Too beautiful boyfriend is worried that he can't keep me. Beauty is the capital that every woman pursues. But sometimes being too beautiful is also a mistake. Too beautiful will always be regarded as a vase at work, and too beautiful boyfriend always suspects that I am outside ... Let's listen to the story of a beautiful girl whose boyfriend is too beautiful to keep me.

Too beautiful boyfriend is worried that he can't keep me. I asked him why he left me, but he suddenly said in a cold tone, "How do I know what you were doing outside all night!" " His distrust of me disheartened me.

Talking to: Molly (a pseudonym)

Age: 26 years old

Occupation: temporary residence

In recent years, with the extremely popular TV series "Ugly Woman Invincible", many people laughed and said that "this is an era when ugly women are rampant". Not to mention whether this society has really become an "ugly age", but now there are actually some beautiful women who are beginning to worry about their looks. Not because they are not beautiful enough, but because they are beautiful, which makes their life and work more troublesome and confused.

"What do you say these men value women? I've worked very hard-I don't care. I tried hard, but my boyfriend left me, my boss harassed me, and my colleagues thought I was just a vase ... these are not what I want! Is it my fault that I am beautiful? Am I so unreliable because I am beautiful? " Height 1.7 meters, with a pair of eagle eyes, Molly was filled with indignation.

1, because beauty has become a gossip topic.

I am from Nanning, and my parents are outstanding in appearance. Maybe it's genetic and acquired. According to my mother, I don't look like a native of Guangxi, but I'm a bit dignified and refined as a northern girl. When I was young, I went to visit my parents. My relatives always say to me, "This girl is really beautiful." I'm also very happy about it.

After graduating from high school, I was admitted to a university in Shanghai with high scores, majoring in planning. From then on, I left home for the first time to live in a collective life. But at the beginning of college life, I found that people around me gave me strange things in their eyes, including my roommates in my dormitory. I don't know why.

When I was in middle school, because my home was close to school and my classmates were day students, I got used to walking to and from school alone. After going to college, I still don't change my old habits and like a person. I just finished a month's college life and came back from reading in the library one night. As soon as I walked to the door of the dormitory, I heard the playful laughter of my roommates in the room. To my great surprise, they talked about me.

"You don't know, many boys in the class have a crush on Molly. I heard that boys in other classes are also asking about her. But people don't like them. You said that she goes out early and comes back late every day, which is beautiful. Maybe she was kidnapped by someone outside. I heard that beautiful girls don't like those naive and stupid boys in college. "

I heard it was Huang Mei, the study committee member in the class. I've never been gossiped like this. I was so angry that I broke into the house, and then I started cursing directly with the rude words I just heard when I arrived in Shanghai: "Don't insult people …" My sudden appearance startled everyone, and everyone stopped talking.

After what happened, in retrospect, I was ashamed of my cursing, but I was so angry that I didn't realize that I had cursed. Before that, I seldom quarreled with others.

I have no intention to "compete" with the girls.

Because I am unhappy this time, my roommates also know that I am not easy to mess with, and they are all very harmonious after seeing me. I am more self-centered and like to go my own way. I hope that through my own efforts, I will constantly improve myself and eventually become a knowledgeable and cultivated person. So, I've been trying. Less than half a year after the start of school, I hosted two large-scale parties in my department by virtue of my organizational ability and other advantages, which made me famous.

I didn't know it would cause me trouble.

Gradually, boys from my department and other colleges began to ask me out, hoping that I would be friends with them. I didn't even accept it. I think it's a little early to fall in love after graduating from college. I choose to escape, but the more you escape, the more you can't escape.

Zhang Qiang, president of the Chinese University Literature Society, persevered and chased me for almost two months. After being completely rejected by me, I was criticized by another beautiful girl in my class, Merry.

One day, as soon as I got back to the dormitory stairs after school, Meili rushed to block my way and immediately scolded me in front of many people: "Molly, don't think you are amazing because you are beautiful." Why do you rob my boyfriend and interrupt? " You have gone too far! "I suddenly understand who she said" boyfriend ". I am really speechless. I didn't want to explain anything to her, so I bumped into the crowd and left silently. After a long walk, Meili's bristle came from behind.

Since then, rumors about me have been circulating everywhere in the department, saying that I am arrogant and mean, and everything continued until I graduated from college. I don't care. I just want to graduate quickly. I want to prove my talent with my strength. I think this is the most important thing.

I didn't read my resume when the company accepted me.

For me, in this atmosphere, apart from learning knowledge, the whole university life is a bit difficult. In 2008, I finally graduated and returned to Nanning.

In the process of applying for a job, I was quickly accepted by a company. That's a big company in Nanning. They wanted to recruit a planner at that time. I am also looking forward to this company, so I have carefully prepared my resume and applied with confidence and expectation.

On the day of the interview, I heard that the company had interviewed hundreds of people before that. So when it was my turn to interview, I was very nervous. But to my surprise, during the interview, the interviewer didn't even look at my resume and didn't ask me about my ability. He just looked at me and nodded, and immediately told me to go to work in a few days. Before I left, the interviewer asked me if I could have a cup of coffee with him. I politely refused.

However, I still feel like a dream after passing the interview so easily.

I didn't know until the day I went to work that the interviewer was the boss of the company. As soon as we met, he said to me, "Xiao Mo, you will be responsible for planning in the future. At the same time, you will be my secretary on a part-time basis and go out to socialize with me when necessary. You are beautiful and can promote our company image well. " At the beginning of the work, of course, I couldn't refuse, just nodded in agreement. So, I started my first job in ignorance.

