It is better to find a life than to find a job. In the workplace, many people have a lot of feelings when looking for a job, because there are many jobs in the workplace, and each position needs different talents. Let's take a look together.
Not so much looking for a job as looking for a life 1 not so much looking for a job as looking for a life.
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Students say that everyone looking for a job is an angel with broken wings. Learn from online application, written examination, interview and waiting, sum up experience and lessons, and then continue to walk towards the bustling crowd in suits and ties.
Listen to people around you say that the written test was abused or the interview was brushed. I believe this, because sometimes looking for a job is really not about strength, but about luck. What the other party is looking for is not necessarily the best person, but the most suitable person.
For example, a company HR said, "Does anyone in our company have an object? When picking a resume, see if it is appropriate! "
So, don't deny yourself just because you are brushed, it's just inappropriate!
Some time ago, I voted for Tencent's resume and took a written test.
I didn't go after receiving the interview because I didn't think I was living the life I wanted. The kind HR called and asked me to go for an interview alone this afternoon.
I didn't cater to her, talking about how high Tencent is and how much I want to work in Tencent. Instead, I told an experience that impressed me the most and a recent conversation with my family: the sentiment of grassroots practice in villages and towns and the school motto of West Point Military Academy.
Finally, HR asked me, "Do you have any questions?"
Answer "no" directly.
HR looked at me with a dumbfounded expression. "We are very cautious in recruiting people." And then there was nothing, and then ...
Later, I thought, I'm really not stupefied, I just don't think this is the job I want. Like a good girl, if you don't like it, you just can't move. The right girl can make you passionate even if she is not beautiful.
It's not so much the job you want as the life you don't want.
Work is a bowl of rice, survival, and the sky above. Life needs a vision and a pattern, and a thinking ability, which can transcend the square sky above us, tear down the' glass room' that gives us a sense of security but actually imprisons us, find our place in this society, and then participate in the construction of reality and history.
Every little thing has its social and historical background. We can gradually learn to broaden our horizons.
All this is only for the most wanted life, a life with thickness.
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Send a WeChat to my roommate "I haven't seen you for a few days, what are you doing?"
"I'm reading at my uncle's house. I was so anxious these two days that I didn't think about my previous job search. "
Having dinner with two friends at noon, the whole topic is still looking for a job, staying in Beijing or going to a place, going to a banking enterprise, a party and government organ or starting a business. These used to be other people's choices, and instantly became the most realistic consideration before us.
No, recently liangzhi, the "male god" in Tsinghua, also talked about the biggest dilemma after graduation-what kind of job to choose? Unexpectedly, he was criticized by his fellow Tsinghua alumni as not a famous student. "You deserve to be educated in Tsinghua for more than ten years!" !
Gao is an artist after all. He knows how to create a topic and is familiar with the elements that a popular program should have. As he himself said, "We can talk about any very interesting topic!" Criticizing liangzhi is a spur. Who says how much slander and praise you can stand? Don't forget that the judges finally said "mountains and rivers meet"!
I appreciate that liangzhi did not refute the cross-legged criticism of the judge, showing his self-restraint and due discretion.
For a long time, what Tsinghua people is not good at is refutation, because they don't want to drown their energy in the endless quarrel that is harassed through boots; But Tsinghua people is best at refuting, because they dare to face up to the problem, and in the spirit of "actions speak louder than words", they write the responsibility and responsibility of hitting the floor.
I once asked a Tsinghua veteran who worked in the Chinese Academy of Sciences: What do you think is the most prominent feature of Tsinghua people?
The senior replied, "The diversity of society also allows us to realize the value of life in many ways, but I think Tsinghua people, no matter what line of work he is engaged in, has feelings of home and country, and his heart must be full of deep feelings for the country and the nation." .
When I entered the school, I was deeply impressed by Mr. Shi's words, that is, "a great university can give people a kind of mind." Having a mind can make people gain height, and then grasp the future more clearly and accurately, and can also have a keen eye when looking at specific things.
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Thirty-four years ago, China Youth magazine, with a circulation of more than 2 million copies, published a long letter with the name "Pan Xiao" and full of young people's confusion, The Road to Life! Why is it getting narrower and narrower? It triggered a nationwide "Pan Xiao discussion-why people should live" that lasted for more than half a year. This event was later called "the spiritual first love of a whole generation of China youth".
After 34 years of youth, we still face the same problem, but time and space have changed.
