When I set foot in this industry, I already knew that this extraordinary industry was doomed to an extraordinary life, and I also understood that this industry is to help people alleviate their illnesses, overcome diseases and get rid of them.
During the winter vacation, I am both excited and excited to look forward to the arrival of clinical work. At the same time, I watched The Doctor's Kindness, which was recommended by the teacher. After reading it, I can't help feeling. I saw the superb medical skills of Zhong in the play, and I also saw the corruption in the medical field. I saw those hypocritical, greedy and selfish people, saw the contradiction between doctors and patients, and saw many pain points caused by the proliferation of red envelopes, which ignited the hidden letter of collusion between medical institutions and hospitals and directed at some doctors.
It is a great comfort to watch this TV series and hear such a sentence from a patient's family. He said? A good doctor needs patient's tolerance to grow better? . Any volunteer worker will be moved by this understanding when he hears this sentence. Yes, medicine is a practical major. It takes four to five years for an undergraduate course, three to four years for a junior college and two to three years for a secondary school. There is still a growing process in clinic, a process of gradually accumulating experience and maturing technology. People often complain too much and treat interns as experiments. As a teaching hospital, it undertakes certain teaching tasks. Moreover, interns are taught by special personnel, and they can only be independent after obtaining certain qualifications. When they encounter difficult and confusing problems, they need to consult their superiors or discuss them together. A star can be famous for a song, a movie or a movie drama. Where are the famous doctors? It takes ten years, twenty years or even longer to become a famous doctor. Even if you become a famous doctor, you have to bear the same risks. Medical skills are not practiced on models or themselves to the point where practice makes perfect, but accumulated bit by bit in the process of treating patients. The doctor who treated you is also famous for treating one patient after another who was cured or not before you. You can enjoy such medical care today. With such superb technology, the old and the new alternate, famous doctors get old, young people always get sick, and hospitals need batch after batch. Only those diseases that cannot be cured at present can be cured. The disease of God of War is the common goal of doctors and patients. Without patients, there would be no medicine. It is the complexity of patients' diseases that promotes the development of medicine. Patients and their families, we understand your painful struggle, but we also need your understanding and support.
Doctor's Kindness and Reflection
This winter seems a little restless, or my heart is in a mess this winter, or more accurately, it is called much ado about nothing. Somehow I always feel that my heart has been captured by a kind of power, just like when I was in senior three. I lost weight unconsciously, and now I am much freer than before. Without a teacher always following my ass to urge me, I am more conscious of my behavior. Strange to say, the climate this year is really weird. It would be perfect if there were another snow in June. I think so, too. I finally found the feeling of winter when I got home, but it was really cold, so I decided to hibernate.
What's the story of the doctor's kindness? -After waking up. After waking up, I felt uncomfortable, so I made a strategic decision to go to the virtual world to find my feelings. This time I really found the feeling of being a doctor, which made me find that sense of sacredness and made up for some sense of loss. He told stories that happened around hospitals and doctors. It feels very kind and real. The hospital Renhua Hospital, which integrates teaching and scientific research in Jiangdong Market, naturally has some doctors my age and older than me, including residents, chief residents, assistant doctors, attending doctors, chief physicians, department directors, patients, nurses, head nurses, section chiefs of pharmacy, anesthesiology, medical directors and deans. Naturally, there are medical representatives and drug dealers in hospitals, and so do other hospitals. The story is very simple and can be summarized in one sentence: a group of newly graduated interns, spending time with old doctors and patients; The story is also very complicated, the doctor-patient relationship is so complicated that it can reach an outrageous level, the communication between people can be so natural and smooth, the feelings inside are so unprepared, and the weakness of human nature is so bloody that everyone can worship the sacredness and solemnity, and family and love are intertwined. . . . . . What a three kingdoms, what a gone with the wind, what a clock. . . . . .
The story begins like this. A group of graduates from Jiangdong Medical College were assigned to work in the same hospital. . . . . .
