Hong Xiaoling is well-known to the audience for his role as "Ou Yaruo" in the TV series "The Stars Grazing Sheep". Who is Hong Xiaoling's husband has always been a hot topic among fans. It is reported that Hong Xiaoling is unmarried, and Hong Xiaoling's boyfriend is Wei Li. He has starred in TV series and movies such as The Shepherd's Star, Sparrows Fall in Love with Phoenix, and Evil Spirit 05. With Hong Xiaoling. In addition, he also participated in TV series such as Car God and Shanghai Sweetheart.

Thailand's Jimmy Lin and Hong Xiaoling had an affair because they starred in the Taiwanese drama Ghost 05 together, but Hong Xiaoling's ex-boyfriend Wei Li broke their noses. In response to this, Jimmy Lin of Thailand admitted that he and Hong Xiaoling were good friends, but he was not beaten because of the love triangle.