It takes years or even longer to cultivate an idol or superstar, but it only takes days or even hours to destroy it, provided that ta really has immoral behavior.

Recently, 45-year-old Wang Leehom should have a deeper understanding recently.

However, as this dramatic divorce drama is about to die, perhaps it is more important to discuss:

How does this man who once combined talent, beauty and aura now combine conceit, inferiority and narcissism?

About Wang Leehom's "inferiority complex", it seems that it can be traced back to a very young age, but in fact, if you take out his resume, you can kill 90% of the big stars in minutes.

He holds a double doctorate from Williams College of Berkeley College, majoring in music.

Besides, because he entered the entertainment circle on the recommendation of Li Jianfu, his early development was mediocre.

But in the third year of his career, he successfully transformed into a creative singer because of an album he created, and became a unique "quality idol".

This is Wang Leehom, who has repeatedly said publicly, "I am the weakest one in my family."

If you look at your resume, you will find that he is right. The forces behind the Wang Leehom family can be understood by a picture without tracing back.

As for Wang Leehom becoming a shining star, it is "not worth mentioning" in the eyes of his family.

His grandmother Xu once mentioned her grandson in Xiao Yan You Yue in 2002:

Wang Leehom's mother, Li, graduated from Taiwan Province Political University and went to study in the United States at the age of 22. She wanted to do something big, but she found out she was pregnant two months later.

1973, mother Wang gave birth to a son, and three years later, she gave birth to Wang Leehom-perhaps from then on, all her thoughts were on the cultivation of her son to satisfy her enthusiasm for not working.

However, Wang Leehom and his brother took two completely different paths. Wang Lide is a real top student. In high school, he won the first place in the national entrance examination, and later went directly to Harvard University.

And Wang Leehom, under the pressure of being compared, certainly had a hard time.

He fell in love with music under pressure. As a teenager, he often climbed out of the window and played his violin on the roof at night.

This is because parents, who are very strict with their children's education, require Wang Leehom to get excellent grades before he can continue to play the piano.

Wang Leehom, known as the "artist's mother", can also give advice when he plays the piano, because she can easily hear where he played wrong.

There is no doubt that the support of Wang Leehom's mother, Li, is very important. It can even be said that her mother shaped his whole musical life.

In this context, Wang Leehom's blood is full of "inferiority complex", so he became the child of his ex-wife Li Lianglei, who was "unable to make his own decisions at the age of 37".

But as mentioned above, Wang Leehom itself is actually excellent, especially in the entertainment circle where the entry threshold is getting lower and lower.

He has many labels: all-round singer, high-quality idol, cross-border actor ... and he has also achieved achievements that many people are discouraged from.

Before the house collapsed, Wang Leehom was called a "perfect" existence, especially when making music.

Yes, after joining Sony Music from 1998, Wang Leehom turned into a creative singer, not only writing songs for herself, but also cooperating with "Yingying Yanyan" such as May, Elva Hsiao and Christine.

In 2000, he was nominated for the Best Newcomer Award in the 20th Hong Kong Film Awards for his role as a security investigator in the film Counter-Terrorism Elite.

The album Unique, which made him the "God of World War I", was integrated into many genres such as rock, blues and hip-hop, and he composed all the music himself.

In 2004, Wang Leehom also created his own Chinked-out school, and released the album "The Sun and the Moon in My Heart", which integrated the musical elements of China ethnic minorities into hip-hop music and won many awards.

The following year, he "developed" this style and created the album Heroes on Earth, but then another singer, Wu Kequn, released Your Legend.

The lyrics of "I know what the general said is not necessarily right" were poked by netizens as a criticism of Wang Leehom, because Xiang Yu involved in Heroes on Earth can be called "the general".

Later headlines were "Wu Kequn's new song criticizes Wang Leehom's worship of foreign things and flattery", but Wang Leehom never responded to it.

Until two years later, he won the Golden Melody Award and bluntly said at the award ceremony:

In 2009, Show Lo was caught in the controversy of "buying the list and flooding the water", and released an album at the same time with Wang Leehom, which was competitive.

I don't know, what kind of life did Wang Leehom, who was entangled between inferiority and conceit, live?

This may be due to his ex-wife Li Lianglei's narcissistic personality.

In the long-exposure article, she mentioned that Wang Leehom felt very painful because she had been "obedient" to her mother's decision for a long time, and even lying there for several days could do nothing.

Although he felt that he would never finish his work, he finally got music and an idol coat that was flawless to outsiders.

On several occasions, he sat opposite the host and talked about Kan Kan's perfect family life and high-quality career planning.

At that time, he even talked about "flower heart is an immature performance", and therefore cited the example of parents growing old together.

It can be said that, to some extent, Wang Leehom's heart is tangled with contradictions. In his journey of playing a good idol, a good son and a good husband every day, he had to take time out to release himself in another way.

Wang Leehom talked about his brother getting married early in the interview, but he didn't understand it very well. He said bluntly:

It serves to show that Wang Leehom yearns for an "escape" life from the bottom of his heart, but what he presents is "not scum" in the eyes of his parents, "life idiot" in the eyes of his fans and "narcissistic personality" in the eyes of his ex-wife.

Three different "Wang Leehom" have been hidden from the world for 26 years.

As mentioned above, Wang Leehom's successful process is actually a large-scale "narcissistic personality" formation scene, living in the affirmative desires of family, friends and fans from childhood to adulthood.

Including whether I reached the standard when I was a child, how friends I met after I became famous viewed myself, and what kind of image I created in front of fans.

Throughout the story before the collapse of Wang Leehom's family, you must have heard the most: "Jackie Chan wants to be his own son", "Black people say that he just started making music like a caveman" and "fans say that' Second Brother' is an idiot who only focuses on music". ...

Under the layers of "coats", we can't see a real Wang Leehom.

There are psychological practitioners who have analyzed various evidences of Wang Leehom's narcissism, and the article 10 is shocking.

Perhaps after reading the above analysis, we can understand that it is not only his idol coat that collapsed in Wang Leehom's divorce, but also his once highly respected scholarly family.

It's like a colorful entertainment circle. It looks beautiful, but it's disgusting behind the scenes.

It's been 144 hours since Wang Leehom's divorce today, and Li Lianglei, who is awake and helpless, has never been able to get a sincere "sorry".

Alas, what could be sadder than her?