Meng Ruipeng's mother was heartbroken and bedridden when she lost her only son, and Meng Xianjie, her father, took pains to reassure her son. "My son is filial, so it's gone, and the sky is falling." Meng Xianjie still can't believe everything is true. In the eyes of his family, Meng Ruipeng is a "dutiful son". In order to "lighten the burden" on his parents, Meng Ruipeng took advantage of his winter and summer vacations and weekends to work, feeling distressed that his father had high blood pressure and bronchitis. Almost all the money earned from working is used to save medicine for my father. Afraid of his parents' fatigue, he squeezed time to go home and did it himself with his home 10 mu of land. "He remembers harvesting wheat and weeding faster than me. He always calls me in advance and waits for him to go back. " Meng Xianjie suffocated and became speechless.
There are two books on Meng Ruipeng's humble desk, one is called "Doing Three Points and Being Seven Points". Next to the two books is a thin stack of stationery, which reads: "A whole winter vacation is coming to an end, and I have done almost nothing for two months. I've been thinking about it all day, and the word' love' is all I can think about. After all, I can't escape the invasion of evil forces ... "Meng Ruipeng, a 24-year-old college student (2065438+February 2005), has left her job. However, the controversy about whether he fell into the water because of his bravery or his own slip has intensified. In fact, from the moment the incident happened, Meng Ruipeng's relatives and friends and the family members of the drowning children gave different descriptions of the incident.
The rescued party said that three people fell into the water together.
Lu Moumou, the mother of the two rescued children, said that she took three children to visit relatives in Xizhaolou Village that day, took three children to the Cultural Square after lunch, and then gradually walked into the corridor on the artificial lake. Her 7-year-old daughter and 3-year-old daughter accidentally fell into the water. Lumou said that there was no one else by the lake at that time. He called for help and pulled his little daughter up. Later, Lu's eldest daughter was rescued by Lu, a villager who heard the news. When we arrived to save Meng Ruipeng, it was too late.
"My mother and sister and I are playing in the pavilion. A man came and leaned against the guardrail, with one foot on the guardrail and playing with his mobile phone. At this moment, the guardrail suddenly broke, and the man, my sister and I both fell into the lake. " Lu's 7-year-old eldest daughter recalled.
Why didn't Meng Ruipeng wear a coat? Lu Moumou said that the coat might be for him or on his arm, but he didn't wear it. As for why Meng Ruipeng's mobile phone fell on the bench instead of in the water, Lu explained: "I saw a mobile phone fall on the ground, so I picked it up and put it on the bench in the pavilion." .
The Meng family denied that they wanted to clear their names.
As for Meng Ruipeng's drowning with two children, his family disagreed with Lu Moumou, the parents of the rescued child. Meng Ruipeng's family insisted that Meng Ruipeng drowned to save two drowning children. Meng Xianjie said that at two or three o'clock in the afternoon on February 26th, 20 15, he was working on the construction site when he suddenly got a call from Beibei (Meng Ruipeng's girlfriend) and asked him to go to Xizhaolou Village at once. Meng Xianjie immediately put down his work and rode a motorcycle with his wife to Xizhaolou Village. After arriving at the scene, Meng Xianjie only saw many onlookers, but didn't see his son. Meng Xianjie pushed aside the onlookers and saw his son lying on the ground. See this kind of situation, Meng now, Meng Ruipeng's mother suddenly sat down on the ground.
In order to clear his son's name, prove that he saved people from drowning, and prove that his behavior was a courageous act, Meng Ruipeng was still lying in the cold morgue of the hospital when the incident investigation didn't come out. Meng Xianjie said: "I also want my son to be buried first, but we are even more afraid that it will be difficult for us to quarrel after the funeral for our son." With my son gone, all I can do for him is to win back this good reputation for him. "Meng Xianjie said that the families of the rescued children did not admit that Meng Ruipeng was a courageous rescue, but fell into the water himself. Speaking of his son, Meng Xianjie was very uncomfortable and sighed from time to time. " Save other people's children, and your own children are gone. The families of the rescued children dare not come out and admit that Meng Ruipeng is an act of saving lives. Maybe they are afraid that we will bite back and ask them for compensation. People are gone, what's the use of compensation? "
Meng Ruipeng's girlfriend insisted that her boyfriend drowned to save the drowning children.
