Speaking of middle-aged people, we all feel that their lives are very heavy: there are old people in the world, young people in the world, mortgage, car loan, child support, old people support, and the age of life scenery is gone. Coupled with naked resignation, unemployment and layoffs, the life of these middle-aged people is even more difficult. 0 1 Kobayashi, 40 years old, is an ordinary clerk in the company, doing an ordinary job, holding the same salary as that of the post-90 s or even the post-00 s, watching their youthful appearance, and then watching themselves getting older in the workplace, uncompetitive and sad. He felt abandoned, unable to see his future job and without passion. The leadership of the unit is mediocre and the days are bleak. With the salary of not having enough to eat and hungry, life goes on like this, getting less and less angry every day. From time to time, because I didn't say a word right or do a good job, I was rewarded with a pair of little shoes by the leader. On such a day, continue to mix or stop loss? Finally, I convinced myself: if you don't want to sit and eat and die, just go! Otherwise, even after ten years, I will still be spinning around in the same place. Full of confidence, although the future is uncertain, although there is still a family to support, it is better to live the life you want than to die. Kobayashi went to the original unit smartly and bid farewell to the job that he couldn't see the light. I left this job with the smartness and full confidence of firing my boss, with less money and many things, far away from home. After a short rest, Kobayashi started his job search, full of confidence, and the result was embarrassing. Although he has more than ten years of work experience, these jobs have not accumulated any practical skills for him for many years. In the old days, he spent more time drinking tea, playing games on the Internet and doing what he did in his spare time. He began to ask himself: What are his abilities and skills? The answer is no, when people reach middle age, they don't have excellent skills, so it's a little scary to look at their resumes thrown into the sea. Naked resignation, all kinds of expenses are waiting for him, every penny. I turned around and found that it was full of anxiety, helplessness and all kinds of embarrassment. He felt embarrassed not because he reached middle age, but because he had failed his life for so many years. It's hard to find a job, let alone one with a higher income than the previous one. However, there is no way now. I have to bear my own choices and my own mistakes. The living can't suffocate their urine and feel helpless. Xiao Lin thought of his brother-in-law, an old laid-off worker, who had a hard time after being laid off from a food factory many years ago. Later, I thought I learned the skills of processing peanut bean products in the food factory. Coupled with my brother-in-law's good skills, the products made are better than those in the mall, and people are constantly buying them. Although he worked hard, he lived a well-fed life with his own skills and efforts. At this time, some desperate Kobayashi seemed to see hope. He decided to learn this craft from his brother-in-law and start from scratch. Naked resignation, who is full of confidence in his work of muddling along and waiting for death, has experienced the embarrassment that his resume is sinking into the sea and an era when he no longer has advantages. Xiao Lin knows what he should do and how to do it. Like a coolie, he followed his brother-in-law and began to learn from the most basic steps. He is very tired, but he is full. Clever, he will soon be able to operate independently. When what he did was praised by everyone, he smiled from the bottom of his heart. Kobayashi later opened his own small food processing factory with his clever mind, and his income was definitely incomparable when he worked in the company before. To his delight, he finally found the orientation and direction of life. He achieved a dignified life by himself. Naked resignation, let him full of confidence; The pressure of life made him feel desperate; Once neglected life, let him taste the punishment of life; The midlife crisis is just an excuse for yourself. If you are a conscientious person, if you can plan your life earlier, if you can practice your skills earlier, if you can think about your future earlier, where will there be any midlife crisis? As long as you have the ability, as long as what you do is irreplaceable by others, then why worry about the midlife crisis? Why lament the injustice of life? Where are you worried that you will be forgotten by society because you are no longer young? If you slack off your life, if you are not passionate about life, if you fail to live up to life, don't say that there will be a crisis in middle age, and no one of any age can escape the punishment of crisis and life. When you reach middle age, when you are in tears, when you bump your head, don't forget that it is not life that fails you, but yourself. But don't forget, at any time, you should be an unbeatable person and adjust your mentality. Disappointment in the past is irreversible, so from now on, start from scratch. Even after hardships, as long as you don't give up, there is still hope to stand up again. Although I am no longer young, although I have been riddled with holes, as long as my heart is full of vitality, I will still have a boiling passion and live up to the glory of my life!