Thank your children for letting me participate in your growth-family style > reaction to a book or an article

I believe that anyone who has seen Hunan Satellite TV's Metamorphosis will have a deep feeling that there are many educational problems for the younger generation. What's wrong with children now? They are violent, rebellious and full of cool personalities. Affection and family happiness are becoming more and more porcelain, which can not stand the test of wind and rain. Horrible killings, ubiquitous domestic violence and the rapid spread of network information have made these inevitable contradictions more and more clearly presented to the world. No one knows whether other people's stories will be an accident or a disaster at home tomorrow.

Home is not a wayward place. The family can be poor, but the heart cannot be poor. Those who like to release material garbage and spiritual garbage are all poor people who are not sound. Rich material life makes people with multiple social values, poor spirit and physical disabilities live a happy life in luxury, grandstanding in accidental amusement and putting all their eggs in one basket in spending money like water. After all, from Guo Meimei, an online celebrity, to Xie Feng, the former chairman of JISCO, who was arrested for corruption and bribery, to 100 global red wanted orders, the state has made a heavy attack to punish corruption. There are also a number of indecent incidents of people of the hour, all of which show souls lost due to impetuous delusions. Cultivate students' health, inherit virtues, lead by example, and lead by example. Otherwise, how can a person who drinks and chats online all day expect his children to become masters of learning hegemony? A person who only regards children as a private tool to polish your vanity and help you realize your dreams will only make people despise our ignorance and shallowness even more.

Ji Bolun once said that children can only come to this world with the help of our bellies, and we

All we have to do is fill the bow and let the arrows shoot into the distance. The place to educate children is not only the school, but also the family moral education. Children's education is an educational history of love. Many parents like to care about their children across borders, but in fact they only convey their distrust and disrespect for their children in disguise. The breath they convey makes it impossible for children to experience love and education. With the growth of children, parents should gradually reduce their participation in their children's lives, create a reasonable and natural distance, give their children an independent growth space, gradually separate from each other and quit at the right time. Be a measured parent who understands children, cares rationally and loves love. In an excellent family, it is important to do a good job in virtue education and teach children to be educated and educated. It is important to cultivate children's patience, reading and writing, good communication, independent problem solving, strict personality, respect for each other, environmental awareness, influence and action. Creativity.

Home is the sun as warm as spring, home is the refreshing and pleasant Xia Feng, and home is the red flame, which gives children warmth and the power to move forward. Parents, like compasses, give their children the right direction, guide their children to grow up healthily, and establish a correct outlook on life, values and a positive and sunny attitude. This is all due to a good family style, which can shape noble personality, elegant speech and elegant temperament, be good at learning and enterprising spirit, and be kind to others. In thousands of years of civilization in China since ancient times, prominent and enduring families have their own unique family instruction and family education. Zeng Guofan's family letters, Yan's family instructions, Mandarin and Analects of Confucius have all become models for future generations to learn. Good family education, cultivate children who are filial and sensible, moderate in behavior, inherit good family style and carry forward; The fashion of harmonious society is the core idea of moral education in every family.

In short, the forces of the world are mutual. Parents must start from their own cultivation if they want their children to be excellent. Children are just a mirror of you, reflecting your own shadow. Like the echo of your call coming from the other side of the mountain. Parents are happy for their children's happiness, and children are bound to bear your sadness. Then please don't just complain, blame and give up, become a booster to help children grow up healthily, know the truth of being and doing things, know the responsibility and mission, know how to be a low-key person and act rationally, and know how to be grateful, tolerant and thoughtful. Since the enlightenment, everyone needs to keep introspection to grow up. Thank you for letting me participate in your growth.