At the beginning of every marriage, the husband and wife grow old together for life. But the reality proves that you can really get old, and there are fewer and fewer people working together. Today's fast-paced life has penetrated into feelings, and more and more people are beginning to envy the love that can be preserved in the past. Why in modern society, there are fewer and fewer couples who can stay with each other until they are old. In fact, there is no need to blame the complexity of the external environment. The fundamental problem is still the body. People with a sense of marital responsibility, husband and wife cherish each other, even in this complex society, can accompany you. You can also go to the old couple together. The first time was easier, and the second and third games were higher. A couple experienced pain and saw the real feeling of pain! This is undoubtedly a real test for couples. You can experience pain, don't give up, your feelings are sincere, and the future is bound to go further.

Li Li and her husband Zhiyong are a very ordinary couple. Lili is a supermarket shopping guide, and her husband Zhiyong is a takeaway. They have a pair of children and have been married for more than ten years. Although I don't often say "I love you", I silently say to each other that interdependence is the greatest encouragement. Although the house they live in is very small, every day I send the fragrance of fragrant rice, and my son and daughter will let my father buy them to sleep. At night, it is also a kind of happiness for children to sleep in a small bed next to the couple, with four mouths inseparable. Someone asked Lili. When I can marry someone better, I choose to get married. Li Li's answer is no. In her view, money can work together to make money, but it can't satisfy feelings. Maybe many people think that men will be bad and women will be bored with them, but these are only a few. Easy as it is, not everyone can do it. We can't deny everyone, can we? I see the feelings of the older generation, why they can grow old together, because they have had countless difficult days, and their greatest wish is a family that can be completely together. It's actually the same now.

Having a highly responsible partner said in Self-control: The biggest difference between humans and animals is that people have self-control. Therefore, for some behaviors that lack self-control, we are eager to fly, and we are often called beasts. Childbearing is the most basic thing, but in other words, it is difficult for many people to do it. A famous actor talked about his federal marriage behavior, "I just made a mistake." Not everyone is dissatisfied, this is not everyone. Since ancient times, there has been a story of "sitting riots". During the Spring and Autumn Period, Liu Xianghui of Lu wrapped a frozen woman in her arms, but still insisted on her own bottom line, not routine things. This is a manifestation of self-control and a very responsible performance. Nowadays, many people will blame the marriage society. They blame others, but seldom consider what they have done. As the saying goes, "flies don't bite seamlessly" and "I'm not afraid of oblique shadows". If I stick to the bottom line and have a high sense of responsibility for marriage and love, I won't be afraid of external influences.

A couple who grow up together is a partnership. If one partner is too fast, or the other partner is too slow, and you can't keep the same pace, one partner will be left behind by the other, leading to the breakdown of the marriage. Recently, I have many times, Li Guoqing and Yu Yu divorced, because that person's pace is very fast, and the other party is not only in the right place, not only the pace of the other party, but also criticizes the other party with his old ideas. Marriage is not a period of life, but a new beginning. In the process of marriage, two people need to keep the same soul and spirit, grow together and make progress together, so as to ensure a happy and lasting marriage. Xu Zhimo said: "I will find the only soul mate in the vast sea. I have, I am very lucky; No, I will live. " This is a very common level. This is a very high realm.