The difference is that the sound of material is getting louder and louder, and the world of mortals is getting brighter and brighter. The wave of consumption squeezes people into thinking only about the present, being ashamed to talk about ideals and feelings, getting ahead by hidden rules and creating the world by spending some money. No matter how talented people are, they will spend their whole lives just to hang gold to realize the secular value of life. On the one hand, they complain about the morbid society, on the other hand, they sharpen their heads and become "exquisite egoists" and "new social middle class"
During June 5438+ 10 this year, the students studying PhD at UCLA went to Peking University to visit Mr. Qian Liqun. Mr. Wang bluntly said: post-80s and post-90s are a generation out of touch with history and future. Being out of touch with history means that you have not experienced great changes in the past few decades, which have spread all over the country and all over the world. Being out of touch with the future means that many of you can only focus on social and economic affairs in a narrow range under the pressure of livelihood and further education, and the future world is a world of great integration, which has a great connection with history.
Mr. Qian Liqun wants to tell young people that this society is changing quietly. Many people are not satisfied with the status quo, but due to institutional problems, there is nothing they can do to change the big environment and order. But you can start by changing yourself and the people around you and live in your ideal way.
To borrow a sentence from Lu Xun: "Live happily and be a reasonable person." This sentence has been passed down to this day. The so-called "rationality" is to adjust the relationship, interests and mutual influence between individuals and society.
Not so much looking for a job as looking for a life 2. Work is the most important thing in life.
Real mature people will find that real happiness comes from career, real happiness comes from work, and the embodiment of personal value also comes from work.
People often plan weekend vacations, trips and even breakfasts. However, I seldom think about how to spend my life and make a decent plan for the most important thing in life-career. You know, professional life will take up 80 thousand hours of our life time, so why not spend 8 hours planning it well?
According to the objective law of career development, the key to career development lies in the first five years. The size of your career achievement depends on your first five years. Why do some people achieve something in five years, while others fall into mediocrity? What determines all this? The expert's answer is-career planning. The social competition is fierce, just like the 100-meter race, and we can't slack off at all. If you lose an inch at the start, you will lose ten feet at the finish line. How can I succeed in my career?
Faced with the choice of crossroads, many people are confused, so they have issued such a question: How to go in the future? Where is my cheese? With confusion and confusion, they often don't know what they want, let alone how to do it.
We often hear such words:
I want to be a teacher, but my parents want me to work in the IT industry. Although I don't like it, I can't break their hearts. Moreover, the IT industry is also an easy occupation, and the income is good, so I will do it first.
In this way, I made a career choice at random. Just like gambling. You are sure to lose. What is more sad is that things like this are common around us, and they are performed almost every day.
Everyone wants to change his destiny and improve his environment, but few people make this change wish into a clear and definite goal and make unremitting efforts for it. So many people's desires are just dreams.
Harvard University has conducted a 25-year follow-up survey on a group of young people with similar objective conditions such as intelligence, education and environment. The content of the survey is the impact of planning on life, and the results show that:
-87% people have vague life plans; Or they don't have their own goals and plans.
-10% people have definite but relatively short-term life plans.
-3% of people have a clear long-term life plan.
After 25 years, the living conditions of these respondents are as follows:
3% people who have a clear long-term life plan have hardly changed their life goals in the past 25 years and made unremitting efforts to achieve them. Twenty-five years later, almost all of them have become top successful people in all walks of life, including self-made entrepreneurs, industry leaders and social elites.
10% people who have clear short-term life plans mostly live in the upper and middle classes of society. Their common characteristics are: those short-term life plans have been continuously realized, their living standards have been steadily improved, and they have become indispensable professionals in all walks of life, such as doctors, lawyers, engineers and executives.
In the other 87%, people with vague life plans almost all live in the middle and lower classes of society and can work and live in peace, but they have no special achievements.
Those who have no goals and plans, almost all live at the bottom of society, their living conditions are very unsatisfactory, and they are often unemployed.
Therefore, the investigators come to the conclusion that goals have a great guiding role in life. Success is only a choice at the beginning. What kind of life plan you choose, what kind of life you will have.
A survey of 205 college students in a comprehensive key humanistic and economic university shows that most of them have no career plans. Among them, 62% people have no design on how to promote and develop step by step in the future. 2%; 32% have designs? 8%; Among them, only 4? 9%. During their college years, college students are not clear about their own development plans, so they can't use the theory of career design to plan their future work and life development direction. This situation seriously affects students' preparation in advance and accurate positioning, and even affects students' adaptability to work.
The future life path is blank and needs you to fill it. Whether it is brilliant or not depends on your life plan and your choice.