Some people say, "happiness has three indispensable factors, one is to have something to do, the other is to be loved, and the third is to have hope." Indeed, a person's best state of life is nothing more than having something to do, having someone lovely and expecting something.
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My friend Dahua has been making trouble for a long time and wants to resign. He always complains that he is too busy at work and depends on the boss's face. I didn't expect to really quit his job and do nothing. At first, he was relaxed and said that he could finally sleep in, touch the fishing rod and play cards. But within a few days, he felt weak and uninterested in anything.
He said with a wry smile that every day is boring, boring. He began to panic and felt that the whole world was moving forward, and only he was killing time in the same place. Later, he applied for a sales position. Although the salary is not high at present, he feels very fulfilled. He said that he finally had something to do, so he didn't have to fidget at home. When he is busy, his life will move forward.
I have read a question: "What kind of experience is it to have nothing to do?" One answer is very heartfelt: "I have no desire to sleep and no expectation to wake up, just like being abandoned by the world." Being busy doing something is actually a love of life. Once people are busy, there is not so much confusion. Sleep when you are sleepy, and move on when you wake up. As long as you don't slack off, you will have a good start.
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Aunt Chen, the neighbor, is always in high spirits, and everyone envies her feelings with Uncle Li. Once there was a ballroom dancing competition in her club. At first, Li Shu refused to let her attend, saying that she was upset when she saw her partner, and she was very angry about it.
Unexpectedly, two days later, Li Shu asked for leave from the unit, saying that he would be a sparring partner for Aunt Chen. As a result, Li Shu, whose limbs were uncoordinated, really trained herself as a teacher and became Aunt Chen's dance partner. Aunt Chen smiled and complained that her wife was narrow-minded and showed me her new mobile phone: "Look, your uncle just changed it. He said it was strong and girls liked pink. " While speaking, Aunt Chen was as shy as a little girl.
There is a saying: "The happiest thing in life is to be sure that someone loves you." If you are loved, you can do whatever you want. The greatest happiness in life is to shine because you are loved.
Beauty is easy to age, and only love can resist wind and frost and long years. No matter how old we are, love makes us treasure in each other's hands.
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Classmate David Lee broke up with his girlfriend some time ago and resigned himself. My mother is in hospital with a heart attack, and her life is in danger at any time. He fantasized about many kinds of bright future, but looking at real life, he only felt helpless.
After several days of torture, he suddenly realized that since he didn't know what the future would be like, he should live the present well. He rethought and planned his life, tidied up, bought an ivy and tried to cook some dishes that his mother liked. Exercise for a period of time every day, learn programming, and submit resumes for job hunting. Life is leisurely and orderly, and everything is gradually developing in a good direction.
Life has many nodes, and today is the beginning of every day in the future. Only by taking every step now can we have a clear conscience. Even the simplest life, in order to look forward to the future, will also be lively. Expect something, everything is lovely.
What is the best life? Do what you want, have people who love you, and live the life you want. When life doesn't stop and there are things to do, we can feel at ease and experience the prosperity of life; If someone loves you, you can always calm the desolation in your heart and make yourself gentle and strong; No matter how difficult it is, as long as there is expectation, it will inject lasting fighting power into itself and make the future shine.
What is happiness? Is to live, to love and to work hard. The rest of your life is still long. Don't panic. Feel and create happiness with your heart, and you will always smile.