First, don't believe that going to college is easy. This is just a new beginning. When you are in high school, your teacher will tell you that it is easy to go to college. That's just a reason to give you motivation to study. When you enter the university, you will find that everything is not as simple as you think. Even if there are only two classes a day, you can get dizzy. You may be busy every day, but you don't know what you are busy with. When I was in high school, I wanted to sleep. When I woke up naturally, I would feel bored when I went to college. And you have to study and take the final exam; I want to go out to play in my spare time, but you will find that your living expenses are almost gone.

Second, you don't need to be good friends with everyone, you should learn to be independent and tolerant. It is good enough to make one or two good friends when you enter the university, because you will meet all kinds of people, not everyone is sincere. In addition to sincerity, if everyone knows you well, you will be very tired when dealing with interpersonal relationships, so it is very important to sort out interpersonal relationships. In college, you can really fall in love if you want, but in college, you will find it difficult to find someone; If your friend asks you any emotional questions, don't give advice, just listen. She may just want to express her feelings, because everyone has independent thoughts, and your opinions are all nonsense. Roommates are not friends, you just live together. The dormitory relationship should be harmonious and good, and you should learn to be tolerant, otherwise it will have a great impact on your life. Therefore, it is good to communicate in time and help others if you have any questions, but you should also learn to refuse.

Third, we should plan our goals, study hard and learn to be independent and self-disciplined. Don't believe that it is enough to pass the legendary college entrance examination. In fact, it is also a shame to pass the college entrance examination. If you want to graduate smoothly or take the postgraduate entrance examination, you must study hard and strive to improve yourself on the basis of not failing the subject. From the life arranged by high school to the self-management of universities, many students may not adapt to or neglect their own universities, which is not worth it. Therefore, it is difficult for us to plan our goals and work hard for them during our college years, but it is only because of difficulties that persistence will be meaningful, and developing good study habits will also be beneficial to our future life. University is like a leg stepping into society. Everyone has their own goals. You can find people with common goals to work with. It doesn't matter if you don't. If you don't agree to do something, you should do it bravely. Don't give up just because your roommate doesn't, or you will lose a lot. In college, it is normal for a person to go to the library and canteen, and it is actually cool to do what he wants.

If you want to join a student union or a club, you can choose to add one or two. If you add too much, it may affect your rest and study time. You can learn to wear and make up, which is also a way to love yourself. Don't care what other people think. Everyone is unique.