People's growth should be done slowly day and night, but this subtle change is often ignored by us.

It seems that overnight, we went from childhood to middle age and old age.

This is the terrible thing about time. It disappeared quietly. Just when you are not interested in the pendulum on the wall and the calendar on the desk, you can catch less and less time.

Sorting out old books that day, I dug out a photo from a pamphlet, which was my photo before the college entrance examination.

It should be around the end of last century 1994, more than 20 years ago.

Look at yourself in the photo at that time: simple clothes, shy eyes, young face ... and most importantly, you have thick black hair.

This hairstyle has left me for many years.

Now the hair is sparse, and the first half is even extremely yellow, which has a bad influence.

Every time I see myself in a photo or video, the top of my head makes me sad, as if I saw an unhappy middle-aged uncle.

Black hair, where have you been?

I remember when I was at school, I was influenced by Little Tiger, Mark or some other stars on the poster for a while. Some of my classmates are keen on washing their hair. They wash their hair several times a day and put it in a small bag with soft or head & shoulders. The most pleasant thing is to comb your hair into three parts after washing your hair, so that some hair can be scattered on your forehead and even block your eyes. When talking to people, you must shake your head smartly.

Is that black diluted in the stream of time? Is it dyed white by the wind and frost of the years? Just like the dense blue-green algae was blown away by the wind, only a few swaying aquatic plants were left.

Does black fade away in life and work? There is a lot of hair on the pillow towel when I get up every day, which is also my youthful spirit.

When we are young, we seldom imagine ourselves getting old, as if we would be young forever. Occasionally pretending to sigh deeply is also a kind of pretense that teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow. Under these disguises, we begin to grow old.

Because the rainbow is curved, it is also called rainbow bridge, which means communication. This reminds me of the people who are fighting floods all over Yili at the moment, the traffic police and highway maintenance personnel guarding the "Ili Gate", the visiting team members scattered in every village, and the grassroots cadres ... They should have rainbows in their hearts, so that they are not afraid of suffering, can get through the mountain roads, and can connect the feelings between the people and the government, the people and cadres, and even strangers.

I also thought of those college students who kept taking exams and submitting resumes during graduation season. Their job requirements have always been lower than their psychological demands. Maybe they need a rainbow between them and their employers, or a reminder from the media, intermediaries and even acquaintances. These kind and concrete help may connect them with a beautiful seven-color life.

When we are old, we often miss ourselves when we were young. When we look at ourselves in the mirror and in the photo, we will feel and sigh.

It is said that Jin Dong and Wu Xiubo are the representatives of "old cadres" and "uncles" who are very popular in film and television circles, with mature manners, elegant manners, moist and round hair and gray hair. However, it always comes from TV and stories.

And "baldness" represented by Murphy and Le Jia is not something everyone can do.

Around us, most people still want to be young, don't want wrinkles to climb on their foreheads too early, and hope that those bloody, passionate and colorful days can last longer.

In the past two years, a song has been sung by people, "Where has the time gone? Yes, where has the time gone? How did our unforgettable past become a vision step by step? How did our friends who thought we could watch for life get separated in the crowd?

Whenever I see young people with yellow hair, red hair and flaxen hair, I will say that I look good, but I actually want to say that cherishing black hair represents a good time.

At our age, almost everyone has a "Xiao Fang" in his heart and "two long braids" in his dream, which is the totem of our innocent age.

In the middle of the year, when the top of the head is getting more and more barren and the hairline shrinks, you must look up at 45 degrees when taking pictures to avoid a lot of embarrassment. When "baldness" and "extreme" must rely on "local support for the central government", we must realize frankly and sadly that we are old.

The aging of the body begins with a bulging abdomen, panting when going upstairs, arrows on the physical examination list and blurred vision. ...

It starts with falling black hair, subtle and slow, but it will not reverse.

Cai Lipeng