After becoming a teaching assistant, Wu Dayou moved into the teachers' dormitory. The girls' dormitory is in the front row, close at hand, but still can't go to each other's room. At this time Ruan Guanshi was diagnosed with lung disease. Wu Dayou remembered a Cantonese folk tonic made by his mother in his hometown-stewed beef soup with a small fire across the water, so he went to the vegetable market to buy lean beef. When he came back, he cut the meat into small pieces, put it in a jar, let the water pass, and then put the jar in a pot and stewed it with a small fire. After stewing, let the workers send them to the girls' dormitory. Ruan Guanshi was very touched when he took the delicious beef soup, and always let his roommates taste it. Everyone who tasted it praised it as delicious, saying that Mr. Wu was not only knowledgeable, but also a good cook. Of course, the girls will make fun of her again. ...
Ruan Guanshi is in good health except for his poor health. Friends and relatives have repeatedly advised Wu Dayou to think twice before you leap, and teachers who love him are also worried that his career prospects will be affected. Even Ruan Guanshi was afraid that he would drag down this talented young man and once broke up in tears. In the face of caring relatives, friends and teachers, Wu Dayou repeatedly said: "If I don't have her in my life, I won't be happy!" What can others say after hearing this? 193 1 year, Wu Dayou won a scholarship to study in the United States, Ruan Guanshi went with him, and they shared a scholarship. She is often ill, and medical expenses are a big expense. At that time, the American economic depression made it very difficult to find a job. One unit unexpectedly completed an engineering research and went to Wu Dayou. Arrive at the laboratory at 8 o'clock every night and work nonstop for one minute until 6 o'clock the next morning. I left the lab and went to class. I went back to my residence in the afternoon to have a rest, but the room was as hot as a steamer and I couldn't sleep. After dinner, I hurried to the laboratory. I worked like this for three days and didn't sleep a wink. Work every night 10 hour, reward 50 cents per hour. They earned 15 dollars in three days, which is not a small income for them.
During holidays, some students go on summer vacation and some travel. Only Wu Dayou has to work. But Ruan Guanshi, who is gentle and considerate around him, comforts and encourages him from time to time. He is happier than anyone else. After Wu Dayou received his doctorate, Peking University sent a letter of appointment. At this time, Ruan Guanshi was living in a nursing home in the suburbs of new york due to illness. Wu Dayou wanted to take her back to China, but the doctor wouldn't allow her to leave the hospital. Wu Dayou failed to start as scheduled, so he had to leave Ruan Guanshi for illness first. Wu Dayou took her widowed mother from her hometown to Beiping. I work well in Peking University, and I am very happy to go home with my mother, but I am worried about Ruan Guanshi, who is sick on the other side of the ocean. He told his mother about his girlfriend, but didn't mention her illness. The mother was very happy and believed her son's eyes. She is also very much looking forward to the future daughter-in-law returning to China as soon as possible so as to get married as soon as possible. After Wu Dayou left, Ruan Guanshi could no longer stay in a nursing home. After his illness improved, he dragged his sick body back to China alone. Overworked by the long journey, I suffered from pleurisy and had a high fever. I was admitted to the hospital and stayed in bed for almost a year. Wu Dayou is in charge of the hospital after work. At this time, the mother discovered that the future daughter-in-law was so weak and sick! Ruan Guanshi recovered first and went home to recuperate. There are many brothers and sisters at home, parents are old, and the conditions for raising sick are not very good. Wu Dayou wants to give her more love. So I proposed to Ruan Guanshi in the hospital bed and told my mother what I thought, saying that my girlfriend had lung disease, which made her infertile, but they loved each other deeply ... My mother was shocked! She lost her husband in her twenties, and all her hopes were pinned on her only son. Now, if you want to marry a barren daughter-in-law and break the fireworks of the Wu family, how can you be worthy of your husband and ancestors who died young?
Colleagues and teachers suggested that Wu Dayou had a bright future and should be cautious about marriage. He said, "I didn't fall in love with her overnight. The future I'm looking forward to is the future with her. If I don't have her in my life, what happiness will I have in exchange for a great reputation? I want to take good care of her. Getting married is the only way I can take care of her in my life. " This is Wu Dayou's declaration of love. Everyone was moved by the words of being knocked to the ground, and even the mother who insisted on opposing had to give in. After eight years with your lover, everything will be fine if the ending is good. Newly married Yan Er, Ruan Guanshi still has a low fever and stays in bed for half a year before he can go to the fields. At this point, Wu Dayou's career is in full swing. However, the peaceful and happy life was suddenly broken by the July 7th Incident. Teachers and students from Tsinghua, Peking University and Nankai are concentrated in Changsha. Wu Dayou is on his way, and his mother and wife stay with relatives in Tianjin.