For Meng Ruipeng's drowning, Meng Ruipeng's girlfriend Lu Beibei also responded immediately, insisting that Meng Ruipeng drowned to save two drowning children.
According to Sister Beibei Lu's memory, on the day of the incident, when Meng Ruipeng came home, she was washing clothes with her sister in the yard. "He didn't say anything when he saw us washing clothes. After a few words with my brother, he said that he wanted to go to the village. " Lu Beibei's sister said that Meng Ruipeng then walked out of the house and just arrived at the door when she heard someone shouting in the north (the direction of the incident). Lu Beibei's sister said, "My uncle was at the door at that time. After hearing the shouts, I saw Meng Ruipeng speeding up and rushing to the shouting person. " Later, Lu Beibei and her sister rushed out of the door. When they arrived at the artificial lake, there was no Meng Ruipeng on the lake. Lu Beibei's sister heard from her neighbor that Meng Ruipeng ran over after hearing the cry and learned that someone had fallen into the water, so she took off her coat and jumped into the lake. After the two children were rescued ashore, only one palm of Meng Ruipeng was left on the lake. Slowly, I can't see my palm. "Neighbors said that after seeing Meng Ruipeng jump into the water, he first lifted the child closest to the pavilion to the surface, and then tried to swim to the children in the distance." Lu Beibei's sister said. In this way, Meng Ruipeng and the villagers rescued the two children and sank to the bottom of the lake. On the gazebo, only his coat and mobile phone are left.
Sadly for Lu, the family members of the rescued child did not admit that Meng Ruipeng drowned to save the child. Lu Beibei's sister said: "When we arrived at the scene, many witnesses in the village said that Meng Ruipeng took off his coat and jumped into the water to save people." According to Lu Beibei, Meng Ruipeng is about 180 cm tall, and Meng Ruipeng is used to putting his mobile phone in his pants pocket. If the truth is as the parents of the rescued child said, why didn't his coat and mobile phone fall into the water? Lu Beibei said that when she and her sister arrived at the scene, none of the witnesses said that Meng Ruipeng fell into the water by himself, only that he was saving people.
It is understood that Meng Ruipeng and Lu Beibei fell in love on 20 10/25/0. "When he confessed to me, he said that he liked me." Lv Xiao spoiled him and asked him, "Will you always be good to me in the future?" At that time, Meng Ruipeng said to Xiao Lu, "Look at my performance." They have been in love for more than four years. Two years ago, Meng Ruipeng and Beibei Lu were long-distance lovers. In order not to let his girlfriend work hard, Meng Ruipeng always goes to his girlfriend. He said a man should have a sense of responsibility. On love anniversaries and girlfriends' birthdays, he always makes his own gifts. "His love for me has not decreased, but has increased." Xiao Lu cried and said that later, in order to make her concentrate on her studies, Meng Ruipeng often sent her meals. He said he would marry her when he graduated. But who knows, things change. In Meng Ruipeng's university dormitory, in the innermost part of the desk, there is a gift box with a ring in it.
Witnesses confirmed that the girl didn't see college students when she fell into the water.
On March 20 1 May 1 Day1,another witness of han cun Township Police Station said, "I saw two little girls and their mothers in the pavilion in the middle of the lake that day. When the child fell into the lake on the guardrail, I didn't see anyone else. " Witnesses and villagers said that after the two children fell into the lake, they heard their mother Lu Mou calling for help. In desperation, they ran to the nearest villager Lu Jia, picked up two sticks, one long and one short, and rushed over. On the way, the long stick was taken away from them. The villagers rushed to the scene and saw that one girl had been rescued ashore, and another girl was rescued soon, but there was still a pair of hands in the water and then she sank. ...
