In the 1980 s, there was great pressure to choose, and they were not in a good growth environment from the beginning. In the changing times. I passed the education reform, but also entered the society when I was ignorant, and now I am also facing such great pressure.

Financial pressure

The mortgage and car loan have been used for more than ten years and twenty years, and now I don't know if they have not been paid back. At this age, the job is not high or low, and the position is embarrassing. Almost the same amount of money, there is not much left after paying off the loan, as well as the living expenses of the children and the subsidies at home. Children's expenses are also quite a lot, and the living expenses add up to a lot of odds and ends. There are also elderly people who need financial support, and the pressure is really great.

working pressure

At this age, my position in the company is very embarrassing. I don't have much money to do I can only work hard to make a living, want to be promoted and make some achievements. After various reasons, I can only choose to live in society.

Family pressure

There are parents to raise, so we should set aside time to take care of them. Although it is necessary, the pressure is really great. The following children still have to provide it. Today's children want the best of everything, and they are afraid of worse education. The arrangement of remedial classes cannot be without concern. Every now and then, they have to take time out to spend more time with them.

Marital pressure

When people reach middle age, love will become family affection, but family affection also needs to be cared for and cannot be left behind all the time. We should use our heart and energy to maintain our family.

In the 1980 s, there was a lot of pressure, old and young, and I had my own work to take care of. Once a warm-blooded young man has been turned into a greasy middle-aged man with a big beer belly by life, but he still has to work hard for the people who love him.