Wu Dayou and his colleagues boarded a ship bound for Hong Kong and got off the ship in Qingdao because of seasickness. Shortly after arriving in Qingdao, I saw another Tianjin ship coming into port. He suddenly found her among the passengers disembarking! He couldn't believe his eyes. It turned out that since leaving, Ruan Guanshi refused to listen to his family and insisted on finding a husband on the road. Perhaps it was her loyalty that touched God. They met miraculously in the vast sea of people, and they couldn't help crying with joy. After all the hardships, I finally arrived in Changsha. The three schools formed a temporary university in Changsha, and then moved to Kunming, renamed National Southwest United University. During this period, Wu Dayou wrote her first monograph, which was dedicated to her.
In order to avoid air strikes, Peking University built a simple house at Gangtou, about 6 kilometers away from the suburbs. Everyone lives there, and it takes two hours to go to school every day. One day, Wu Dayou went to class by carriage from Gangtou. When he went down the hill, the horse suddenly began to run. He was thrown out of the car, passed out on the side of the road, suffered a concussion and lay in bed for a month.
Wu Dayou's injury made Ruan Guanshi very painful. Seeing her husband in a daze all day, he was afraid, worried and tired. When Wu Dayou was better, Ruan Guanshi fell. She was lying in bed covered in sweat, her pulse was weak and she was flustered. The doctor can only inject her with glucose and normal saline. She can't sit up and suck milk and orange juice through a glass tube for a living every day. Wu Dayou kept wiping sweat, changing clothes and drying wet clothes.
President and General Manager Mei Yiqi visited. Seeing that she was terminally ill, they looked grim and relatively silent. Before leaving, President Mei said to Wu Dayou, "If you need anything, you can use my car." The next day, an employee from the Peking University office came, who seemed ready to help with the funeral. However, she didn't leave him, she was still alive. Later, after borrowing some money, Wu Dayou sent Ruan Guanshi to the hospital. Ruan Guanshi was once in a coma, and Wu Dayou fell on the bed and gently called. A few months later, Ruan Guanshi was miraculously out of danger. When they left the hospital, they were broke. She still needs to stay in bed after discharge. Wu Dayou should not only do research in class, but also take care of Ruan Guanshi and do housework. Carry a basket into the classroom every day and go to the vegetable market after class. I couldn't afford beef, so I picked up some bones and went home to make soup for my sick wife. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, Wu Dayou was employed by the Ministry of Military Affairs and took his wife to study abroad. Wu Dayou thought he could return to China soon, but 1949 the domestic situation changed suddenly, so he had to stay in Canada temporarily. Both husband and wife like children very much, and the cousin knows the wishes of his brother and sister-in-law and adopts his newborn son to them. Ruan Guanshi was ecstatic to see the baby and poured all his maternal love into this little life. They bought land in the suburbs of Ottawa and designed their own houses. Ruan Guanshi gradually recovered, especially the arrival of the baby made her very happy, and the family of three was full of family happiness.
My son is both clever and sensible. 14 years old admitted to the university. Parents never restrain their children and let them develop freely. After his son graduated, Ruan Guanshi followed his son to read a master's degree, and when he was in his sixties, he and his son got a doctorate at the same time. A husband understands his wife very well. She has a strong personality and has been fighting against fate all her life. In his later years, Ruan Guanshi actually painted watercolors and often participated in exhibitions and won prizes. This is the happiest time in their family. Unfortunately, this happy life didn't last long. 1979 her left lung is completely calcified and she breathes through an oxygen tube. The following autumn, Wu Dayou received a telegram from his son in Amsterdam, informing his mother that he was critically ill. He hurried back to the United States. Ruan Guanshi had been admitted to the intensive care unit. He couldn't say anything but smiled at him. In winter, she went forever, 7 1 year old. She has been plagued by chronic diseases since childhood, and only under the care of the wings of love can she live to seventy years old. Wu Dayou said sadly: "Her departure made me lose my partner for 52 years in my 73 years of life."
A TV station in Taiwan Province interviewed Wu Dayou and asked him to talk about his love experience. He repeatedly shirked it, but finally made the love story hidden in his heart public for the first time. He talked with his confidante about his first love, recalled his unforgettable love, and said affectionately, "She is in poor health, and I want to marry her. I want to take good care of her all my life. " Wu Dayou and his wife are now separated, but when it comes to happiness, they sometimes laugh very sweetly; Speaking of her illness, she looks sad again. When the interview video was broadcast, the audience couldn't help crying. On March 4th, 2000, Wu Dayou, an internationally renowned physicist, died of illness. Wu Dayou's last words-"I have no regrets in my life". Indeed, he made outstanding contributions to mankind, and at the same time gave everything to his beloved wife. He has no regrets.
1in the spring of 1992, Wu Dayou, President of Academia Sinica, led a delegation to attend an international academic conference in Beijing. After 46 years, the old man was filled with emotion. He wants a dream, a beautiful dream. Accompanied by Li Zhengdao, he came to Tiantan Park, stood in front of the echo wall and put his ear on the wall. On the other side, he called softly, "Mr. Wu, did you hear that?" "I heard it! I heard it! " Wu Dayou replied with delight, his expression suddenly became trance-like, as if he had suddenly returned to more than 60 years ago, as if he had heard the gentle voice of Ruan Guanshi, a young girl. The echo wall of the Temple of Heaven is the witness of their love.