Netizens are hotly discussing.
Subsequently, Meng Ruipeng's story was quickly published by @ People's Daily, @ Headline, @ Global Times and other major media after being reported by the media, and tens of thousands of netizens lamented that "the hero died young". Meng Ruipeng's cousin Meng Xue (named @ Liu Xiaoliu _ Dadeser in Weibo) issued the Weibo statement, and the parents of two children decided to leave regardless of the life and death of the rescuer! And afraid of taking responsibility, I have been avoiding answering and refusing to admit the fact that the child was saved! Immediately, Weibo, the official of BBS Station of North China University of Water Resources and Hydropower, published a number of Weibo with the title # Parents Refuse to Admit that College Students Save Their Children from Drowning #. The mother of the drowning child lied to avoid responsibility, saying, "I want to express my deep apologies to all those who care about this matter ..."
2065438+At 23: 50 on March 1 2005, qingfeng county Public Security Bureau informed that it had been confirmed that Meng Ruipeng had fallen into the water to save people from drowning, and three other people were with him. Subsequently, the reporter immediately drove to the han cun police station in qingfeng county. At 0: 30 in the morning of March 2, Lu Moumou, the mother of the rescued child who has been claiming that Meng Ruipeng fell into the water for several days, finally told the truth. ...
2065438+On the afternoon of February 26th, 2005, Lu Moumou took three children to play by the artificial lake in Xizhaolou. His two daughters are playing by the railing of the pavilion in the middle of the artificial lake, facing north with their backs to the guardrail. At this point, the son ran to the other side, and Lu Moumou chased his son. Just then, two daughters playing at the railing of the pavilion fell into the water with a splash and the railing was broken. "At that time, my brain was blank. I don't know what to do when I experience this kind of thing for the first time. I'm just calling for help, help. Two children came to visit relatives, and there was no one in my family. Who knows if this happens, I will go home and face adults, my husband, my grandparents, and I will live forever ... "Lu said.
"After a minute or two, a boy came running from a distance, and that was Meng Ruipeng. After he came running, he said how did the child fall into the water? How did such a strong railing fall in? Then I took off my coat, threw my mobile phone on the ground, rolled up my sleeves and jumped down! After he jumped, my side was still calling for help and kept calling for help. "Lu Moumou said. The neighbor who heard Lu called ran quickly. As both children were wearing down jackets, they gradually floated on the water after falling into the water. The child said that his mother saved me, and his mother saved me, and it fluttered there, so the child put it aside to swim! "Lu Moumou said.
The younger daughter who was closer to Lu Moumou was pulled up by Lu Moumou, and then the neighbors who came to the pole quickly came to save the eldest daughter. And shouted, "Nell, swim here." I took a long wooden stick and approached Lu's eldest daughter a little bit, pulling her ashore. Then more and more people gathered and began to save Meng Ruipeng, but ...
The mother of the drowning child lied to avoid responsibility.
Then, why did Lu Moumou hide the fact that Meng Ruipeng drowned to save his two daughters from drowning, and why did he tell the truth at this time?
