After many years, the feeling that this kind of thing brings to Chen Yunying has faded. "In those years, most people didn't know. Because according to the law, if you disappear for six months, you will be declared dead. But most people who know it are hostile, called' Taiwan Province traitors', and they are all bad people. As a family member, the pressure is great, so we should keep a low profile. As long as the Kuomintang opposes communist party, I will live a very, very depressed life. " Recalling this life, Chen Yunying laughed, "Mr. In order not to worry me, he didn't tell me. The military declared him dead, and some people said that he had gone to the mainland. There was no information disclosed to me at that time. I live in ups and downs. Today I think he is dead, and tomorrow I think he is still alive. "
One or two years later, suddenly one day, Lin Yifu asked a cousin from Japan to take a message to Chen Yunying. Simple words, "He is alive, nothing, let me get married." He was afraid to bring a letter at that time. Chen Yunying went up to her mother-in-law and announced loudly, "He is still alive! He is still alive! " Mother-in-law said calmly, "He's dead! Don't you think people are lying to you and giving you hope? " "All the people who came to Taiwan Province Province with the Kuomintang had the experience of 1949. The older generation told me that you would never meet again. " At this point, Chen Yunying suddenly felt a sense of sadness.
"How many such grieving families are there in Taiwan Province Province? Is this reasonable or unreasonable? " Chen Yunying said that this is why he has stood firmly in support of reunification for many years. "The fact is that being separated from the motherland for a century has made the suffering of so many people endless. The two sides of the strait can be peacefully reunified and the world has made such progress. For so many years, * * * has been trying to find a way. The party, the country and the nation all hope that we will finally achieve reunification. "
The real interval between two people is four years. 1983 In the spring, I saw "He" for the first time in America, so I had no other choice. "I am a traditional woman, and modern women will have their own plans. I know that in this case, many people will dissolve their marriage, or just keep seeing each other once a year. But I grew up reading China literature. I love my husband. I have a simple idea in my mind. I have a husband. This is the man. " Lin Yifu, who went to study in the United States from Peking University, loved and resolutely returned to the mainland, which also influenced Chen Yunying. "Women, husbands, children and families should be together and should not be separated." A woman's insistence on "home" made this legendary family, and also created the first couple of doctors who returned to the mainland from the United States after the reform and opening up.
At that time, Chen Yunying was still an "overseas Chinese". She said, "I still see the difficulties of special education in China. My own eyes tell me that I am especially needed here. "
In the early 1980s, those who went abroad to study in Peking University were top talents, and almost all chose to stay in the United States. "Many friends and colleagues around me have talked about it, saying that we can never go back from the United States." However, Lin Yifu and Chen Yunying, who have chosen their motherland, are still "innocent". "I'm thinking about my husband and children. As a result, I was unemployed for half a year, that is, unemployed! I don't want to work anywhere either. Probably the most educated Beijing Normal University. Maybe it's Chinese Academy of Sciences. Only when I came back did I know that the time of reform and opening up was not long. Many institutions and units still have a sense of distance to me. Maybe they don't trust me. They didn't even bring their resumes, and said politely and cautiously,' There is no plan to recruit people now'. At that time, it was all funded by the state, and there was no policy on how to resettle doctoral students studying abroad. "