He blames himself and thinks that he must be not good enough and not sensible enough to make his parents quarrel.

After entering high school, Alec Su hurried to announce during the day and studied until 3 am at night.

Alec Su was born in Taibei, 1973.

My father Su Jinjie runs a hardware factory, and my mother Wei Zimin is a middle school teacher.

When two people are together, they are not free to fall in love, but they get married when they are old.

After marriage, they just spent a short honeymoon.

After Alec Su was born, the contradiction between them began to break out.

Su Jinjie is a businessman, dealing with all kinds of customers all day, and has developed a mercenary nature.

Wei Zimin is a Chinese teacher. She likes literature and romance. She is essentially a young woman in literature and art.

These two people with completely different personalities will be attracted by each other's differences at the beginning.

After getting along for a long time, I began to dislike each other's actions.

Both of them have a bad temper and quarreled, and neither of them will let anyone.

Alec Su looked at his parents every day, flushed, scared and confused:

Why do parents quarrel? Is it because of me?

When my mother turned around and saw the frightened Alec Su, she realized:

Children should not be allowed to witness adults quarreling.

So my mother gave Alec Su a bunch of training courses: abacus, mental arithmetic, Olympic Mathematics, English, writing, calligraphy and so on.

When the children are not at home, the enemy will be more emboldened to fight hard.

Although Alec Su was sent to attend various training courses when he was very young, he was not unhappy at all.

Because the children in the training class are very friendly and the teachers are very caring, it feels much warmer than the noisy at home.

While many children refused to study, Alec Su was addicted to learning.

There is a sad reason behind his obsession with learning.

At that time, Alec Su blamed himself, thinking that he must be not good enough and not sensible enough to make his parents quarrel constantly.

So he studied hard and got ahead, thinking that his parents would never quarrel again.

1988, 15-year-old Alec Su entered the best high school in Taiwan Province province with the first place in the school.

Mother Wei Zimin was very worried when she saw her son studying all day and his myopia deepened.

After the senior high school entrance examination, my mother encouraged Alec Su without telling my father, and submitted her resume to the Taiwanese variety show "Youth Confrontation".

This is an attempt, but I didn't expect the program group to hire Alec Su immediately after seeing Fine Sunshine.

After that, it is something familiar to the public:

Little Tiger, composed of Alec Su, Nicky Wu and Julian Chen, was born.

Originally, these three boys were going to help the "kitten" in the program to drive the atmosphere. As a result, as soon as they appeared on TV, they completely occupied the hearts of the audience.

After the company's research, they tried to let Little Tiger play a song "Green Apple Paradise" to test the water.

Unexpectedly, once the song was released, it took only five weeks to reach the top of the major music charts.

Mother is very happy to see her son sing so well.

But my father is not happy.

He believes that when you go to high school, you should focus on your studies; Singing and dancing are useless things.

So there are already conflicting parents, because Alec Su started quarreling again as soon as he sang.

Mother agreed with Alec Su's singing, but father strongly opposed it.

In this case, Alec Su, who has always been clever and sensible, also had a conflict with his father, and even had a fierce quarrel.

The father and son aimed at the prospective wheat awn, and no one took a step back.

Frustrated, his father rushed to the kitchen, picked up a kitchen knife and threw it at Alec Su.

At that moment, Alec Su's blood seemed to freeze.

He didn't recover until the knife rubbed on his head for a long time.

At this time, my father realized that he had gone too far and turned into the room.

Never ask Alec Su again.

Without his father's stop, Alec Su sang and studied with peace of mind.

Alec Su's three-year high school is also the most popular in Little Tiger.

In these three years, Little Tiger held more than 30 concerts and released 7 albums.

Although he is an idol star, Alec Su dare not slack off in his studies.

He hurried to announce during the day and studied until 3 am at night.

He doesn't want to be pointed at because he is a member of Little Tiger. Look, this is the cute tiger who doesn't study hard.

In order to please his parents, Alec Su gave them all the income he earned in Little Tiger.

Su Jinjie took the money earned by his son and a thick pile of money, and made a bad idea.