Lu Moumou said: "The child fell into the water and was rescued, but the boy was gone. I really don't know what to say. I can't afford to lose my life even if I lose everything. " Besides, we have no money and are local. Considering losing money, I still have three children, following my grandparents. What will my three children do if the police take me away and live in prison for decades? Considering this, I didn't tell the truth. However, in the past three days, I have been having a hard time with my conscience. I can't eat or sleep every day. Without that boy, my children would be gone, and I would care for them. /kloc-people born after 0/980 are heartbroken and their children are gone. I'm sorry, too. I feel very uncomfortable. I can't sleep and live in the shadows all my life. I'm afraid of this life. In this world, I'm afraid I can't survive the ups and downs. "
In addition, Lu Moumou's 7-year-old daughter said when the police came home to make a transcript, "My mother and sister are playing in the pavilion. A man came and leaned against the guardrail, with a mobile phone in his hand and one foot on it. At this moment, the guardrail suddenly broke, and the man, my sister and I both fell into the lake. " The words were also said at the behest of Lu Moumou. Lu Moumou said: "The child knows that I lied to her, and my mother was wrong. From now on, my mother will never do this again. I'm sorry, my conscience. The child also said to be an honest and trustworthy person and not to lie. When the child said this, I was in great pain. I am also sad to think that other people's children are no longer alive, and I am deeply sorry for causing trouble to everyone. I also express my deep apologies to all my colleagues. " My parents' good son.
"My child is very filial. I am very sad that the child is gone! " . Meng Xianjie, a 49-year-old father, has been in poor health, suffering from hypertension, bronchitis and other diseases, so Meng Ruipeng went online to check the hospital, find an expert and find a pharmacy to treat him.
Meng Xianjie and his wife do odd jobs in the town. They get up early and get greedy for the dark. Every time they go home, their son will cook a delicious meal. Seeing that his parents' clothes are dirty, he will take the initiative to wash their clothes. "When my aunt and uncle are tired after a day's farm work, he will wash their feet, pinch their feet and massage them." Cousin Meng Xue said. On October 20 15, when he came home for the Spring Festival, Meng Ruipeng also brought Hainan coconut powder to his parents.
Meng Ruipeng's filial piety to his parents made his girlfriend Lu Beibei feel deeply. He once said to Rebecca, "Come to my house in the future and don't quarrel with my mother. My mother just likes to mumble, and it's a little loud. If you two have problems, I won't ask why I quarreled with you. " Beibei Lu knew that if anything happened to his mother, he would be partial to her. But she was not angry at that time, just thought that since he could love his parents so much, he would be good to his parents.
Because his family is not very rich, Meng Ruipeng can't afford to go to college, so he has to apply for a student loan. When Meng Ruipeng was at school, she worked part-time to earn living expenses. Meng Xianjie said that although he was poor, his son was kind. "At school or on the road, when he meets people with difficulties and disabled people, he will walk over and give them some money."
"I am such a son. If I say no, I will leave. What can I do after that? " Meng Xianjie said that having only one child is in response to the call of national family planning.
Cousin's good brother
Unexpectedly, a meeting on the fourth day of 20 15 was Meng Xue's last farewell to Meng Ruipeng. After the accident, she has been paying attention to the progress of this matter, and has repeatedly sent Weibo to express her family's demands. In Meng Xue's impression, Meng Ruipeng has always been a particularly sensible and filial child. Although Meng Xue works in other places and doesn't go home much, "it's his good to think about it now."
At home parties, he always helps women wash vegetables and cook, and he is never idle. Knowing that the economic conditions at home are not very good, he does some part-time jobs in the university every year to earn some living expenses. He even worked in the south for two years and didn't go home during the Spring Festival. After returning, he used the money from working to buy gifts for his 80-year-old grandmother and his 78-year-old cousin.
"In a chat, he happened to know my mother's birthday. On his birthday, he called to say hello and mailed a gift. " She said, "My mother was so happy at that time."
Meng Ruipeng likes to chat with this cousin who is five years older than him. When he first went to college, he also wondered whether he should run for class monitor or join the party. Meng Xue usually analyzes the pros and cons for him. "He is also a very independent person, and finally he makes up his own mind." In Meng Xue's view, it turns out that he is also very capable. He is a good monitor and has great prestige in his class.
Meng Ruipeng likes dealing with people very much. He once revealed to Meng Xue that he would minor in psychology if there was an opportunity in the future, so that he could help more people with psychological difficulties. Because he majored in French, he also wanted to study in France, and "take the Wan Li Road" to learn more.
