Who is at fault for Luo Zijun's divorce in the Chen case?
There is something wrong with marriage, in fact, both of them have problems. Chen's disloyalty to Zijun is so cruel that most of his faults are on Chen. However, Zijun has his own reasons. After marriage, her son and husband became all she had, suspicious and had no life of her own.
In fact, Zijun is the biggest victim. For Zijun, the biggest mistake is to take the sentence "I support you" for granted. "I support you" sounded happy at that time, but it was actually a very irresponsible sentence. Luo Zijun graduated from college, and her theoretical ability may not be worse than that of Chen at that time, but she naively thought that she would support her for life. Little did she know that as a full-time wife, she would only get farther and farther away from Chen. Only by ensuring relative independence, no matter who leaves, can you protect yourself, turn around gracefully when you are betrayed, and have the strength to dry your tears for yourself.
In fact, there are many "Luo Zijun and Chen" around us. I don't know whether they are "lucky" or "unlucky" In fact, there are too few "mistresses" as sophisticated as "Lingling" in life, so I have never noticed.
Therefore, boys must have the courage to say "I support you" to girls, which is a lifelong agreement. However, girls can't really let boys raise you like that, which is the best respect for the boys they like as girls.
Emotion and dependence, from existence to non-existence, is a process of gradual reduction, but in fact they will suddenly decrease to zero at a certain moment or even a certain moment.
So, if you are Luo Zijun, try to be independent. Husband's money is not an excuse for you to avoid struggle, you earned it yourself.