First, interpersonal communication.
When college students enter the campus, they face classmates from all corners of the country, and then there will be interpersonal problems, which will lead to troubles. According to the information revealed by the symposium on adolescent psychological problems held by the Ministry of Health last year, 16% to 25.4% of college students have psychological barriers, and more than half of them are confused about interpersonal communication, which has become the biggest psychological problem for college students. Contemporary college students have cognitive, emotional and personality obstacles in communication under the negative influence of some bad interpersonal relationships in current society and the limitations of their own knowledge structure, psychology and cognitive ability.
At present, college students' communication difficulties are mainly manifested in their inability to live and act independently, their inability to communicate, their inability to understand the skills and principles of communication, their tendency to be autistic and difficult to communicate, their tendency to communicate for the sake of communication, their willingness to go with the flow at the expense of the principle of being a man, and their tendency to have psychological problems.
Second, confusion about the future.
After entering the university, most college students will be at a loss and feel confused about the future, but the confusion in the university is also beneficial and only temporary. If you have been confused, you may need to reflect and find a direction for yourself.
Compared with high school, four years in college is much more leisure. This part of leisure time may have created your confusion, but this part of leisure time just gives us the opportunity to choose freely and broadens our horizons. We can keep trying and learning to find the future direction. After all, college can be said to be a transitional period of employment after graduation. In the meantime, try to find your own direction in life, which is inevitable.
There are many kinds of confusion, such as being unfamiliar with the major, not interested in the major, confused about the future development direction and so on. University is destined to be a relatively lonely journey. If you find that your current major is not suitable or interesting, then look for other opportunities, such as changing your major, such as minoring in a second major, or learning something by yourself. If you are confused about the future development direction, you might as well talk to the instructor and the outstanding seniors and sisters in the same major, but it is always right to study hard. Moreover, there are so many interesting activities in the university, so try to get yourself involved, so there is no time to be confused. Exploring the future itself is a confusing thing, but there is no need to be overly anxious. Let‘s cross the bridge when we come to it.
Don't speak out of turn about who you pay for and who you sacrifice for. In fact, the ultimate beneficiary of all efforts and sacrifices is yourself. Therefore, although college students will have troubles, these troubles will make them better themselves. Whose university has no troubles, although it is normal, what we have to do is to get rid of it and welcome the future.