1. In America, a famous businessman was walking when he met a thin young man who was selling second-hand books. He flinched in the cold wind and chewed moldy bread. Fortunately, the rich businessman put $8 into the young man's hand and left without looking back. Not far away, the rich businessman suddenly came back, picked up two old books from the stall and said, "Sorry, I forgot to take them." . In fact, you are a businessman like me! "Two years later, a wealthy businessman was invited to attend a charity fund-raiser. A young bookseller held his hand and said gratefully," I always thought that I had only the fate of setting up stalls and begging in my life until you told me personally that I was a businessman like you, which helped me build up my self-esteem and self-confidence and created today's achievements ... It is not hard to imagine that without this respect and encouragement, this wealthy businessman would give more money to young people.

In a long flight, a white woman who thought she looked rich was arranged to sit next to a black man. The woman in white immediately called the stewardess, complained endlessly and insisted on finding her a seat. The stewardess explained, "Today's flight is full, but we can check whether there are any seats in economy class for you." A few minutes later, the stewardess came back and said, "madam, the economy class is full." But there is still a seat in the first class ... "The lady cheered at once, and the stewardess went on to say," It's really unprecedented for us to upgrade ordinary passengers to the first class, but we got special permission from the captain. Indeed, it is really unreasonable to let a passenger sit with such a disgusting person. " The stewardess then said to the black passenger, "We thought you were ready to fly first class. Please move over. " In the warm applause of the surrounding passengers, black passengers took their luggage to the first class ... so when a person discriminates against others, he is also relegated to the lowest position. ......

3. An internationally renowned large-scale enterprise is recruiting the position of the chief representative of the company in China in China. After fierce competition, five young people stood out from thousands of applicants. The final winner will be one of these five people. The final exam is an interview, and the examiners are all senior managers of this company. Of these five young people, two have doctorates, two have master's degrees and one has only a bachelor's degree. When all four graduate students thought that the undergraduate had been out early, the result of the exam surprised everyone including them: the undergraduate finally won. In the face of everyone's doubts, the boss of the company gave the answer at the press conference: "The last five young people are excellent in both knowledge and professional quality. But before the interview, when they handed the resume to our examiner, only the gentleman with a bachelor's degree handed it to us with both hands, and everyone else used one hand. From this detail, we not only see this gentleman's serious attitude, strict requirements for himself, but also his respect for others! "

Last year, an international chorus competition was held in Sydney, Australia. A children's choir from China competed with more than 100 choirs from all over the world. When the children entered the venue excitedly, they found that among all the national flags that participated in the competition, only the national flag of China was one side. The children's expressions suddenly became serious, because they realized that it was more important that their country was not respected than that they were not respected. So, when it was the children's turn to play, they lined up as usual, but one child came out and said to the audience in fluent English, "We are here, and we really want to dedicate our songs to friends all over the world and show the elegance of our children in China. However, we found that China's national flag was not hoisted here, and we felt that this was related to the dignity of our motherland. So we refuse to perform! " First, discussion, then warm applause. People applaud the Chinese sons and daughters for being able to safeguard the dignity of the motherland and abandon their personal interests. The organizer of the contest hurriedly apologized to the children, saying that it was purely a work mistake. As a result, the children released their beautiful and moving songs after seeing the five-star red flag Ran Ran rising.

Legend has it that before Liu Bei visited the thatched cottage, Sun Quan sent Zhang Zhao to hire Zhuge Liang as his minister, but he refused. He said: "Power is bright, but not bright." It means that Sun Quan can only respect him and regard him as a guest of honor, but can't use him as wisely as possible and attach importance to him. Therefore, it cannot be called "respect". Later, thanks to Liu Bei's snowstorm, he became his strategist. Liu Bei shared the same bed with him, talking about world affairs all day long and feeling like brothers. Everything that involves the war situation should be discussed and listened to before making a decision. Zhuge Liang was truly "respected" before he made the move of "taking six out of seven" to level the world.