Some people say that it is never too old to learn. As a student, Yuan Tao is tired of his desire for learning. He publicly criticized Fudan University and expressed his dissatisfaction with the school. Finally, he insisted on dropping out of school, which caused criticism. What is the current situation?
Being admitted to a prestigious school, high expectations set the stage for dropping out of school.
Yuan Tao was born in an ordinary family. His parents are not dignitaries or businessmen, but ordinary employees. The family's hope for Yuan Tao is to be admitted to a famous school. Only in this way can we really change our destiny through learning. At this point, Yuan Tao realized his parents' wishes.
In the year of college entrance examination, Yuan Tao was admitted to Fudan University with a score of 59 1. His teachers and classmates congratulated him, and his parents were happy for his children. Even Yuan Tao himself is full of yearning for the future, thinking that if he can be admitted to Fudan University, he will have a bright future. Unexpectedly, it is this high expectation that ruined my future.
Parents expect their children to have a bright future, and students insist on dropping out of school, which leads to criticism.
In Yuan Tao's eyes, a famous school like Fudan must have a strong learning atmosphere, and its teachers are all well-known professors. But not long after, to Yuan Tao's disappointment, the teacher's lecture style was completely different from his own expectations, and he was confused about the future.
In the process of eating in a restaurant, eating bamboo pieces of chopsticks immediately made Yuan Tao fly into a rage, so he wrote a post against the school canteen and asked the school to change chopsticks. It was this post that made him a network celebrity in the school, and it was this post that made him fall into a bottomless pit.
A post was praised and forwarded by many students. Yuan Tao thinks he is very popular. In his later studies, he repeatedly wrote posts against his alma mater, and as a result, he was poured with cold water. After several times in a row, the relevant person in charge of the school talked with him and prepared to criticize and correct me. As a result, Yuan Tao dropped out of school in a rage.
Parents think that if they are admitted to the university, they will have a bright future. Unexpectedly, their children insisted on dropping out of school, parents were disappointed, teachers and classmates were messy, and the school also expressed helplessness. It was Yuan Tao who gave up his dream, and his life was doomed to be difficult.
Give up your dreams, life is always difficult.
After dropping out of school, Yuan Tao did not reflect on himself. Instead, he publicly declared that he was not a graduate of Fudan University, and cut off contact with his alma mater, thinking that he would be prosperous by doing so. Little did he know that it would make himself more difficult next.
Dropping out of school early, without a college degree, it is very difficult to find a job and hit a wall countless times. Most enterprises refuse because they have no academic qualifications. And that unknown past, if a company knew about it, would definitely not accept his application.
Finally, a company is willing to accept him. After all, he went to a prestigious school, and he still has the aura of a prestigious school. As a result, when he arrived at the company, Yuan Tao was also picky in every way and finally left the company. In his world, the world is too small, because there is no place to accommodate himself.
Now impetuous, how can we purify our minds and become useful talents?
Yuan Tao became what she is now, mostly because she was restless and too impetuous, which led to the interruption of her studies. If parents can teach calmly and children can study with peace of mind, every student can be a veritable top student and can be admitted to an ideal institution. In this impetuous era, how can I easily purify my mind?
1, the influence of family environment
The influence of family background on children is far-reaching. Parents think that children don't know anything, but they just can't express it. They see everything their parents do and know everything. So whether the family is harmonious or not has a great influence on children. Yuan Tao's personality is definitely directly related to his family. Tracing back to the source, parents can't get away from their responsibilities.
2. Parents' correct guidance
Parents are children's best teachers. Children don't know what parents mean. They all start with imitation. They do what parents do. Parents must be impatient, and children will develop such a character.
Many parents still have this problem at present. They play mobile phones and watch TV, but they want their children to study. This is because they didn't give good guidance. If parents are studying and let their children study, they will study with peace of mind. On the contrary, children will imitate their parents' behavior.
As the saying goes, taking history as a mirror can tell the rise and fall. Too many people read history and only remember the outline of the story, but forget the lessons that history wants to convey. Therefore, to cultivate children's character, start from an early age and start with a good classic of Chinese studies!