The good knife clock outside the heart of North Carolina State Hospital is on the cover of Science magazine and is a permanent member of the American Heart Surgery Association. At the same time, twelve years ago, he was an ordinary doctor in Renhua Medical College. Then please allow me to tell you something about the doctor's family: his parents have passed away, and his sister, Ai Xing, has just graduated from finance at the age of 35 and just found a good job in the United States. On the way to spend Christmas with my fiance and my brother, there was an accident-a car accident, and he was about to perform heart surgery on a patient with coronary heart disease. The contradiction first appeared, and the patient himself clearly wrote in his will: If there is an accident during hospitalization, it is forbidden to open the chest, intubation and cardiopulmonary bypass, which means giving up treatment. This is the first problem that doctors face. Doctors have an obligation not to go against the wishes of patients. However, the first mission of a doctor is to save lives. Facing Lucy's wife's suggestion that next week is their wedding anniversary, out of responsibility for the patient, Dr. Zhong started the operation at the risk of becoming the defendant. It is no exaggeration to pay attention to this, because he goes against the patient's wishes, and if the patient's family wants to sue him after surgery, he is also very passive. But he insisted on doing it, because he was a doctor and he couldn't watch the patient die in front of him. The operation began, but the contradiction appeared again. The physiological function of the patient's heart is almost exhausted, and the only way is to use the heart. How can he match quickly in such a short time? Coincidentally, at this moment, the ambulance who loves to travel arrived at the hospital properly. In the face of his sister's rescue, he was so helpless when he watched his only relative quietly leave himself like this. The pain is heartbreaking, but he is still thinking about the patient: he gave his sister's heart to the old man just to satisfy his wishes. Look, what a simple soul. I think he should think like this now: herheartwillgoon! ! ! ! However, the result is so heartbreaking. After the successful change of heart, Mu's daughter read her mother's will, and she was very angry. She wants to sue the hospital. He wants to sue such a good doctor.
He was angry, he was crazy, he was tired, and he flew into a rage. He tore off the white dress symbolizing purity and sacredness with his hands worth $ 100, and he quit. This is the doctor-patient relationship. Doctors' efforts can't be recognized by their families at some time, but we still have to do it because we solemnly swore before Hippocrates' oath.
A Review of Doctor's Kindness
An unintentional program let me know that You Yongzhi played a TV series called "Doctors are Kind". According to his description in the program, I think this is a TV series worthy of attention. With this curiosity, I searched this TV series and began to be fascinated by the characters in it.
There are many medical staff in it that I admire very much. Among them, what I admire most is the heavyweight clock. Its deductive image is completely the integrity, forbearance, restraint, lofty and tolerance of a surgeon. In the face of rescue operations again and again, he can always treat it calmly and successfully create miracles; Facing the embarrassment of some immoral doctors in the hospital, he always laughs it off and tolerates it with his broad mind; Because he was invited back from the United States by the vice president, he can be a very proud person, but he will not show off his advantages, but keep a low profile. I know that many roles are beautified for TV series, but I believe there will be many such noble doctors in the hospital.
We can know a thing or two about medical staff mainly from my sister, my second sister-in-law and my classmates: my sister will often describe how she nervously rescues and welcomes a new life as a doctor, and every step needs to be very careful and focused, and there must be no carelessness; Sister-in-law, what impressed me the most was that I once took my second brother to the hospital with a fever, which happened to be in the emergency department. The state of running instead of walking has been deeply imprinted in my mind; Xiao Ai, my good friend and a responsible angels in white, since she started to study advanced nursing, I think her study days are not far from the college entrance examination. Her brother told her that nurses must study hard, so in my impression, Xiao Ai has been studying hard, and she is very serious in her study and later work.
Through the kindness of angels in white and doctors, I know that there are many gossips in reality, including me, and it is inevitable to nag occasionally. But many times, I prefer to read things worthy of promotion and praise, especially this article. I feel that my heart is full of blood.
