Dealing with the original match is to let men accept your temptation again and again.
Ask him for a divorce. Ask him to stand on your side.
You better get pregnant or something. If you don't get a man, you must pay some money.
The same is a woman, why should women embarrass women? Don't you think it's a little too much to use the word "cope"? The third party, the third party is not easy to straighten.
Rich men pay attention to feelings, not your concern for him. I advise you to let go!
I hope I can help you!