It's not a question of how much she owes. It's that there is something wrong with her fundamental thinking. Forget it once in a while, but she has done it many times. In order to satisfy his vanity, he borrowed money again and again to buy things he couldn't afford. Can you make a living by yourself? Are you really at ease to give her your home in the future? Even if you give her 1 10,000, she can spend 2 million with you.
There are many bottomless black holes in life. If you fall, it's hard to get up. Be careful step by step, and stay away from these abyss with big mouth and attractive breath. My girlfriend fell inside, not very deep. Maybe you can reach out and give her a hand. But now that she's in it, she's likely to drag you into it.
One thing is very clear. If a person can't resist his own desires, can't tell the truth from the false, can't work and live in a down-to-earth way, and always fantasizes about getting money easily, then he will definitely get his head broken. Not only do you harm yourself, but also your family and partners, making them restless.
So, you should stay away from people who owe huge sums of money. After all, she is not a relative now, and it doesn't hurt you very much. In case you are deeply in love and can't get out of this love vortex, don't disclose your financial situation to each other, otherwise it will also cause unnecessary losses. If she is still stubborn and continues to borrow money to buy other things, then make a clean break, otherwise the final result may be that both people and money are empty.
People who have always loved you will not hide their financial situation and secretly owe so much money. It is estimated that your future road is still a little difficult, so I advise you to end this relationship as soon as possible.