The university does not prohibit falling in love, but it does not encourage or support being too focused on falling in love during the university. In college, students' learning and growth are the first, and excessive love may affect their academic and personal growth.

First of all, college is an important stage for students to learn professional knowledge. During this period, students need to concentrate on their studies, master solid knowledge and skills, and lay a foundation for their future career. Moreover, love may distract students' attention, lead to distraction in study and decline in grades. Therefore, universities do not encourage students to be too involved in love during their studies.

Secondly, college students are in the transitional stage from adolescence to adulthood, which is one of the most critical stages in life. During this period, students are experiencing great changes and growth both physically and psychologically. Paying too much attention to love may affect students' social and interpersonal relationships, and may also make students fall into emotional difficulties, which is not good for their growth and mental health.

Thirdly, the campus culture and values of universities also encourage students to pay attention to personal growth and development. On campus, students have many opportunities to participate in various club activities, competitions and practical activities, which are platforms for students to fully display their talents and realize their self-worth. Excessive involvement in love may make students lose these opportunities and miss opportunities for personal growth and development.

Of course, this does not mean that universities do not allow students to fall in love. During college, students are free to choose their own lifestyle and partners. However, it should be noted that love should not be the whole of students, nor should it be the reason for students to give up their studies and personal growth.

Finally, as college students, we should be clear about our goals and missions. Learning is our main task, and love is just a part of life. Only on the basis of taking one's studies and self-growth seriously can one better face the challenges of love and other life.