My colleagues think I am just a vase.

I think my planning major is very good, and my internship in the last year of college has matured me a lot. I hope to get recognition and appreciation from others in my work. However, when there is a planning scheme, the boss always won't let me do it. The boss's reason is that I just entered the company, so I have to get familiar with the environment first. And every time he goes on a business trip, he always takes me with him.

Two people on a business trip, of course, is very ambiguous. At first, the boss was polite. Slowly, he began to touch my thigh in front of other bosses. I can't bear it, but I still bite the bullet and smile for my work. Unexpectedly, it wasn't long before the company began to rumor that my boss and I had proper relationship. Colleagues think I joined the company because I am beautiful. Because I often travel with my boss, I have become the full-time "secretary" of my boss in everyone's eyes.

Once, the company will hold an annual large-scale public welfare activity to promote the company's image. I think this is an opportunity and I hope to participate in the planning. At the meeting, I volunteered and hoped to attend. The boss hesitated for a moment and said that I would think about it after the meeting.

At the end of the meeting, I heard some female employees whisper, "Just like her, she can still plan. It' s really self-sufficient! " I am sad. I came in as a "planner", but in the end I didn't even get a major. It is conceivable that the boss didn't consider my request at all.

I am worried that I can't stay, and my boyfriend left me.

Shortly after I started working, I met my boyfriend Gang Lin. Gang Lin is a northern boy, simple and honest, rare. When I met him, I let go of a girl's reserve and offered to be nice to him. When we finally get together, I hope Gang Lin and I can be together for life.

Like all northern men, Gang Lin is very manly. I am beautiful and travel a lot, which makes him unbearable. He thinks I'll be kidnapped sooner or later. He wants me to quit my job and find another one, at least I don't have to travel a lot. It is not easy to change jobs. I am in this big company, but many people can't get in if they want to. I laughed at his stupidity. I didn't expect that my work was so important to him that it later became an irreconcilable contradiction between us.

One night, my boss and I went out to socialize. This entertainment is for a Jiangsu boss. If the business is settled, the company can sign millions of orders. While we were busy, Gang Lin called and asked me when I would go back. I said I don't know yet. Let's talk about it later. Gang Lin doesn't talk over there. I didn't realize the seriousness of the situation. Gang Lin called twice that night, and I hung up in a hurry, because it was inconvenient to talk too much.

I didn't get away until 1 am. I came home with a strong smell of alcohol and fell asleep. Unexpectedly, when I opened my eyes the next day, Gang Lin told me that he didn't think we were really suitable, so let's separate. He said that his company has set up a new branch in Liuzhou, and he will work there for some time first, but it is likely that he will work there for a long time in the future.

I asked him why he left me, but he suddenly said in a cold tone, "How do I know what you were doing outside all night!" " "His distrust of me completely chilled me.

At the end of 2008, perhaps because of Gang Lin's departure, perhaps because I felt that such a job was completely against my original intention, I resigned. At the beginning of 2009, I went to look for a job again and got two jobs, and the results were the same: when I went to the interview, the interviewer didn't look at my resume, but asked me what my hobbies were, or just copied my phone number from my resume, and then began to harass me, such as asking if I could make friends with him and play golf with him.

I'm fed up with these people! Repeated blows make me depressed. Now, I stay at home every day and do nothing.

Actually, I just want to find a suitable job, support myself and stand on my own feet. This is normal for many girls, but why is it so difficult for me? Am I really wrong to look like this?

Too beautiful boyfriend is worried that he can't keep me. 1. My girlfriend is so beautiful. Should I be worried?

What's it like to be in love? What are the dating skills? Many men think that having a beautiful woman is a face-saving thing, and they try to pull her to their side whenever and wherever possible to win the envy and praise of their friends. However, recent research shows that having a beautiful girlfriend is not good. Because they are probably not serious about their feelings.

In this study, 692 women in love took part in an online survey to evaluate the attractiveness of men and men respectively. The results show that when women think they are more attractive than their boyfriends, they are dissatisfied with their current feelings and are more inclined to continue looking for attractive men.

Researchers at Eastern Connecticut State University said: "Women who think they are more attractive than their boyfriends don't care much about their current relationship. In order to attract more attractive men, they want to spend more time and want to date other men more than their boyfriends. "

Men often "love" their girlfriends to prevent them from being hugged by other men.

Like kissing in public or peeking at her cell phone text messages. If a woman is considered more attractive than her boyfriend, when a man is intimate in public, the man who she refuses without hesitation will read the text messages on his mobile phone, want to limit his intimate contact with other men, and is likely to deliberately date other men to get rid of each other.

So, why are these couples together for the first time? Professor Madeleine Fougere, the main researcher of this study, said: "We have not studied this problem. This may be that women's vanity is changing. If you have a boyfriend, you may feel embarrassed.

However, before this problem is investigated clearly, male friends must not marry excellent women if they want to make their future lives happier. "

20 13 researchers from the university of new south Wales, Australia, studied the mate selection process of individual female guppies (brightly colored tropical ornamental fish). The results show that although most female peacocks like attractive male peacocks (with bright colors, orange spots and large tail fins), some of them are obsessed with ugly male peacocks (with black spots).

In other words, in the process of pursuing the opposite sex, some people's looks are not necessarily. What's it like to be in love? What are the dating skills? Dr Rob Brooks, the lead researcher, said: "Animals' motives for choosing the other half also apply to humans. Ordinary people are sometimes better than beautiful people. "

As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Dr Paul Rainey, a lecturer in biology at Oxford University, believes that "everyone has a unique side, and everyone will not be confused by gorgeous appearance".