Speaking of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I believe many people will have a headache. In our society, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be said to be one of the most difficult to deal with. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like natural enemies. Men are caught in the middle and are in a dilemma.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law not only affects the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also affects the feelings and marriage between husband and wife. In many divorced couples in China, the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law leads to divorce. Therefore, maintaining the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, on the other hand, is also maintaining the married life of husband and wife.

In fact, I think the reason for the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is cohabitation after marriage. There is a big generation gap between the two generations. Coupled with different living habits and consumption concepts, it is easy to cause contradictions. Most of the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are frequent because of these reasons.

Therefore, in my opinion, it is best for couples not to live with their parents after marriage, so as to avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and also safeguard the relationship between husband and wife.

Unfortunately, few people will understand this truth.

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Yuling is 26 years old and has been married to her husband Yu Bin for four years. Their daughters are all three years old. Yuling never thought that her marriage would end because of a jiaozi.

Yuling once fantasized that she would have fairy-tale love, but only after she got married did she know that this was not the case. The so-called married life is not just love. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult, which is the fuse for the end of her marriage with her husband.

Yuling and her husband met while working in other places. At that time, they both worked in the same factory. Yu Bin was Yuling's boss and the leader of their group. Yu Bin fell in love with Yuling at first sight, so she always took care of Yuling at work and kept her from doing dirty work. Moreover, Yu Bin often invites Yuling to eat and watch movies. Over time, two people fell in love, and the relationship was confirmed in less than a month.

Two people have been in love for about a year and feel that they know each other very well, so they begin to discuss marriage.

However, their marriage was opposed by Yu Bin's mother. She thought that Yu Ling was a foreigner with poor family conditions, so she did not agree to their marriage. But at that time, Yu Bin liked Yuling very much, so she decided to get a marriage certificate with Yuling regardless of her mother's opposition.

Mother can only agree to their marriage when she sees what is done is done. Although married, Yuling knows that her mother-in-law doesn't like herself.

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At that time, Yuling was still young and always thought that people's hearts would change back, thinking that as long as she was dead set on being kind to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law would treat her as a daughter. But this is not the case.

After marriage, Yu Bin and Yuling live with their parents-in-law. This has also become the fuse for the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.

Less than half a year after marriage, Yuling became pregnant. But when she was pregnant, her mother-in-law also cooked vegetarian dishes every day. If Yuling wants to eat meat, she must cook it herself or go to a restaurant with her husband. Every time I buy a box of folic acid, my mother-in-law will say, "It was not so weird to have children before. Look at you. Hundreds of things are packed in a box every few days, which costs so much money. "

When Yuling's daughter was born, only her husband and parents took care of her in the hospital and never met her mother-in-law. During confinement, my mother-in-law went out early and returned late, playing mahjong all day. When her daughter cried, Yuling had to coax herself and wash diapers. I have to cook the food and put it there When her mother-in-law comes back for dinner, she will scold her if she doesn't eat at home. At that time, I would cry when washing diapers, but now I am sick with my baby. Because of confinement, the relationship between Yuling and her mother-in-law completely broke down. She understands that it is useless to be kind to her mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law really doesn't like herself.

Since then, Yuling no longer cares about her mother-in-law, not cooking for her, but washing her own clothes. My mother-in-law always finds fault with Yuling when she sees her change. Yu Bin was caught in the middle and kept silent in the bedroom every time.

On one occasion, Yu Bin suddenly asked Yuling, "You have to make a chicken fly a dog to jump at home every day. Why do you have to confront my mother? " Can't you make way for her? "Hearing him say this, Yuling felt terrible, but she didn't quarrel with him. Since then, the two have not spoken for a month. This is their first cold war.

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Since then, Yu Bin often used overtime as an excuse to go home very late. Yuling knew that her husband was afraid to go home and see Yuling arguing with her mother-in-law. However, Yuling also has a lot of grievances to say, but Yu Bin is impatient every time. Over time, Yuling never told him the truth again.

On that occasion, Yu Bin came home from a business trip, and her mother-in-law was very happy, so she packed jiaozi for him to eat. Yu Bin likes leeks, but Yuling doesn't like leeks. The mother-in-law deliberately made things difficult for Yuling, so the bags were filled with leeks.

Yuling didn't eat jiaozi stuffed with leeks after serving. She just ate the order. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law complained in front of Yu Bin that Yuling disliked herself and often cooked for herself. Then he pretended to cry.

Yuling was very angry when she saw her appearance, pointing to her and confronting her. When two people quarreled, Yuling was so angry that she dropped the plate containing jiaozi directly.

The fall angered Yu Bin. He pointed at Yuling and scolded, "How dare you throw something at my mother? I think you are spoiled by me! You apologize quickly! "

Yuling was very angry and didn't listen to Yu Bin at all. On impulse, Yu Bin slapped Yuling.

My mother-in-law is still applauding: "Good son, well played! This kind of woman should fight! See if she dares to talk back to me in the future. "

Yuling's heart is completely dead. She has no nostalgia for this family and is very disappointed with Yu Bin. So in the following month, she and Yu Bin went through the divorce procedure.

On the day of the divorce, she said to her mother-in-law, "Mother-in-law, you ruined our marriage because of a jiaozi. Are you satisfied? " Yuling left this sad home, her husband who couldn't handle it clearly, and her unruly mother-in-law.