Encouraged by his friends, Su Jinjie transferred the hardware store he had opened for decades, put all his savings into the building materials industry and started a building materials company in partnership with his friends.

Su Jinjie's dream of making money has not come true.

His friend swept away all the money, leaving only a shell company and a large debt.

It never rains but it pours. Julian Chen joined the army, and Alec Su faced the entrance examination. The company decided to postpone all its activities in Little Tiger, and Alec Su also lost revenue.

In this case, the contradiction between parents escalated again because of the money problem.

Alec Su couldn't sit still any longer.

Although he was admitted to Taiwan Province Provincial University (the first university in Taiwan Province Province) with excellent results and became a "master of science and technology" in the hearts of fans, he really could not settle down to study in the face of a debt-ridden family and quarrelsome parents.

After careful consideration, in 1994, he made a difficult decision:

Drop out of school to make money and pay off debts.

From 1995 to 1996, Alec Su made seven film and television dramas, large and small; There are more than a dozen songs, such as when that day comes, I just want you to love me, courage and wounds.

But the reputation is getting worse and worse.

Alec Su's career has reached a low point of about four years.

It was not until 1998 that it became popular through the series "Princess Pearl" and successfully transformed from an idol singer to an actor.

His income rose with him again, helping his father pay off his debts and giving up his brother Gao Fei, who is also a member of National Taiwan University.

Alec Su thinks that he is grown up, rich and famous, and his parents will never quarrel again.

But he was wrong.

1999, parents officially divorced.

Even so, Alec Su is still unwilling.

Alec Su, whose career has gradually climbed and returned to the peak, has appeared in hit dramas such as Raining in Torrents, Dragon Slayer with Eternal Hand and Naughty Princess.

Among them, in Wind in 2009, eccentric Bai Xiaonian transformed him into a powerful actor.

Then he transformed into a producer.

The TV series If You Are the One, which was produced and starred by him, won the Golden Angel Award for outstanding China TV series in the 9th China-US Film Festival.

In 20 15, he was the director for the first time, shooting "Left Ear", which finally earned 500 million at the box office.

With the film Left Ear, Alec Su was nominated for the Golden Horse Award for Best New Director.

Only in those years of hard work, he never stopped lobbying his parents: remarriage.

Whenever he is free, he gives gifts to his parents in the name of both parties.

After that, he also bought a house and asked his parents to give advice on the decoration of the house.

Looking at his parents sitting together and discussing the house calmly, Alec Su smiled with relief.

He thinks it's time for his parents to remarry.

In a trip with her mother, Alec Su begged her mother:

Why don't you remarry your father?

Looking at Alec Su's serious eyes, my mother was speechless.

In order not to make their son sad, the parents reluctantly registered for remarriage.

Aside Alec Su, also personally held a wedding for them.

Seeing his parents reunited, Alec Su put his mind at ease into his work.

20 15, after Alec Su was busy, he planned to surprise his parents.

As a result, when he entered the room and saw his parents coming out of the master bedroom and the second bedroom respectively, the dream of family reunion was broken again.

It turns out that parents really have no feelings. Even if they forcibly remarry and live under the same roof, their hearts can't be together.

At that moment, no matter what happens, Alec Su will laugh and cry:

I thought you were happy, but it's not.

When the lie was exposed, my parents said frankly, I won't get divorced when I am old, so I will do it in the future.

Alec Su realized that it was useless to study hard and get ahead. No matter how good and hard he is, he still can't have a complete family.

He watched his parents quarrel since he was a child, and he could not find his other half for many years.

After the illusion of happiness that his parents remarried was exposed, he was even more confused about marriage.

In that era when idol stars and scandals were flying everywhere, Alec Su basically didn't have an affair with any actress, and most of the news about Ruby Lin was over-interpreted by the media.

Think/kloc-debuted at the age of 0/5, became popular at the age of 25, gorgeous at the age of 35, and became a powerful idol with multiple identities such as production, director and singer at the age of 42.

Alec Su declared what positive energy is with his own actions and strength.

But when he came home and closed the door, he was still alone.

He once thought he could save his parents' marriage, but now he seems to have failed.

Maybe his own marriage also failed.

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