"All along, my idea is that I love you, you are so good, I will never fall in love with another man again, but we can't be together!"
How touching the confessions of the above two people are! There should be applause at this time.
However, if you know that the woman above robbed her boyfriend who had talked with her for ten years, will you still be moved?
The above dialogue is between He Han and Luo Zijun in the TV series My First Half Life.
When it was broadcast, many netizens abandoned the drama because of this plot, which also lowered the score of Douban.
Some netizens commented that He Han is worse than Chen, and Luo Zijun is Bai Lianhua than Lingling.
He Han, who had already proposed, even got the wedding dress and wedding ready, but suddenly got divorced because of Luo Zijun.
Luo Zijun a face of injustice, hope Tang Jing forgive her. He Han also defended Luo Zijun, which is his own problem and has nothing to do with Luo Zijun.
The more so, the more sad Tang Jing's heart.
She said: "it is her biggest mistake to make you fall in love with her!" " "
At first, I thought this sentence was Tang Jing's angry words. He Han fell in love with Luo Zijun, and Luo Zijun couldn't control it!
But the second brush, think Tang Jing said this sentence, is very sober, no wonder she can't forgive Luo Zijun.
Taking Luo Zijun as her best friend, when she was abandoned by Chen, she pulled her out of the trough of life. Teach Xiao Sanling and Chen a lesson.
She also took her boyfriend He Han to help her.
Find her a job, help her find a lawyer, and get back the custody of her son. Help her change from a social pariah to a self-reliant working mother.
She also said that without Tang Jing, there would be no me today.
However, she clearly knew that He Han was Tang Jing's boyfriend, or she moved her heart to He Han first.
There is a monologue of her own in the play, which goes like this: He Han left a peaceful room. Actually, I'm already very sleepy, but I just can't bear to sleep. I hope to stay in this gentleness as long as possible.
Although I know I will lose it soon. Even now, I still remember everything that night, even the lights, the smell and the wind outside the window. What moved me was not the night, but He Han.
Facing He Han's guidance and help, Luo Zijun was seduced by this excellent man.
It's normal to be tempted by a good man, but this man is his best friend's boyfriend. When tempted, shouldn't normal people warn themselves to let this small flame go out?
But she fell into the aftertaste, hoping to keep this gentleness as long as possible.
The next operation is even more incomprehensible.
I clearly know that Tang Jing loves He Han, and I know that I shouldn't love He Han, but I have been bothering He Han in my actions. Even the family gave He Han trouble.
Luo Zijun's sister Luo Ziqun quarreled with her brother-in-law Bai Guang and left home with her son. As a result, the child had a fever and went to the hospital without money, so he called Luo Zijun.
She was just about to go out when He Han sent Pinger home. She asked Pinger to accompany her to the hospital. He Han said that he was accompanying Pinger to reassure her.
Luo Zijun just declined to agree and didn't insist on taking Pinger with him. In fact, she can send Pinger to grandma's house or grandma's house, or to her father Chen. No, it's better to send it to Tang Jing than to show it to He Han.
Maybe someone will say, isn't it just to see the children? It's not gonna happen. If Luo Zijun doesn't have a secret crush on He Han, it's nothing to look after the children, but he just has a secret crush on him. I think it's different.
The more time you spend alone, the easier it is to suppress your love.
When Luo Zijun came back from the hospital, he saw He Han asleep on the sofa. Her first reaction was to cover him with a blanket, not to wake him up. As can be seen from this detail, Luo Zijun likes He Han more and more.
After He Han woke up, she also told He Han that her sister's marriage was unfortunate, and then she felt that their sisters were too unfortunate to marry the right person.
Then, He Han started the life mentor mode again, and came to a pot of chicken soup for the soul, which was very good for Luo Zijun.
After He Han left, Luo Zijun began to feel lonely again: He Han and I are the distance between birds and fish. The implication is that we love each other but can't be together!
In fact, Luo Zijun wants to be with He Han, or at least hopes He Han loves her.
When she broke up with Laojin, Laojin waited for her to go to work at home, and He Han also came to pick her up. In front of Laojin, He Han handfuls of her in her arms and behaved very intimately.
At that time, her reaction was a little shy and secretly pleased, rather than pushing him away. Although it is to get rid of Laojin, is it really good to be held in your arms by your best friend's boyfriend?
If Tang Jing knew, would it be misunderstood?
She didn't think about it, but she was still thinking about whether Laojin would regard her as a vain woman.
I think this thing, she is doing something very strange, holding her best friend's boyfriend together, for whatever reason, is very ambiguous!
Helping Luo Zijun again and again, when two people get along alone, more and more, and He Han slowly likes Luo Zijun.
One rainy night, I drove to find Luo Zijun who was left on the road by a taxi. In the evening 1 1 half past ten, I took a fake resume to tutor Luo Zijun. By the way, I cooked a salmon and drank it while eating, talking and laughing.
Later, Luo Zijun entered the departments of Chen Xing and Linlin. In order to embarrass her, Lingling and the department staff got Luo Zijun drunk. He Han took her home and took care of her all night. Therefore, He Han cheated Tang Jing, but he didn't take good care of her.
In fact, Tang Jing is outside the door.
Another time Luo Zijun went to Hangzhou on business and couldn't come back for Pinger's birthday at night. He Han drove Pinger and her mother to arrange a birthday party and play with Pinger, which delayed important work.
Luo Zijun saw He Han pay for himself in this way, and he was secretly pleased and didn't feel wrong.
In fact, every time He Han expresses goodwill, she can refuse and keep a certain distance. Instead of bothering him with everything.
Luo Zijun is inferior to Lao Zhuo (Chen Shi) in refusing this matter. Lao Zhuo knows that Lolo likes him, but he knows that Lolo is the daughter of his friend, and his friend asked him to take care of Lolo.
He thinks it is immoral to fall in love with Lolo, and he is sorry for his friends. So from the beginning, his attitude was very clear and he refused completely.
He knows that only a complete refusal can make Lolo give up. Although it will be sad, it is only temporary.
Rejection must be thorough, and you can't leave thoughts for others. This is even more immoral.
He Han fell in love with Luo Zijun, and Luo Zijun had a bigger problem. When she realizes that she is in love with He Han, she should tell herself that it is impossible, just like Lao Zhuo, and then take measures to prevent things from getting worse.
Instead of keeping her distance from He Han, she disturbed him more frequently and got along with him alone.
Not only did he feel nothing wrong with doing so, but he also regretted being late. If only he wasn't Tang Jing's boyfriend.
Finally, He Han confessed to her and fell in love with her. She refused, but her heart was full of joy. She refused because she was afraid of losing Tang Jing, a good girlfriend, and everyone pointing fingers.
Why did you go early? Why did He Han pretend to be afraid of hurting Tang Jing after he fell in love with her?
In fact, whether she is with He Han or not cannot change the fact that she has hurt Tang Jing.
The most selfish thing about her is that she doesn't agree to be with He Han. She just tells him that I know you love me and I have always loved you, but we can't be together.
The implication of this sentence is that because of Tang Jing, although we love each other, we can't be together.
Telling He Han that she loves him is the biggest betrayal of Tang Jing.
Being a man needs to have a bottom line, and what you say should be integrated with your actions. I can't say that you are my best friend, and I can't hurt you, but I am taking your boyfriend step by step with my actions.
There are so many helpless people in this world, only shattered glass.
Some things seem out of our control, but in fact they may have been planned!