The first time I learned about Easy Efficiency was in the open class of Yaya teacher in London.
My friend entrusts me with a course of child care. At that time, I felt that although I didn't think it was a big project to make money, I was idle anyway, so I accepted it gladly. As a result, the plan to go to the open class site was to publicize that the founder of the kindergarten was responsible for the child care service, but I was attracted by the word "automatic baby" and resolutely paid for it! The friend who entrusted me to work didn't respond for a long time. What's going on
Two "bad starts"
The first bad start is to arrange personnel to do child care services while listening to parent-child classes without any preparation.
Perfectionism in the bones, a list taken out of context, punching in, sweeping away distractions with great fanfare, and patchwork the layout of my son's study area ... So, the 90-day parent-child practice ended in a muddle!
The second bad start is 20 18 12 1. 1 After online class, I encouraged my husband to start the whole family.
I lost my passport two days before the end of the trip, so I can't take my husband and children back to England. I had to change my itinerary and go back to China alone to have my visa reissued at the British Embassy in China.
Difficulties are also opportunities. In retrospect, I feel that a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise.
The cold north made me want to hibernate after living in London for ten years. Fortunately, Wu Dong's running class saved me! A plane ticket to Shenzhen! Created the first certified runner in London!
Be classmates with the legendary "walking hormone"!
The first morning run in Shenzhen was explained by Wu Dong. Fortunately, she was accompanied by her easy-to-perform predecessor Hong Jie.
The next day, Ding, the head of Wuxi Running Group, took me to Shenzhen to consolidate my running skills. In addition, Sister Tintin also taught me many advanced tips for using tools! For the first time, I feel the benefits of soaking in ease and efficiency!
After the running class in Shenzhen, I was lucky enough to catch up with the Dongguan offline party of the following coach! Fortunately, I have one more mentoring opportunity than other London students!
Full of positive energy and dopamine, 20 19 Guiyang was invited to share for the first time. Although there was something wrong with the equipment, I finally had a good chat with my parents.
Finally, the British documents have arrived! I submitted a new application for a British residence permit at the British Embassy in Beijing, and then I attended the first-level retraining in Beijing the next day! Surprisingly, Shi Hao, a student in a running class, became the coach of our group!
This retraining made me realize that time is real, big boss. No matter how talented people are, they all fight for their health in the end! Seeing Zhuang Feng and Shi Hao for the second time in a month, as well as the friendly WeChat interaction of Sugar Mom, made me change the definition of marriage and love!
Poisoned by "to catch a man's heart, first catch a man's stomach" for 8 years, my inverted triangle male husband was fed into a spindle by me. So, I prepared a sports apple watch as my husband's birthday present, ready to influence my husband to exercise together. I plan to use the running knowledge I learned in Easy Efficiency to lead my family to a healthy lifestyle.
Hangzhou to Guangzhou non-stop retraining parent-child classes! Tell teacher Yaya directly that I want to be a parent-child lecturer. What should we do next? Learn from your predecessors with an open mind and efficiency.
In the parent-child class in Guangzhou, the sentence that touched me the most was "Love that ambition can't reach". At that time, I seemed to feel that the three circles of my life were almost found!
On the third day back in London, I attended the first off-duty meeting of London 22 1. In casual chat, I found that many friends have the same troubles as me. My other half doesn't understand the concept of ease and efficiency, and even some family members suspect that we have mistakenly entered the MLM organization! So, I began to play the English version of Teacher Ye 100 at home and guess with my husband which region the speaker's accent was from. Before and after dinner, I will play the recording of Mr. Gussie's Chinese and English class at home and ask my husband for some definitions of English pronunciation that I can't hear clearly.
Until one day, a friend came to my house full of doubts and asked me why so many London real estate big coffees have joined EasyEfficiency recently. When I was in Kan Kan, I talked about the list after I participated in e-primary school, mobile phone tools and kanban ... I was delighted to find that my husband, who always said "I must join MLM", continued to fill in the monthly calendar on the refrigerator during my return to China!
Calendars and lists are one of the essential items in parent-child class. I used to be depressed because my husband didn't understand. It's all my family's fault that the world's 100 cities started badly! However, from my husband's spontaneous updating of the calendar, I received his invisible rejection of the concept of easy performance.
Family breakfast plan
In addition to joy, I also started two family plans! The whole family takes turns making breakfast! All employees have breakfast at home every day! The purpose is to improve the present situation that the son is picky about food and the husband doesn't eat breakfast.
At the same time, my son and I also set up a Sino-British parent-child reading project in the Himalayas. The purpose is to record a good memory for me and my children when we finished something together, and also to train them to stop reading.
I made a double-ring clock to remind myself of the rules of life. It has the characteristics of my visual learning style.
Always remind yourself to follow the law of "exercise in the morning, eat frogs in the morning, meditate at noon, meet friends in the afternoon, and stay with family at night".
On New Year's Day, I finally completed the 20 19 dream board! Self-examination, self-discipline, self-love and self-confidence are my expectations for myself.
In the last few weeks of practice, I listened to the audio of several books recommended by Teacher Ye through the Himalayas. Adjust reading gains through reading and sharing. I found a way to express gratitude and altruism for myself.
At the same time, when everyone gave in to the choice of graduation venue, I resolutely undertook the research and appointment of graduation venue and took over the overall planning of 22 1 graduation ceremony. During the mid-term break in England, I planned graduation ceremonies with my baby again and again.
Give back to all the coaches and classmates who helped and encouraged me. I customized the graduation ceremony with a class fee of 370 pounds. At the graduation scene, let's take you crazy to play the photo blockbuster of Royal ascot Racecourse!
The class meeting in the last two weeks has given me great inspiration, especially the last class meeting. Because I promised to share my practical feelings in the class meeting, but the perceptual thinking mode of art students always makes me lack that foot. I feel like I'm about to break through, but I'm a little less conscious. He and Zou's fantasy version and the skill sharing of the speed snail made me suddenly enlightened! It turns out that I help other anxious mothers to make me happy! It turns out that "automatic baby" is what I have always longed for my son to be! It turned out that I always knew that in order to achieve such a child, I must not be a strong woman who does everything, but must give the child a chance to be lazy and fail! It turns out that what I want most is a happy "holding your hand and growing old with your son".
So I made clear my life direction: "Help anxious mothers, improve their efficiency and find a happy and balanced life!" " "If you must add a number to this goal," No dream is too big ",then 100000 digits! What if it comes true!
Finally, I summed up my 90-day practice:
1 tool income: calendar 5, OmniFocus, 1 password, universal scanning king, gold data, WeChat notes.
The weak links have benefited a lot.
3 Teacher Ye's recommendation form
4 fall in love with Himalaya
5 find a small circle.
Finally, I hope my three labels are:
? Future easy-to-play parent-child lecturer
? Now it is an effective partner.
? Founder of kindergartens and Chinese schools in London in the past
Thank you! May your life and mine be as bright as flowers!
Chen Kelin
February 20 19, 16, London characters.
2065438+ edited and filed by Ling on February 24th, 2009.