You see, after all, junior high school roommates have a maximum of three years, senior high school roommates have a maximum of three years, and college roommates generally have four years. In terms of the length of time, college roommates are slightly better. Look at the mental fit. First of all, except a few cases, everyone's IQ is basically the same. Like my college roommate, there were eight people in my freshman year. On the first day when eight people met, they found that the difference in their college entrance examination scores was absolutely no more than three points. The difference in grades is so small that it is simple and rude to see that the IQ level is equivalent. Under this premise, coupled with the heavy academic pressure of the university, we are less free and pursue, and less childish.
More importantly, after graduating from college, it is very likely that all of them will stay in big cities for development. For example, there are eight people in our dormitory. Now there are two in Guangzhou and three in Shenzhen, and the proportion of big cities is more than half, so there are often more opportunities to get together in the same city. Also, if you don't pursue further studies after graduating from college, your college roommates are basically your closest friends when you were a student.
At present, my status is 0.5 years after graduation, and the graduation time is short. In the dormitory, eight people gather at zero, six people gather 1 time, five people gather 1 time, four people gather three times, and two people gather 1 time. What about you? When did you graduate? How many times do you get together in your dormitory?
Feelings in the dormitory have always been good. I still remember that at noon on the day after school, we made a promise at the rice rolls store at the school gate: "Get together every year, get together every three years, get together as much as possible, get together as much as possible." Get together, no husband, no children. "At that time, it was quite far-sighted. Husband and children are already planned, but seven people still live a single dog life after graduation for half a year.
In their freshman year, Y and R made a bet on who would be the first to leave the dormitory. At that time, only W was in love, so I guessed it was someone else. As a result, four years later, W broke up, talked about another one, and the other seven were still one person. There is no winner in this gamble. This tells us ... not everything can get better ... God can do anything to make you lose, such as leaving seven big girls as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade alone.
X said that you didn't fall in love for four years in college because you gave your boyfriend everything he could. Aside from the speculation that we dragged her down in love, it was actually a little touched. I don't know until I work. You always have someone to accompany you in class, eating, walking, exercising, shopping, laughing and crying.
After work, everyone began to get busy and began to have a new circle. College roommates are not that close. Perhaps from the beginning of alienation, they have no contact and become the most familiar strangers. I'm sure this future is not what I want. It took four years and fate to gain mutual familiarity and trust. I don't want to be so far away from this warmth. If we can continue! I am willing to pick up the warmest memories after every big party and record them in words.
20 16 12 3 1 On Saturday, at 7: 20 pm, I went to this dormitory for a date on New Year's Eve with X who got off work in a hurry and got on the bus. The destination is Huicheng Daya Bay. In fact, New Year's Eve is not lively at all. Instead, I watched the video together with a touch of peace of mind, just like the days when I went back to college to catch up with the drama, which was inexplicably safe. On New Year's Eve, we also took a family photo with a sense of the 1980s. R and M are sitting in front, standing behind us like mom and dad, and the background is a landscape poster with a sense of the times. Let's send pictures to feel the feeling of the 80 s (keep a little mystery)
20 1 7 65438+1October1,a group of people naturally woke up. This is also a tacit understanding in our dormitory. In fact, going out with other friends will always arrange a whole day's itinerary, and you must go out to play at six or seven in the morning. But only with roommates, we always sleep until we are full, drink enough wine, wake up naturally and go out for a walk. Very leisurely, very leisurely. We chose Chongqing and Chengdu for our graduation tour. The imaginary graduation tour is that you can drag your slippers around the streets after waking up naturally, foraging for the most authentic snacks, and sitting down to play mahjong on a whim ... In fact, you just achieved leisure and happiness, and you are naturally awake and happy. I really want to travel with you again. In fact, this idea is really a waste of time compared with the students' graduation tour, but because it is you, I am willing to waste a good time together.
Later, I read Li Yuansheng's poem "I want to spend my time with you", and I realized that this is also a kind of beauty, and I want to spend it with you.
I want to waste time with you, such as looking down at the fish.
For example, put the teacup on the table and leave.
Waste their beautiful shadows
I also want to waste the sunset, such as walking.
Kill all the stars
I have to waste time when it's windy.
Sit in the hallway and stare blankly until there are dark clouds in your eyes.
It was blown out of the window.
I wasted the world, and it passed me by.
Tired, like never being loved.
But I will do it again tomorrow, wasting my time.
There are flowers and plants everywhere, and life should be as beautiful as them.
As meaningless as a wasted movie.
Desperate love and death
Bring us a short silence.
I want to waste it with you
A wasteful silence, a long meaningless silence.
Kill the delicate and ancient universe together.
For example, leaning against the railing and looking down at the mirror of water.
Until everything is wasted.
Behind us, thin wings have grown.
We went to "Why Shengxiao Mo" to shoot Shili Silver Beach in Mauritius and pretended to travel to Mauritius.
"With that person in my life, everyone else will make do. I don't want to make do."
This sentence touched countless people and became a witness to our dormitory feelings.
We sat by the sea, with sunset and company, singing together and chatting casually.
We keep this moment with the most beautiful photos and look forward to our next meeting. We cheer for each other together and have more courage to move on after separation. That's good.
20 17, life moves forward and the story continues.
20 17 where are your college roommates? How are they? Can we make an appointment to get together and talk about the stories of these years?