College students are mature adults and have the ability to decide their own social circle. Some students don't have a wide range of communication, only on campus, and some students expand their social circle to the outside. People outside school have more social experience and know more things, and they may learn a lot from it, but there is still a big difference between interpersonal communication outside school and communication inside school. We must pay attention to the scale of communication and beware of fraud. In addition, whether in-school or out-of-school communication, we must not put the cart before the horse.

1, pay attention to the propagation scale. In the student stage, everyone's mind may be relatively simple, but it is different outside the school and inside the school. Because all kinds of people in society, it is inevitable that people with impure purposes will be mixed in. Therefore, in the process of communicating with people outside the school, we should pay attention to protecting our personal information and personal safety, and don't relax our vigilance easily, especially don't trust outsiders too much. For people with extreme violent tendencies, we must stay away from them, always grasp the scale of communication, and it is best not to get too close.

2, pay attention to prevent being cheated. This actually applies to interacting with anyone. It is good to be kind to the world, but we can't ignore the possible deception and malice in this world, because in the face of deception, our kindness and simplicity are the best tools they can use. Whether in love or in the process of interacting with friends, don't hold back on each other when they are not familiar with each other. To avoid being cheated by feelings or money, we must stay away from improper behaviors such as loans.

3, can not delay learning. The study atmosphere in universities is relatively relaxed, but it doesn't mean that we can relax the requirements for our own study, especially because of interpersonal communication. You can't spend too much energy on other things. College students should still focus on learning. If you delay your study because of off-campus communication, you will lose more than you gain.