Doctors are faced with one life after another. There is a very good saying: If you never know the life of a surgeon, please let me tell you that life is so fragile, and the crisis and turning point of life are in an instant; Crisis and turning point are the line between life and death, and the doctor's life is on this line. It can be seen that the doctor's life is so thin. Doctors still have to face a difficult problem, that is, the doctor-patient problem is that patients or their families do not understand, people are saved, and everyone is happy; If people are not rescued, doctors and nurses are likely to be accused, cursed or even beaten. Perhaps only medical staff have the most power to feel the grievances, but feelings belong to feelings, grievances belong to grievances, customers are God, and doctors always need patience and responsibility. The doctor's question reminds me of my profession, teacher. I have never been a class teacher, but I often hear some teachers' helplessness in the face of children who are not sensible. Just like the patients in the hospital, many of them are very good people, and some people don't understand at all. In the face of people who don't understand, as teachers, just like doctors, they bear the grievances in their hearts alone, handle things bit by bit with a smile, and then return to their homes with a tired body to catch their breath, or occasionally feel dejected. Some young teachers who have never been married or given birth can already be called first-class nannies, first-class crime-solving experts and first-class firefighters. The profession of doctors and teachers is sacred. Dr. Zhong has always had his own belief in kindness. I think teachers should do the same. In the face of the baby embryos that need to be carefully crafted, we also need to have our own beliefs and very strong power. Stick to carving and enjoy it.
Doctor's Kindness and Reflection
After reading "Benevolent Doctor", I always wanted to write a summary, but I failed to start writing. I believe that many good people will be moved by the plot in the play, but it is one thing to move you, and whether a thing is true or not is another matter. Just as San Mao has written so many touching stories, people who question the truth of the stories are often annoying. People who say that "doctors are kind-hearted" are probably mostly medical staff or their families. When resonance has not broken, it is difficult to rise to the moral level because morality is universal. In this sense, "the benevolence of doctors" is just a family view, and it only expresses the voices of some people, far from revealing the fundamental crux that hinders social justice. Of course, this does not affect the brilliance of the protagonist's humanity. Changchun maternity hospital gynecology eye protection group
The hospital work shown by doctors' kindness is always in the whirlpool of medical disputes. The more you do, the more likely you are to be complained. In such an atmosphere, who wants it? If you have one percent hope, you have to make 100 percent efforts? And then what? People like Huan Wang's mother are always lingering in a corner of the hospital like ghosts. This is a nightmare, and they can't get rid of it until they are exhausted. How can I be patient with her, okay? After all,? A good doctor needs patient's tolerance to grow up? . Can the doctor have it? If I don't go to hell, who will? Sacrifice his spirit, but he has other patients to take care of, other things to do, and an unshirkable burden on his shoulders. As long as doctors and nurses work for a day, they can't be saved from ruin!
There are many classic lines in The Doctor's Benevolence that are worth pondering. There are two things, the more I think about it, the more amazing I feel, and the more awe I have in my heart, that is, the starry sky above my head and the inner moral standards; Sometimes cure, often help, always comfort; We are all the same, we are all confused, don't know what we want, don't know what to do; In addition to pursuing truth, people need a little affection when they are alive; The greatest tragedy in life is not the excessive arrogance of bad people, but the excessive silence of good people; There are two kinds of people in the world: intentional and unintentional, intentional cherishing each other and unintentional hurting each other; Don't worry about things that didn't happen, deal with things that happened one by one; A society cannot always let the strong speak, but must let the weak speak; Doctors have no right to criticize patients.
There are some unspoken subtext in the doctor's kindness. The best dean died, the kindest head nurse died, Qian died, Su Jiaoyuan died, and Dean Jin's mother died. Qian He died of medical limitations, Su Jiaoyuan died of acupuncture points in Dong Wang, and President Jin's mother died of her own stubbornness. Head nurse Liu died too unjustly. On the surface, it was suicide. In fact, she had a pair of invisible hands that kept pinching her throat until she choked! Who killed the head nurse? Please read Liu Min's last words.