Girl friend's boy
This could have been an avoidable tragedy. It turned out that because his girlfriend Lu Beibei wanted to find a job after graduation, they agreed that Meng Ruipeng would go to Zhengzhou a few days in advance to accompany her to find a job. "Some people say that there are many MLM organizations there. He was afraid that I would be cheated, so I decided to go and see for myself first. "
I was scheduled to leave on the eighth day of the accident, but because he didn't start school until the eighteenth, he felt a little early. "If we had left, this wouldn't have happened, so I regret it now."
On the same day, he heard someone shouting at the door of Lu Beibei's house and rushed outside.
In Lu Beibei's mind, Meng Ruipeng is a responsible, caring and motivated boy. When we are together, Meng Ruipeng is willing to imagine a bright future and design a plan. Even at some point, they have begun to plan what the house will be decorated, what color the walls should be, what curtains to buy, and whether the bed should be round or rectangular. "We discussed that the style must be warm."
Meng Ruipeng said that the children's room should be painted light blue. "I don't agree, asking for pink, which is controversial. In the end, he compromised. I once jokingly asked if I liked boys or girls. I said that I like girls, and he also said that he deliberately wants boys. "
He also said that he would work hard to go to Africa through school. "The salary there is high, and you can marry me in a few years." Lu Beibei said.
Of course, Meng Ruipeng left him more than that. They went to work in Shanghai during the winter vacation of their freshman year. Although in the same factory but in different groups, once Lu Beibei wanted to go to dinner with the people in the group, but Meng Ruipeng was not at ease, so she had been sitting on the edge of the flower bed in the factory waiting for Lu Beibei. "He said that in case of an accident, he could get there as soon as possible."
Opposite Ruipeng's desk, he wrote himself a note: Challenge weakness and reject vanity.
Lu Beibei said that she likes practicing calligraphy very much, and she writes decent and inspirational words, such as Dapeng spreading her wings and being ambitious.
"He has a word that this is for me. I thought it was too ugly and didn't want it. I will get it back later. "
Students' good monitor
"Meng Ruipeng is a very good person and has a good relationship with his classmates. He is more real, right is right, wrong is wrong, and will not be ambiguous. On the contrary, his classmates support him and his teacher likes him. " Lu Beibei said.
The reaction of teachers and classmates also verified this point.
After the accident, some students and teachers in Meng Ruipeng also expressed their condolences online. A classmate named Miniature 365 said, "His name is Meng Ruipeng. He is our monitor. He usually doesn't talk much. He is modest and helpful. Everyone in the class got his help more or less and studied very hard. "
"Everyone's courage comes from the belief they want to protect", which is Meng Ruipeng's QQ signature, and he also proved it with his own practical actions.
"Ruipeng self-sacrifice to save lives has finally been confirmed, and he can go at ease. Tomorrow, our Ruipeng will be buried. In the name of the teacher, I beg you to light a candle for our good students to light the way home. In fact, this candlelight is also lit for each of us. He will let us see the goodness, love, beauty and persistence in human nature. " Netizen "new 1996" said.
Mourn for one's alma mater
2065438+March 7, 2005 is the first day of school in North China University of Water Resources and Hydropower after the winter vacation. Through media reports, almost all the students know the news that Meng Ruipeng, an alumnus, saved lives and died. At 9: 00 am on the 7th, the "Learning from Meng Ruipeng Mobilization Conference" was held in the first lecture hall of the school. Next, the school will also carry out activities to learn from heroes through memorial services, reports and other forms. The statue of the hero is located where he died.
Meng Ruipeng, a post-90s college student and young hero in Puyang, has been dead for more than four months, but it seems that he has never gone far. ...
20 15 On June 6th, a statue of Meng Ruipeng was placed next to the lotus pond in Xizhaolou Village, han cun Township, qingfeng county to commemorate his life-saving deeds.