it on her husband Chen Bin and said, "This is the money your parents originally decorated. Now I'll give it back to you. This house has nothing to do with them. If you persuade me again, our feelings will be goodbye. "
Zhang Lin's strength surprised Chen Bin and his parents. Since then, Zhang Lin's in-laws have stopped talking about moving here. Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was deadlocked, at least Zhang Lin kept her marriage.
I don't think there is anything radical in Zhang Lin's practice, and I have always disapproved of cohabitation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Keeping a proper distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law helps to establish a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If you stay under the same roof all day, even the best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be exhausted and become an enemy who can fight for money.
Furthermore, Zhang Lin's mother-in-law said that she was shameless to say that it was her son's house. I have never had any affection for such an ugly mother-in-law, and I will not give her any sympathy, because such a mother-in-law will sooner or later become the initiator of the marriage breakdown.
Cheng Yue: It's best not to touch a bowl of soup, which can create a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Don't always want to be a demon, or you will be trapped in a cocoon sooner or later.