I never dreamed that I had become a degenerate. I was ashamed and humiliated. I graduated from 18 nursing school. I have worked in this hospital for 20 years. I like my job and feel proud and glorious, but I didn't expect to leave in this way. I don't know when it started, but the profession of nurse is not so lofty. We work day and night in hard work and people's shouts. Nobody cares about you and nobody cares about you. It is in this year after year of suffering that I get old. Little by little, I became desperate. What happened to me this year made me sad and angry. It can be said that the death of Professor Su made me flinch. To be exact, it was not his death, but his unexplained death. The ambiguity in the hospital's handling of Professor Su's death made me shudder. It is this kind of chilling that makes me make the wrong choice, so that I no longer insist on my inner right or wrong, and I no longer insist on my lofty. I can't even forgive myself for what I did to Don. I have always thought that my career is noble, but this incident makes me doubt whether everything I undertake is still valuable. If there is justice in this world, then our dedication is noble, otherwise it is suffering. Wei, I love you. I know what a man needs, but I have to stay in the hospital to take care of the patients. Although they are ungrateful, I will do it anyway. So I'm sorry that you divorced me, but I don't blame you. How many nights, the patient has been placed, I want to run home to accompany you for a while, tell you a few words from the heart, or say nothing, just lean in your arms, or call me to tell me your concern, but you and your children are sleeping, and I don't want to disturb you. I feel sorry for you. I have never given you the tenderness of a wife in my life. Make up for it in the next life. Treat our daughter well and never let her be a nurse, never!
Comment on The Doctor's Kindness
Maybe it's because I am a public health worker, maybe it's because my husband is a very hard surgeon, maybe it's because I'm too easily moved, maybe it's because I've lived in the hospital for 15 years, and I know too well the hardships and difficulties of doctors and nurses, and the ups and downs of their work. China's first "Doctor's Kindness-medical drama", which reflects the career of medical staff in a panoramic way, moved me to tears again and again. I also gnashed my teeth at the shameless and despicable villains in the play again and again. At the same time, I am also proud of Zhong's lofty professional ethics and superb medical technology, moved by Wu Mingxun's dedication to patients at all times, excited by Ding Hai, a group of young people who are full of ideals and dedicated to the medical cause, sorry for Wang Dong's greed and selfishness and the distorted soul of the head nurse, angry at the unreasonable medical troubles and hype, and frustrated by the intractable medical disputes faced by the hospital. As a medical worker, as a family member of a surgeon, I face the complicated and distorted doctor-patient relationship in the real society, and the society's incomprehension and high requirements for doctors' high-pressure, high-load and high-risk profession. I have too many feelings and helplessness!
Doctors are also ordinary people, only because of their environment and dreams, they chose this lofty career. However, as a good doctor, people can't imagine and understand the hardships, the extremely hard work and the huge responsibilities. Doctors are not gods. In the field of exploratory medicine, faced with the particularity of disease prognosis, there are also medical limitations, inevitable technical mistakes and unspeakable medical environment. As the play says, "The skill of a good doctor is accumulated constantly, and it is bought with countless lives". Doctors are as nervous and orderly as going to the battlefield to save patients. They stand for hours or more for an operation. This high-pressure, high-load and high-risk occupation needs the understanding of patients and society most. Therefore, don't push a doctor who is physically and mentally exhausted to the forefront.
