The world often compares the wife's whispers to her husband to "pillow breeze". Although the wind is small, it hits people's bone marrow directly, making them successful and failing. This kind of wind has been particularly valued by people since ancient times.
People are no strangers to China's ancient masterpiece Romance of Gods, among which Su Daji is a "typical" who likes to blow the wind of obscenity, is good at making progress and is greedy for words. Violent "pillow breeze" blew him out, killing Prime Minister Bi Gan, overthrowing General Huang and replacing him with the King of Wu. Another example is The Story Of Diu Sim, one of the "four beauties" in ancient times.
Did you use the "pillow breeze" to sow discord between Dong Zhuo and Lu Bu's father and son, making them turn against each other and be destroyed by others?
However, today, the "pillow breeze" is still unabated. In our real life, a large number of officials are also corrupted by the pillow wind and pushed into the abyss by their wives. Of course, there are also some collusion between husband and wife, behind-the-scenes operation, full of tacit understanding It seems that "husbands are greedy for wives" has become a regular phenomenon. These couples are digging their own graves while receiving a lot of ill-gotten wealth. Here are a few examples:
Wei Shizhong, former vice mayor of Yingtan City, Jiangxi Province, turned out to be a very honest man. In order to avoid giving gifts to others, he even took his whole family to a relative's house on holidays, because he thought it would not hurt the face of the giver. His wife Hou Shuie is not. She was very dissatisfied with her husband's refusal to accept bribes and even said, "What are you afraid of! Everyone else does it. It is a fool not to do it. I will take care of everything. None of your business! " Under the repeated instigation of Hou, the husband and wife committed crimes together. As a result, Wei Shizhong was sentenced to 15 years, and his wife was sentenced to 4 years.
Mo Miaorong, the former mayor of Xiaoshan City, Zhejiang Province, accepted some bribes when he worked at the grassroots level. After being promoted to mayor, Mo Miaorong was worried about ruining his future, so he suppressed himself and decided to wash his hands of it. But his wife Zhu Jinbao is a woman who loves money and has a strong desire to collect money. Knowing that her husband doesn't love money, she is afraid of losing big because of small things, so she blows a hair dryer on the pillow to comfort Mayor Mo: "It's not necessary to be afraid, but caution is also appropriate." In this way, the couple agreed on the principles to be grasped when accepting bribes. As a result, the couple finally fell into the French Open. Mo Miaorong regretted it in prison and summed up three things deeply: "No money and fame, no study and reform, no wife's participation in politics." 、
Wang, the former party secretary of Rizhao City, Shandong Province, is also a cadre who can't stand the pillow breeze. At the instigation of his wife, he accepted bribes of 49,000 yuan and jointly sought illegal benefits of 6,543,800 yuan with his wife Xu Fengli. Some people say that the king was defeated mainly because of his wife. Exactly. His wife also smuggled 350 motorcycles every day, with a total price of more than 2 million yuan. After the incident, I tried my best to cover up Wang's crimes. In the end, both husband and wife were thrown into prison. Wang was sentenced to 9 years and Xu was sentenced to 4 years.
Meng Lijuan, the wife of Yang Yongxin, the former mayor of Binzhou, played a disgraceful role. She always opens her heart to those who give gifts and bribes, and even insinuates and asks for it in person. After the incident, Yang was sentenced to eight years in prison, and Meng ended up with three sentences and three reprieves.
The bribery case of Lin Guokui, former director of Hunan Machinery Industry Bureau, is a typical case, which also caused a sensation in the whole country. At that time, Lin Guokui was called "the first greed in Hunan". Directed by his wife, Zhao Youjuan, and his son, the Lin family of three conspired to embezzle state property and accepted bribes totaling 5.27 million yuan. Finally, Guo Lin took his wife to prison and was finally sentenced to death.
In addition, such as Zhang Guofen, wife of former deputy mayor of jieshou city, He Qiaolan, wife of former director of Civil Affairs Bureau of Baoji, Shaanxi, Guan Xia, wife of former director of Finance Bureau of Huaiyin, Jiangsu, Liu Jingmei, wife of former secretary of municipal party committee of Guangdong, Wang, wife of former secretary of municipal party committee of Fuyang, Zhejiang, wife of former deputy commissioner Huang in Heze, Shandong, former police chief of Zaozhuang, former mayor of Hebi, Henan, and Hunan.
I don't want to list them here, but from the above cases, we can see that "pillow breeze" is like a double-edged sword, which can benefit the family and the country if blown well; If you don't play well, it will ruin your family, harm others, harm yourself and harm society. Therefore, the author sincerely hopes that as a wife, everyone can enhance the awareness of "eight honors and eight disgraces", not only to be a good wife, but also to be an honest wife; Take precautions, often remind "officials", take more than a dozen shots to enhance "immune function", and always blow some pillow winds that "don't take small evils" and "the nest can be broken even if it is small" to prevent it from changing from quantitative to qualitative; The cool wind blowing on the pillow can protect your husband's safety. On the contrary, if you always blow some greedy wind on your pillow, you will always envy others how big their houses are and how good their cars are. When "Brother Kong Fang" makes money, his face will be full of sunshine. It won't be long before his official husband is infected with corruption. In broad daylight, he will throw away his gauze and ruin his future. In the worst case, he will be punished by law and even lose his life. This lesson is enough, please think twice.