At present, many parents in China have been questioning whether children's emotional intelligence should be valued from an early age. Now let's discuss it together. Many parents complain in front of teachers and colleagues more than once: I give their children whatever they want, and they don't want him (her) to do anything at home, as long as he (she) has good academic performance. However, the child not only has poor grades, but also loses his temper easily. In fact, this is the result of the lack of EQ education. Daniel Gorman, a professor at Harvard University in the United States, believes that "EQ is the key to success in life". It is predicted that the talent competition in 2 1 century is not only the competition of IQ, but also the competition of EQ. 1995, Daniel, a professor of psychology at Harvard University, USA? Gorman put forward the concept of "emotional intelligence". Research and practice have proved that among many subjective factors of success, IQ accounts for about 20%, while EQ accounts for about 80%. Whether a person has high emotional intelligence is closely related to childhood education and training. Therefore, the cultivation of emotional intelligence should start from an early age. In some developed countries such as the United States, their EQ course is a compulsory course, which is more important than physical education class! Traditionally, IQ is the main factor that determines the fate of life, but in fact, we find that people with high IQ may not be successful or have a good fate. And those whose IQ is as high as 160 are always working for those whose IQ is only 100. If a person's IQ is low, but his EQ is high, EQ can tap the greatest potential of IQ and exert the greatest effect of IQ, thus promoting people's development and success. If IQ and EQ are low, then this person is mediocre; If the IQ is high, but the EQ is low, this person has excellent grades in school, but he may not succeed in going to society; For example, people with high IQ and EQ are bound to create outstanding achievements and achieve great success. Therefore, EQ education has become an urgent task in today's society, and we should pay more attention to it. Especially for teenagers in China, we should strengthen the cultivation of their EQ and let them show their bright future.