My husband is the only neurosurgeon in the county hospital and even Baishui County. He is the leader of the discipline and takes great risks in his work. Because I have heard and witnessed too many disputes between doctors and patients, I often remind him out of selfishness. Anyway, first of all, I should protect myself and give him advice often. However, I was shocked by a line in the play "Doctors are Kind": "Doctors are starting to protect themselves. Who will protect patients?" ? A simple sentence, let me heartache, also let me chilling, let me think deeply. Why do doctors start to protect themselves? In fact, which doctor and nurse wants to live in a state of defense all the time? Doctors and patients guard against each other, distrust each other, but depend on each other. Why has the relationship become so tangled? This distorted doctor-patient relationship is a real double-edged sword, and both sides lose! What caused it? Is it a patient? Is it a doctor? Is it society? Is the medical system imperfect? Or is the medical environment bad? They don't protect themselves, who can protect them? How should doctors and patients get along in the future? If a person dies normally in the hospital, his family members should ask the hospital for compensation, otherwise they will make a scene, use inflammatory language, arouse people's sympathy, interfere with the normal medical order, and even attack the doctor personally. This kind of thing can be seen all the time around us, because no one can guarantee that the hospital will not die, and the hospital will not die. Where can it die?
I like Zhong, the director of cardiac surgery in the play, and I am always moved by him. He was completely honest, forbearing, restrained, noble and tolerant, and kept the Hippocratic oath with his words and deeds, which made him feel the kindness of the doctor. This drama really created such a perfect doctor image in terms of professional ethics and technical literacy. This is also the ideal doctor image in most people's minds. Zhong treats all patients equally, whether they are dignitaries or poor. He ignored the mother of Dean Jin who came to see a doctor and still maintained the dignity that a doctor should have. This perfection is actually misleading people, who will ask the doctors around them like this. In reality, a good doctor like Zhong is really rare, at least I have never seen or heard of it. Even if there is, this real society and hospital are not suitable for him to exist. He doesn't eat fireworks and doesn't get along with others. He is bound to be used by some people, jealous and rejected by some people, and even assassinated by bad forces. Moreover, after a long time, he will be assimilated by the surrounding environment and society. As Zhou said, "We are not bad people or good people, but we are trying to be good people"! In the secular world, this kind of behavior will give people a sense of stupidity, but why don't we need more fools like Zhou?
Doctors are now one of the hardest and most tiring jobs, especially in China! Perhaps only doctors themselves can thoroughly understand this sentence and understand its profound meaning, because they are not only physically tired, but also mentally tired! They are tireless and striving for perfection in medical technology, and at the same time bear the heavy responsibility entrusted by society and the high hopes of the people. However, the commercialization, profit-making and monetization of medical care force doctors to do things step by step for self-protection and even do things that go against their conscience, but they can't get the understanding and forgiveness of society, so medical disputes arise, and doctors seem to lose their true colors at once and become street hooligans. They lost their dignity, even their self-esteem. The incomprehension of patients, family members and society, and the neglect of the state have led doctors to live on the edge of the knife all day. Everything has changed and become meaningless. Doctors are at a loss about their career vision.
There is no denying that the hospital is not a pure land. The hospital, a place where intellectuals gather, is full of hidden struggles for power and profit, intrigue and infighting, and people who are extremely jealous, rich and famous, insatiable and unscrupulous abound. It is these black sheep that have defiled the lofty word angels in white, and it is also the social injustice that has created the distorted and abnormal psychology of some medical staff. Just like Liu Min, the head nurse of the emergency room in the play, an excellent and skilled person collapsed in this phenomenon. Interpret it with a passage in Liu Min's suicide note: "I don't know when the profession of nurses has become less lofty. We worked day and night with hard work and people shouting. Nobody cares about you, and nobody cares about you. It is in this year after year of suffering that I am getting old and desperate? " This is not extreme or exaggerated, this is a fact, this is the status quo. Perhaps many people also imagine that when they are wronged at work, they will take off their white coats like Ding Gongzi in the play and shake "quit, I" mercilessly! Then they leave smartly. However, their father is not Li Gang. They can only tell themselves in their hearts, be patient, be calm and accept their fate! Then follow the trend and protect yourself!
Society is developing, science and technology are progressing, and the rule of law is progressing. The people need a perfect doctor like Zhou, and the hospital needs a clean leader like Wu Mingxun. What do doctors need? I think they need a good medical environment, trust, understanding, support, harmonious doctor-patient relationship and perfect legal system to protect themselves! ?